i have found blonde hair on my boyfriends car seat an i asked him were it came from an he said he doesnt know. But this is twice i have found it. An also when i ask him he gets angry. Idnt know what yo do pls help is he cheatin on me.
2007-03-06 07:47:08 · 11 answers · asked by katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hes cheating
2007-03-06 08:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by нσℓℓуωσσ∂ ηєνєя ℓσσкє∂ тнιѕ gσσ∂ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight up that you need to know now before things get taken to the next level - are you or are you not cheating on me?
But if you're feeling like you really can't trust him, then I hate to say it but it's probably better that you end things now rather than later when it would hurt so much more. You can't be in a relationship with someone unless you trust them. I will admit though, that finding hair in his car seems kinda petty. Is there some other behaviour that might indicate it, something other than hair and him getting angry when you ask him? He may just get mad because he doesn't like that you doubt him like that....basically you have to decide for yourself but I hope everything works out once you have your sit down with him.
2007-03-06 15:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by JD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to tell you but it may not be cheating like he slept with her but daymn sure sounds like someone he could of taken out before. You never know if he is getting so pissy about it everytime you confront him about it, maybe he have something to hide. I mean i know my answer is not the best out there but just think of it this way. If you had a good reason and explanation to why you have blond hair on your car seat, would you say 'i dont know' and then get pissy about it, or you would of said what it really was (if it was something innocent) like " probably my coworker who i dropped off to work the other day". But to think of it he didnt even have time to make up something like this or answer with a good explanation like this because he is guilty of something. Otherwise there would of been good explanation, dont you think. And why would you get mad if i had to ask you about this again? What makes you so mad? The fact that i got your cracked and you are so exposed in doing something dirty? I am sorry girlie girl but i think this behavior is pointing against him. So its your decision now to think of whether you going to put up with his lies or you going to suck it up and move on with him. Just think of it like that, if that was an innocent encounter of him giving some blond hair woman a lift then why not to tell you, IF THAT WAS JUST IT? But answer was I dont know! Wow.....good luck sweety and so sorry about this.
2007-03-06 16:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by BK thang 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well take it from a old hand! if it looks like a pig and it smells like a pig then usually its a pig. if none of his friends have blond hair that long or any of his family members and he gets mad when you ask about it then he is cheating. if you want to know for sure have him fallowed or you do it.personally its do or die you either take him at his word and forget it or find out for sure.
2007-03-06 15:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by leather_2000_27203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the blonde hair is long, yes
2007-03-06 15:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by lilmiss_minnie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he isnt hidding stuff then why would he get so mad...try finding out if he talks to ay girls with blond hair... keep a close eye on him... he could be hceating... good luck
2007-03-06 15:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by lovepixiek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant tell you if hes cheating on you.. how would i know.. just coz you found blonde hair on the seat?..
2007-03-06 15:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok put an old condom some were he will see it not the 1s he uses and get mad if he asks u make um jelly
2007-03-06 16:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would quit talking to him, or find a way to get even.
2007-03-06 15:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by Roxy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
set up a trap.
2007-03-06 15:55:00 · answer #10 · answered by Shelly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋