what do i do?

Question

okay so heres the deal.
my boyfriend and i well things arent going to great,
like he proposed to me about a month ago and i told him if were still together when im 18(2 years) then yeah. hes 19.

and last night four of my guy friends showed up drunk as hell and wouldnt stop hitting on me and i beat the **** outta one of them then asked them all to leave and they wouldnt. so i called my boyfriend and told him what was goign on and hes all im so stoned babe call me in the morning. then i sent him a message like an hour later telling him waht happend, which was that they wouldnt leave or stop hitting on me so i went and slept in the bathroom/
no big deal. right?

okay well then today i check his page and all the pictures of me and him are off.
i find out hes been hanging out with his ex.
hes with his ex now at the hot springs.
and he wont answer any of my calls or call me back.

Am i freaking out over nothing and being a psycho girlfriend
or should i be worried?

i really love this guy.
i dont no what to do,


any advice?

Answer 1

now this is going to sound harsh, but, you're young, go out and have fun. you're far too young to even be in such a serious relationship.

sounds like he's not ready to commit either even though he proposed, move on, forget about him, seems like he's doing the same

Answer 2

You pretty much broke it off. Saying "if were still together in 2 years" is a pretty quick way of turning an already insecure boyfriend into a distant ex-boyfriend. Sorry, it just makes sense espacially concerning your dynamics with your other people in your life. I mean shouldn't he be over there already before they showed up if you guys were really serious about each other? On top of that this guy isn't after a hold hands when we can relationship, while seems like thats what your after. Two very different intensities there. Thats the said thing about proposals to thou, what do you do when they say no? I guess thats what makes it so exciting when they say yes... Ether way you did the right thing, it just means you lost him for a couple years (most likely that well never materilize thou..). Its part of the game of love; Make Sure Your On The Same Page. Just be sad if you said yes when you really wanted to say no, so good job! And good job on being honest. O and another thing, don't let your friends control your home environment, thats just horriable, control your house, man that would make me feel so insecure about a girl if I was dating her. Sorry it just doesn't make any sense for a person to not be able to control there personal area, espacially with there "friends" and if you can't do that, how well do you handle other personal areas? Just something to think about, not to say you don't do good, but that can make a person insecure and unsure how to take you.