Me & my boyf been together for almost 5 years but i never Been introduced to any of his friends, he keep saying its not the right time & involving so many people around us will cost as problem but nothing more, and in the same time he don’t want to be introduce to my friends what is it exactly this behavior is it normal
2007-03-06 18:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by yassmin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its not normal. if he truly loves you, he would be proud and show you off to the world.=)
2007-03-06 18:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by WAHMaholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I were together for about 6 months before I introduced her to my family, because in the begining I did not feel it was the right time to do so. BUT if you two have been together for 5 years as you say, and he still has not introduced you and he does not want to be introduced to your friends. Means he has something to hide as in someone else on the side and he does not want to get caught. Sorry to say but that is probably the truth, best thing to do is put him in a posistion and say either I meet your Family or we are done and then you will have your answer if he is cheating on you.
2007-03-07 02:44:52 · answer #2 · answered by David 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal. He is disrespecting you by hiding you in the shadows and acting like you don't exist to the people in his life.
When do guys act like this? When they don't see a future with the girl and don't plan on sticking around. They don't see a long term future with the girl, so they don't want to bother with exposing her to his daily life and friends.
He is treating you badly. I have seen this happen before, where they guy is embarassed, or takes a long time to introduce the girl to his family. He never ends up marrying the girl. He doesn't take her seriously enough to introduce to his friends.
2007-03-07 02:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by shoshana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not normal he is either extremely jealous of you or ashamed but for what ever reason if after 5 years he hasn't introduced you to any of his friends you need to take a long hard look to see if you need to move on and find another b/f.
2007-03-07 03:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by firetdriver_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not right of him! 5 years!! it is not normal! i could see if you were dating for like 5 months then ok maybe you could be just a lil upset but 5 years, some things up with ur man!
2007-03-07 08:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Desi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a hidden life, he is either married or has a more serious girlfriend and they share the same circle of friends, by not introducing you he is keeping his other life fully intact while keeping you on the side, from a distance.....
2007-03-10 17:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is NOT normal!!!!! He is obviously hiding something or is just using you. You need to talk to him about it and maybe think about leaving him. Good luck!
2007-03-07 02:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's perfectly normal for a weirdo..I think you should give him an ultimatum...
2007-03-07 02:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i suspect he is married
2007-03-07 02:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by q6656303 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋