2007-03-06 05:34:04 · 29 answers · asked by olivier1uk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
further to certain answers - im not actually in love with someone online - im certainly having fun with a particular person - but its not love..........*winks*
im just wondering whether others think its possible
2007-03-08 06:09:49 · update #1
thats so weird, that could be me asking that question, and yes is the answer, i told ralph i thought i loved him, but i dont think his talking to me now, so i deleted him, it would be too emotional to have him online but not speaking to me, even for a little while, and he lives the other side of the world, and i'm hardly desireable so i thought it was for the best, mail for more info
2007-03-06 06:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jensen Ackles Girl (I Wish!) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, but you can certainly find a person interesting enough to want to know more about them.
That should be enough, considering the immense limits of online communications.
I've had it work both ways - where someone was interesting online and was not that way at all in person...and also where they were just as interesting in person as they were online. One never knows...but it's surely imperative to meet in person to make a determination.
Love is a big, heavy, serious thing. It's not to be taken lightly or passed out like candy at Halloween. It carries too much importance for that.
If someone seems interesting online, plan to meet them offline to see who they really are, but don't drop the LOVE bomb before you do. It's way too likely to blow up in your face !
2007-03-07 15:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by wrdsmth495 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a good start. I have met a few people online, but I wouldn't say it was love until we had been together in person. I met the only man I have ever loved online, and we had things in common and where able to talk comfortably when we finally did meet in person. Regretably after a year and a half of dating, and a total of two years of knowing eachother both online and in person the relationship did not work out. I have known a few people who have gotten married after meeting online. You just never know when/where you are going to meet the one.
2007-03-09 12:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by pisceswomanem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if people do then its a false love based on something created in your mind and not a realistic Love. Communication is a massive part of relationship and words without contact physically and with other senses such as sight and smell is like listening to a mono record rather than a record in stereo. I think many people have hearts broken because they base their relationships at first on an on line relationship, and some sort of romantic creation that only exists in their minds.
P.S. I'm totally a minger
2007-03-06 13:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by : 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that anyone can make themselves fall in love with anyone or anything if they truly want to. My question to you is-is there another relationship that you are involved in and perhaps its not satisfying? Also, if you are indeed in love with this person that you have only talked to over the internet, how do you even know what this person is actually like? How do you know they arent married with children, or how do you even know if they are even the gender that they say?? If you can get over not knowing those basic things and still love this person, then whats so wrong with it? Just be careful, the internet is a powerful tool that is alot of times abused!
2007-03-06 13:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by evansgirl78 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its easy to fall in love online, but so many people lie and tell you what they know you want to hear.
you can like the way someone treats you online, they might say the sweetest things, but they might be a violent person.
to really fall in love with someone you have to look into their eyes, hold their hand, make some sort of connection face to face.
real love doesnt end when your servers down.
if you think your in love over the internet then arrange a meet in a public place
2007-03-06 14:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by laneyb_1983 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can fall in love with the idea of the person. But surely loves comes from knowing someone. And talking to someone on the internet is not the same as face to face communication. body language, reactions etc.
g luck
2007-03-06 13:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by Rob 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you can fall in love with what is presented on line....but when you meet someone it's then that you really discover the true substance of a person. A person is so much more than what can be typed on line....facial expression, tone of voice etc. I think it's a good base to start wanting to see someone so you can really discover if they are for you.
2007-03-06 13:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you can fall in love on line. But remember,if you met in person maybe the fantasy would go.I think you need to get out in the real world meet someone for real. and put your internet lover behind you.Im sure there's hundreds of real people who would like to know you. Hey and hes probably 60 stone no hair and no teeth. xx take care
2007-03-06 13:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by lyn e 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. You don't truly know them. You only know the persona they've presented to you online-and there's a very real possibility much of that persona is false! To fall in love with someone you spend one to one time with them,know the true them-foibles and all.
2007-03-06 13:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋