emotional problem...wanna come out of it...plz help?

Question

i like this girl in my college whom i proposed a few months back. she ignored sayin that she is not interested to get into any serious relationships as such..since then, i msg her often and hav tried to convince her many a times which unfortunately has not worked...v always end up with a argument..few days bac, there was a serious misunderstanding b/w her and me for which she rly scolded me very badly..after a week she gave me a call and spoke as if she didn't do it intentionally..since then i dont msg her very often..if i dont msg her for a long time she sends me a msg to chk weather i rply or not..yesterday i got a msg from her saying..LOVING WAT U GET IS COMPROMISE,GETTIN WAT U LOVE IS SUCCESS, LOVING EVEN AFTER KNOWING TAT U WONT GET IS PURE LOVE,PURE LOVE IS SOMTHING WHICH IS GR8 IN THIS WORLD..i rly didnt understand wat she exactly meant by sending this to me after such a long gap..i truly love her and i somehow want to make her mine..wat do u guys think..will this wrk

Answer 1

She doesn't love you the same way you love her. You can't force someone .... or even make them love you. Listen ... if you continue to pesue something you will never get you are setting yourself up for failure. emotionally you are also hurting yourself a lot. i would cut her off. and try to love yourself first ... find happiness within yourself ... you can't offer someone something you don't have.

Answer 2

i don't think she loves u the way u want her to. she is saying that u can't have her true love that maybe she is in love with another. maybe u need to ask her what she meant. but if she doesn't feel the same abut u it is useless to keep trying with her, as she will only make your life a living hell.