I'm sad and confused. I don't know what to do! my brother got in a car accident. he did'nt get hurt, but an ond man died. he's terrified and so am I...
2007-03-06 05:48:16 · 13 answers · asked by Jacquie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Cry,,,all you want. This is very sad, I hope your brother wasn't driving under the influence, that would make it even harder to get through. Your brother will get through this hard time in his life, and with you by his side will give him the confidence he will need.
Be there for your brother and cry all you need to. You will get through this. Take Care
2007-03-06 05:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you might seek professional help, like a licensed Psychologist or a Clergyman you trust. For the moment, a quart of ice cold whole milk and a large box of malomars will give you a chance to slow down .
2007-03-06 05:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by squeezie_1999 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you talk about it with anyone you can. you cry about it if you can. please do laugh too if you feel like it. you really need to let the emotions you feel be free. things like these happen in life and we deal with them as best we can. If you feel you can't deal with it like you want to, then ask for some professional help. Most of the time a good conversation about something like this can lessen the worrysome feelings quite a bit and help you get over it.
2007-03-06 05:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always try to take my mind of it. you can write a letter by your self no music playing no tv as well. If you cry while writing keep going so let all your feeling out it fold it up and go outside to a safe place a burn it it helps me and can help you deal with your pain?
2007-03-06 05:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by Candy Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I surround myself with the people that I love, and I ask for a ton of hugs! There's a lot more to life than to be sad....it's normal, but it's still a part of life...so keep your chin up and be happy!
2007-03-06 05:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personalyl I usually turn to thinking about death, but it's not always the best thing to do, I listen to music alot... and I mean alot when I'm sad/depressed.
Good luck & Don't do anything dumb.
2007-03-06 05:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by »ŘªīńВŏŵ•Öf•Ρřįđę« 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things happen and its not always your fault. so be happy he's alive and i kno its easier said then done but look past death and live your life. and if your friends with the guy that died then show some respect by not mourning his death but rejoycing the days he lived.
2007-03-06 05:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well gurl im sad also my brother was in the school that got hit on march 1st, 2007, and got hurt real bad! im sorry about yours
2007-03-06 05:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Murder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take a nice hot shower and cry in there then i go and sit on the couch and cry while smoking a cigarette
2007-03-06 06:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im really sorry about what happened im not going to claim to be really religous or anything but when im really sad or something is going wrong in my life i try to talk to god and pray
2007-03-06 06:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋