Is he being disrespectful or have i being unreasonable? Blokes opinions please?

Question

I am 27, he is 22. He is an extremely good looking guy (think Raulph Lauren models!)
When we met 2 months ago, it was instant and mutual attraction.We started dating, had a very intimate time and great sex. We were close to each other,he contacted me almost every day. Suddenly i started getting upset with him for no reason and we had a bit of a fight. I suggested we split up because we need to study and because i can't handle being emotionally involved.. (we are both postgraduate students and its very stressful time for us) . He didn't want to split up, was very upset...i was upset ...we decided not to split up.
But he changed since that quarrel, became cold and distant, and we haven't met for 2 weeks now. We finally resolved the issues ( after my apology and him "taking time alone")but he isn't keen at all on seing me - he told me he is Fully booked this week. The guy is smart, do you think he is playing games or being disrespectful.. He is the one that always calls me?

Answer 1

Taking out your stress on someone you love changes your relationship and is extremely unfair. It sounds like his first reaction was to be hurt that you wanted to break up and now he is adjusting to the idea.

I would tell him that you need to see him immediately to see what is going on. If you wait a week, there is a good chance that he will break up with you by the end of it.

Take care,
Troy

Answer 2

I don't know what a bloke is but I'm gonna answer anyway.

I dont think that he is trying to being disrespectful, he probably is mad but he probably made those plans before you asked to see him. If it is a stressful time then the timing for the relationship was off and it still might be off until you two can get grounded again. Keeping yourself busy during depressing times is what is suppose to help you cope faster. It is easier to dwell then to move on. Sometimes love can be one-sided. You have more experience than he does so maybe you can teach him how your love works and that maybe you got scared and to start anew.

To conclude this, ask him when his schedule is clear and if he says, "I don't know I'm busy" that's a hint that he's moving on and you should too. When you do get him to be alone with you tell him how you feel and be honest. Honesty is the best policy and you'll know how far that you can go with him. Don't think about it too much. Perhaps you didn't think about it and it just happened. The best things happens when you just do what you gotta do.
Hopefully this helps a little. :)

Answer 3

you're able to be able to desire to comprehend that relationships choose 2 people to lead them to artwork. first of all, the actuality that he continuously calls you shud already inform you that he feels something for you on the least, and if i my ask, why dont u call him. it somewhat is comprehensible that heis slightly distant at present, i propose come on, u adult adult males rather much in simple terms broke up. i assume he's feeling slightly bit lack of self belief and thats why he trys to cover it up by potential of staying remote from you. He doesnt choose to get to addicted to you and then the subsequent minute u tell him u think of u choose a ruin. final element, looks at the instant are not each and every little thing!!!

Answer 4

It should have never came down to you 2 arguing and you just being plain honest with him!!!! It sounds like he is playing games but you should have never picked a fight with him and now hes just doing it because he can!!!

Answer 5

I think you are being disrespectful - "I started getting upset with him for no reason" - just what did you expect?

Answer 6

He does not love or trust you any more and is keeping his distance while looking for another woman..

Answer 7

sounds like you are his rebound girl. He's lookin else where.