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other than looking at u and smiling at u?

2007-02-15 03:01:04 · 10 answers · asked by Ebto 2

I am so confused yet so sad. I have been dating my now boyfriend for about 5 months and the first 3 months were out of this world. Honestly, we got along as the best of friend, we laughed together and he was there any time I needed him for a shoulder to cry on. I am completely and utterly attracted to the guy. He is honest, sincere, loyal, TRUSTWORTHY, HOT, has a beautiful house, and I KNOW he would be a Wonderful father. If I had the choice of any father for my "imaginary" children it would 150% be him. He is completely real. Although 6 months before we started dating I dated a complete jerk for a year. He was abusive, he was a cop until he got caught for abusing me, all in all short story he ended up getting fired and he is no longer a cop, got caught for DUI, is 35 and cannot keep a girlfriend cause he is a player. Although, he was able to steal my heart my sweet talking me and I ended up very hurt when we broke up - I think he still owns a piece of my heart although I hate him at the same time.

So that being said, this relationship I am in is my 1st non dramatic relationship and I feel as though something is missing. I hate saying what I dont like about him cause it makes me sound ridiculous but I feel like his niceness is too much sometimes, I analyze everything he does. My ex could dress up in a pink tu-tu with one of my bra's and I would have just laughed but honestly if my new beau were to do that I think I would judge him based on it. I still enjoy spending time with him, I enjoy having sex with him and I enjoy relaxing with him but for some reason I dont feel like I love him like I am supposed to. I sometimes get frustrated with how much he kisses me or is all over me but I think I can over it. What I am asking is why is this happening. During the 1st 3 months things became very serious. We moved in together and I was 150% sure I wanted to start my life with him, now I question myself and I dont know why. Is my gut trying to tell me something or am I just not used to having a normal/healthy relationship. If there is anything in this world that I want to work it would be this relationship. I know I could have an incredible life with him. But I feel stressed cause I dont know if this is what love is supposed to feel like?!?!?!

Or could it be because for the past 5 months we have spent EVERY night together. Honestly every night?!?!?!

2007-02-15 02:59:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

They will be going with their Uncle, Aunt, and two cousins (11 and 8). Two cousins also do not know about the trip and will be surprised with it as well. So we need something to surprise all four of them at once.

2007-02-15 02:59:44 · 8 answers · asked by Ouch! 2

im trying to decide where i want to go to college...

ive narrowed it down to two possible choices,,im not certain i can get in but i think i can

my choices are
ORU- christain school (really want to get to know God better..and they have a really good psychology department...)
NSU- right here im my hometown (mys friends and family are here)

what do you think i should do??

2007-02-15 02:51:42 · 4 answers · asked by sweet18apparatus 4

My birth certificate only has my name, the nurses' name and my date of birth.

My parents names aren't on it. And I've never in my life got on with my parents. I asked them the other day and they got really angry at me for asking.
Is it possible I'm adopted?

2007-02-15 02:51:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

When the dreaded day comes when my twins ask why they don't have a father, what do I say? I can't very well give them the truth (he's selfish, abusive, abandoned his own children) But I also DO NOT want to excuse him in any way (example: He wasn't ready to be a father, or any crap like that)...

2007-02-15 02:47:52 · 13 answers · asked by mom2twins 2

i am a very big fan of sreesanth,i love him a lot .right now he is the most important person in this whole wide world. for him i had to give up many of my best friends but is this turning out to be a waste

2007-02-15 02:45:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i live in an average sized town... 26 thousand.. and thers only one main high school (mine) and an alternate high school for dropouts that wanna go back...

problem?? i have been the only south asian, indian, girl in my classes for sooooooooo long, and the only indian/south asian in the class of 06....thers only one sophmore and junior indian girls in their class.... im spoiled with my uniqueness (??)

bigger problem??? theres this new girl that just moved from moline.. and she's a cousin of the sophomore indian gurl and i HATE HER!!!! omG!!!!! i kno this sounds soo immature.. but.. ppl are mistaking me for her... i feel like she robbed me... mentally... she thinks she can hang around my friends just cuz im indian and she is too... and i just want her EXPELLED!!!!! this is so frustating... at lunch i cant even talk cuz she wont shut UP... and i feel so lame next to her.. b/c all this time i felt like i had no competition, b/c i was always.. me... maybe im jealous.. wat to do???

2007-02-15 02:39:12 · 5 answers · asked by iyikka14 3

It's my passion.

2007-02-15 02:29:22 · 8 answers · asked by lmao 2

So why do we get so uptight about paedophiles and the like when the majority of child abusers are relatives?
A stranger shouldn't necessarily be branded a bad person....that is a gross over-reaction.
The latest incident of a 2 year old being raped and murdered [allegedly by her uncle] makes me despair of the human race.
What say others?

2007-02-15 02:22:11 · 9 answers · asked by Pit Bull 5

i like to get alot done in a day.my questions are only a day old,but i have got a friend to take my (ex)lover home,it was terrible.he would not stop crying and pleading with me.but i know it was the right thing to do.
i am in the birmingham area,does anyone know any good drug clinics?anger classes?and also to stop me drinking?
i am still afraid,should i hand myself and my brother into the police.its the right thing to do after what we have both done to my now ex.i just need that extra nudge.

2007-02-15 02:18:05 · 21 answers · asked by south_parker98 2

I am so confused yet so sad. I have been dating my now boyfriend for about 5 months and the first 3 months were out of this world. Honestly, we got along as the best of friend, we laughed together and he was there any time I needed him for a shoulder to cry on. I am completely and utterly attracted to the guy. He is honest, sincere, loyal, TRUSTWORTHY, HOT, has a beautiful house, and I KNOW he would be a Wonderful father. If I had the choice of any father for my "imaginary" children it would 150% be him. He is completely real. Although 6 months before we started dating I dated a complete jerk for a year. He was abusive, he was a cop until he got caught for abusing me, all in all short story he ended up getting fired and he is no longer a cop, got caught for DUI, is 35 and cannot keep a girlfriend cause he is a player. Although, he was able to steal my heart my sweet talking me and I ended up very hurt when we broke up - I think he still owns a piece of my heart although I hate him at the same time.

So that being said, this relationship I am in is my 1st non dramatic relationship and I feel as though something is missing. I hate saying what I dont like about him cause it makes me sound ridiculous but I feel like his niceness is too much sometimes, I analyze everything he does. My ex could dress up in a pink tu-tu with one of my bra's and I would have just laughed but honestly if my new beau were to do that I think I would judge him based on it. I still enjoy spending time with him, I enjoy having sex with him and I enjoy relaxing with him but for some reason I dont feel like I love him like I am supposed to. I sometimes get frustrated with how much he kisses me or is all over me but I think I can over it. What I am asking is why is this happening. During the 1st 3 months things became very serious. We moved in together and I was 150% sure I wanted to start my life with him, now I question myself and I dont know why. Is my gut trying to tell me something or am I just not used to having a normal/healthy relationship. If there is anything in this world that I want to work it would be this relationship. I know I could have an incredible life with him. But I feel stressed cause I dont know if this is what love is supposed to feel like?!?!?!

Or could it be because for the past 5 months we have spent EVERY night together. Honestly every night?!?!?!

2007-02-15 02:16:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always been the type of person to help others even if it means that i go without and give them my best advice and all of my time.. basically the best friend, sister, daughter, girlfriend, enemy etc.. I mean I'm always willing to help ANYONE.. but recently I got sick and its like I'm the biggest problem because people are trying to be nice to me and its obvious that they dont want to.. I dont ask for help or bother anyone but this morning I ask someone if they would be able to give me a ride (wow) and I think I've heard 600 reasons why she can't do it and now shes giving me an attitude... How do I explain the help isn't needed THAT bad and I'm over the fact that she told me no?

2007-02-15 02:16:23 · 3 answers · asked by LaDy A 2

well here lately i dont know if i am straight or bi........what should i do????

2007-02-15 02:13:17 · 3 answers · asked by larinalt72 2

2

Not being able to trust anybody
or
Being too trusting with everbody

You Choose?

2007-02-15 02:11:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now, all through my life I’ve been acting like I want a serious relationship, and then when it sits in my lap, I find all other excuses not to be bothered.
I just got out of stupid relationship with a man, he’s a cop, he that has 3 kids by 3 different women. Now I’m actually a bi-sexual woman that has a girlfriend at the present moment, but she has a boyfriend and I don’t. Why oh why do I put myself in these situations, her boyfriend is a CO and he works at night into the AM and I like a fool wait until he goes to work and go to spend the night with her and leave for work in the morning. One time he almost caught me there and I had to jump thru the window, thank god she lives on the 1st floor. She’s actually the aggressive female and I’m the fem. Now on his days off which is 2 days, I can’t hear from her or see her until he goes back to work, I keep asking myself do I really love this woman or is it just a challenge. I can tell you guys tons of stories, but I’m ready to be in a serious relationship, something keeps playing in my head, a psychic told me that I would never get married, and I think that’s playing in my psyche. I want to break up with this woman.
Can someone help me? Is there a Doctor Phil out there some where? Why do I do these things to myself and know that’s not what I really want.

2007-02-15 01:37:53 · 3 answers · asked by eightieschick37 2

there a really cute guy that i like. but he dose't even know's me i can't stop thinking about me and the bad thing is that he like bad
the bad girls like girls that would do anything for him and his also a player. hes very cute but i dont know how to stop thinking about him. any advice??????????

2007-02-15 01:35:44 · 7 answers · asked by sam 1

A lie that draws a smile
or
A truth that draws a tear

You Choose?

2007-02-15 01:31:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

dont understand guy in work. Everyone goes on at how shy/quiet he is but he gets on with the majority of women in his department yet is awkward/nervous and seems awkward round me which i dont know why as ive never made him feel like that. When were on workdos hes alright when we start talking and he does share personal stuff with me ie family stuff/problems.
He tells me about stuff going on in his office and how certain people are being slagged off. He must trust me at least. I do quite like him but his signals are mixed as when we do go on workdos its me inating convo with him yet he makes convo with the other gals of the office. I dont know what to make of his mixed signals. I also get the feeling sometimes that he feels uncomfortable if he has to sit by me. I dont know what ot do as in the beginning i thought he liked me but now im not so sure.
He has been trying to get a dvd back that he wanted to lend me but he keeps coming up to me and appologising for why he cant get it.

2007-02-15 01:27:02 · 11 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1

they separated and he had a 1 night stand.mum seems to have forgiven.can she?

2007-02-15 01:01:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I honestly don't think I can do this anymore....My b-friend broke up with me a week ago and even though this is the 3rd time in 3 years...for a couple of months at a time...I feel like I've lost my soul mate....I honestly don't think there is anyone out there that is better then him and I loved everythiong about him....how do you have hope that I'll ever be happy without him?

2007-02-15 00:47:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and i have been together for 5 years we have a 3 year old son to.2 years ago he had a bit of a break down as 3 years of a big stress in our lives finally came to an end and not the way we had hoped and he got drunk woke up smashed the house up a bit and then beat me up he doesnt remember anything about & in the police station the next dy had to ask them why he was there and what had happened. Since then we things just havent been the same hes like jekyll and hyde when things are good there brilliant but he also drinks to much and his mood can change quickly and then we argue and he throws things and a few weeks ago slapped me and i still dont know why.Hes not a bum and does work hard & long hours to provide for us we live quite comfortably. A week ago i told him id have enough and if he didnt sort hes trying hes not drinking as much and not as moody but i still fell like i want to leave but feel guilty coz hes trying and id be taking my son away from his dad.

2007-02-15 00:46:04 · 24 answers · asked by kazz06 4

meal was cancelled !!!
But it turned out ok as the ladies dart team was playing in my local and 6 of them said i could score so I had a great night after all .

2007-02-15 00:44:00 · 13 answers · asked by londonletch 2

I am returning to work after almost eight years and I am going into the Classified Department of my local newspaper. One of my jobs will be to take death notices from people, most of whom will be noticably upset. What can I say or do for these people so as to not fuel the situation. I want to be able to make these people aware that I am not here to judge them, only to try and help them with putting in their notice.

2007-02-15 00:33:00 · 12 answers · asked by LEEANE G 3

2007-02-15 00:29:23 · 7 answers · asked by Theta40 7

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