Other - Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

My friends that play softball probably won't go and the only reason I'm going is because it's mandatory and I'm being made to go. So I don't really know a lot of the people that are going to be there very well. I'm kinda nervous. It's from 7-9 pm too so that kinda messes up my schedule. How will I get through it? thanks!

2007-02-15 10:24:57 · 6 answers · asked by 77684 3

My bf and I have a wonderful realtionship, but his mom and his bro. does not approve. they expected our relationship to last two mos. Well it's been 15 mos and it keeps getting better an better, That fact that its getting better & better, burns them up too pieces. me and my bf thought that this negative, jealousy, and bitter attitude of thiers would change once they see how happy we are. His mom an bro. her so miserable, they call all the time harassing my bf. about why he love me so much, his mom states that your gf is never welcome in my home, because you cater to her and you dont to me. His mom has been single for eleven years, his bro. is homeless, and treat my great boyfriend like he is his dad. My bf states that they have always been this way, and had ran plenty of his x-girlfriends away. my boyfriend has talk and talked to them, but they refuse to listen, he's ready to walk away from them. and im ready to walk away from "him" what should I or we do?

2007-02-15 10:18:08 · 5 answers · asked by dtj22 1

my mom dont wantt me 2 have a bf cos i'm 2 young im 14 and i wont do anything stupid cos i want to make something of myself how can i convince her that i'm not to young 2 have a bf cos i do have one but if my mom find out she'll go mental and im not a good lier

2007-02-15 10:06:58 · 2 answers · asked by rb_chick101 2

My husband and I had someone staying with us we were trying to help him, he got evicted from his house broke up with his girlfriend and I had to take his daughter to live with one of his relatives because DHS was going to put her in foster care. It's a long story.Anyway He stayed here over a month and he went crazy one night and took off. When he got evicted we rented a storage unit to put his stuff in.( he was in a mental hospital for a week before we got him). hes been gone 3 days and we haven't heard a word about him. We assume he got a ride to a town several hrs. away and got back on dope. The items in storage are worth maybe 600$. His sister says we should just give everything to her. He never paid us a dime. We are out literally several hundred $ we feel if he doesn't get in contact w/ us we should wait a month a sell his stuff for $ we feel he owes us. legally everything is ours. If it wasn't for us the stuff wouldv gone to his landlord anyway. What should we do?

2007-02-15 10:06:31 · 7 answers · asked by Chrissy #1 4

I had known a friend for 5 years.One day she invited me to the christening of her baby.After the christening her mother turned to me and told me that I was the godmother.I was shocked that she didn't ask me.I did not even know what a godmother was.I didn´t say anything at all as I felt it would hurt her feelings if I declined.I visited the baby once a year and gave him presents,but she wanted me to come more.She compared me to the godfather,saying that he visited her son a lot.She started to become clingy and would make me feel guilty if I didn´t come as often as she wanted me to.Her husband would say bad things about me and she would agree with him.It was like now that I was the godmother I was obligated to visit her.I started to pull away as I felt she had an ulterior motive for making me the godmother.I felt
trapped and stressed.I haven´t spoken to them in three years and
I feel made a mistake by accepting to be the godmother.I feel really guilty but they made me feel bad

2007-02-15 09:53:39 · 11 answers · asked by marmac 1

im trying to get pregnant. my boyfriend uses drugs (pills, cociaine and weed). will this effect his sperm and therefore cause our baby to have problems? or will the baby only be effected if i myself use drugs when pregnant? thanks

2007-02-15 09:49:50 · 6 answers · asked by meoi 1

i know that a body is important but its not the only thing. MY body attracks many guys and so does my personality. but it is hard for me to tell when its for my dody or me.A guy i like,likes me to but he always stares at my *** and hes not a virgin i think he expects more from me even though im not going to do anything.i have known him for a while so i guess he would of asked me out along time ago if it was my body.idk but he is going to ask me out tomorrow and i dont know if he likes me or my body.HElp me pleaz.

2007-02-15 09:47:36 · 1 answers · asked by nala0102 1

have a friend whom is like my big sister and she intoduced me to a guy...... well kno her dad thinks im a bad influence to her because i asked her to ask my boyfriend something....... Now I have to choose ........ I really love this guy and dont know what to do should I say we dont go out no more as a cover up to lie to her parents or should I really break up with him?

2007-02-15 09:45:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anjie 1

i like a guy and he likes me too but hes 15 and hes not a virgin,he went out with my friend who is actually setting us up so shes fine with it because shes planning it and the guy likes my body a lot hes also really nice but my best friend doesnt like him she thinks im gonna get hurt and she will be mad at me if i go out with him because hes asking me out tomorrow and we have a big trip in a month and my moms not really ok with me having a bf even though she says she is.Pleaz help me decide.

2007-02-15 09:40:50 · 7 answers · asked by nala0102 1

2007-02-15 09:39:55 · 3 answers · asked by Jesus' girl 2

I'm 18 years old, I have a part time job, etc. I had a pack of cigarettes in my purse that she found and she freaked out. Like always, she told me i couldn't smoke anymore or she wouldn't pay for my college. That turned into her also saying that if I wanted to live by my own rules, that I could move out. She says I have attitude, that i disrespect her guests (her boyfriend: and i do), and i'm not responsible. I hate her boyfriend for many reasons that are VALID, but she refuses to listen. She says that I have no right to be rude. etc. After the cigarette incident today she threatened to take my car away, and set up new rules. I now have to be polite to guests, not come home late anymore, and have to go to church with her every sunday. I'm a high school senior. I just want to feel like I have freedom over my OWN life. I should be able to go out when i want. etc. I can't support myself, but i need freedom. What do I do?

2007-02-15 09:36:07 · 14 answers · asked by saphireyes718 1

All had a good day??

2007-02-15 09:35:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend has 2 kids with 2 different girls he was married to one of them...we are both 23. I have never been married and have no kids....I want to eventually get married (by 25-26) and have at least one kid of my own. We have been together for 6 months and took things very quick because we have been friends forever. We are already trying to buy a house....he always makes coments about how he has enough kids for the both of us even though he never gets to see them......and he wouldnt be upset if i got pregnant but he has enough already...I agree but I dont have any!!!! I think about leaving him because he seems like he will never marry me or want me to carry his child.......I wont give up my dream of a family of my own and I dont want to be with anyone else...I love him so much..what do i say so it doesnt seem like Im pressuring him or make things awkward?

2007-02-15 09:35:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you choose who you have sex with?? is it by how the person looks? is it by how they act? is it by how you get along? is it by gender? would you have sex with someone if you only thought that they were attractive? or does there have to be something else??

2007-02-15 09:34:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what was the last thing you did and enjoyed??

2007-02-15 09:28:17 · 16 answers · asked by xloux 3

Or is it?

There's a lot of sweet stuff out there..

2007-02-15 09:22:54 · 13 answers · asked by Mr. Fox 5

2007-02-15 09:20:14 · 7 answers · asked by frangeebee 1

My mom and i got into a argument and she became upset and told me and my daughter to get out, so i called my boyfriend and asked if me and my daughter could stay with him for a couple days just until i got in touch with my father and he told me that he was with his kids and that he couldn't talk at the moment and hung up the phone on me while i was crying. Then about two hours later he called me back and said that he was on his way to come and pick me and my daughter up, but i told him not to come because i had already got in touch with my dad and i gave him a piece of my mind by telling him that him being with his kids who are adults by the way is not and excuse for neglecting me in my time of need . I felt as if he should have came and got me as soon as i called him.

2007-02-15 09:07:05 · 23 answers · asked by beauty queeen 2

A girl who is 4'8".
What should a 11 year old girl weigh?

2007-02-15 09:06:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-15 09:03:49 · 7 answers · asked by bigdrip213 1

2007-02-15 08:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by jennifer g 1

how can u find a half sis if the only thing u know about them is there name i know its not alot to go with

2007-02-15 08:53:55 · 5 answers · asked by milkme2002003 2

(are we free to choose our life-partner,(spouse)? or we get married to a person that God has decided for us before our birth(matter of luck-fate)???which fact is true? can U solve my confusion...do i have to struggle to find my life-partner or should i wait for God's will and let the person come himself on specific time when God wants?

2007-02-15 08:46:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Looking for a deadbeat dad who doesnt want to be found...I already have lots of his information but still need to find out address and place of employment... Any ideas?

2007-02-15 08:38:48 · 7 answers · asked by Bonnie S 2

2007-02-15 08:20:39 · 5 answers · asked by xavier 1

2007-02-15 08:19:19 · 12 answers · asked by Giegiesweet 2

I think it would be better to have twin...get it done in one shot. :)

2007-02-15 08:11:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm afraid to tell my gf about my depression and social anxiety. Recently, she told me that she loves me, and we are happy together, but I am very depressed. I have little bouts of happiness, but that's about it. I get anxious around crowds. I'm afraid that if I get on meds, she will see me as weak and think that I'll be a bad father. She has a beautiful four year old daughter and I love them both, but I'm afraid I'll lose them. She has cerebral palsy, so if anything, she should accept me for who I am, right? I've accepted her for her disability, so am I right to say that she should accept me for my disability? I want to be truthful with her, but like I said, I can't help but think that she won't want to have kids with me. She might think that I'm maladjusted and not responsible enough to care for children if I need meds to level out my moods. I must say: I am always kind and sweet toward her and her daughter. I love them and don't want to lose them. Please HELP!

2007-02-15 08:09:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

the only problem with that is that we are both female, and i don't know how i feel about that. i have kissed her before, but i am also Brazilian and that is the custom.. i don't know what to do.. i love her but i don't know if we feel the same way about each other.. please help i am lost here. Aurora

2007-02-15 08:07:59 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months he has broken up with me a number of times. but yesterday early morning i just got tires of everything and i broke up with him for the first time. He thinks I was wrong for doin this when he was sick and on valentine and weeks before his bday. I am still here for him(we live together), I took care of him cuz he was sick. Was this wrong? I broke up with him because he has too many female friends that are too comfortable...calling 1-2 am, writing him love letters, (he works with one that he admitted to cheating on me with), and some of them even asked him to be his valentine. I say he drops them or its finished forever. I dont want to have to worry about what he does. its bad enough he works with this girl...i dont even wanna show my face at his job. I say i dont wanna tolerate that anymore. he says he tolerates me talkin him to death everynight..what should i do. i want him but im not puttin up with the bs. I'm faithful from day 1

2007-02-15 08:04:03 · 4 answers · asked by Desire` 3