my boyfriend has 2 kids with 2 different girls he was married to one of them...we are both 23. I have never been married and have no kids....I want to eventually get married (by 25-26) and have at least one kid of my own. We have been together for 6 months and took things very quick because we have been friends forever. We are already trying to buy a house....he always makes coments about how he has enough kids for the both of us even though he never gets to see them......and he wouldnt be upset if i got pregnant but he has enough already...I agree but I dont have any!!!! I think about leaving him because he seems like he will never marry me or want me to carry his child.......I wont give up my dream of a family of my own and I dont want to be with anyone else...I love him so much..what do i say so it doesnt seem like Im pressuring him or make things awkward?
2007-02-15 09:35:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i would ask him what he sees in your future and ask if marriage would ever be a part of it. you may find that he didn't know you wanted marriage or children. men are very unaware. if he cant see having a child to raise and a wife to spend the rest of his life with them you may need to severe ties before you get that house and its not so easy to back out.
2007-02-15 09:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Charlee S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and Smell the Coffee!!!
Sounds like you're obsessed with a loser. You're both kids - only 23 - you have your whole life ahead of you. FYI - there is no such thing as "And they lived happily ever after" - it's just a fairytale. More than 85% of marriages today end up in divorce. Don't ruin your life - wait until you're over 30 at least.
2007-02-15 09:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by joedude471 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Omg yes of course! You gotta be prepared for these things, i don't wanna be one of the mothers with a baby that has blank in the space for their name for like a week when there born, or be one of the mothers that had to make a quick decision on the name For a girl, im definately going to call her Annabelle, the second name after that is Abigail And for the boy, it's either declan, jayden or dylan, not quite sure yet but most likely declan =)
2016-05-24 04:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not the right man for you. You should sever the relationship before both of you get hurt even more. Your dreams and goals are too far apart.
2007-02-15 09:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋