have a friend whom is like my big sister and she intoduced me to a guy...... well kno her dad thinks im a bad influence to her because i asked her to ask my boyfriend something....... Now I have to choose ........ I really love this guy and dont know what to do should I say we dont go out no more as a cover up to lie to her parents or should I really break up with him?
2007-02-15 09:45:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anjie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well it seems to me that because of you both of them are now in trouble. What exactly did you tell her to ask him anyway? Second, you shouldn't be lying anyway. You may not want to lose her but at the same time, you say you love your boyfriend either way you'll have to choose. This is your fault so I don't see why either of them should suffer. Not to mention your "sister" has a mind of her own and she should be able to control her actions, you may have told him to her to ask him but she did that on her own. You can't be a bad influence on her unless she allows you to be. So just make a decision. Good luck babe!
2007-02-15 09:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your boyfriend why do you need someone else to ask him questions for you.
answer. You are not comfortable with either him or the idea of a relationship.
communication in a relationship is the responsibility of the people in the relationship. No one else.
Even if your friend introduced you communication isn't her job.
Lieing to anyone like you mentioned is always a bad idea.
What you can do is tell her parents respectfuly . I respect your opnions but it was your daughter that introduced me to my boyfriend. Then ask him why he feels the way he does and if he knows something about your boyfriend that you do not.
He just might. But be prepared to hear something you may not like. Me. wonderful may be on the rebound or have a bad rep.
I am not a bad influence and do not appreciate being labeled one.
Then ask them to name some of the things you have done that are so bad.
They can't.
Her parents have NO RIGHT to tell you how to live your life unless you live in thier home. which I doubt.
The final decision is yours. not thiers. They are only allowed to tell thier children who they can and cannot see.
There is no reason you can't keep your friendships seperate.
seperate time with your gf and seperate time with your bf.
2007-02-15 18:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by andreamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all you should never lie it just makes things worse and second if you really like this guy then dont dump him over something that is going to eventually pass over when he may be the one thing that is going to last! :)
2007-02-15 17:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful Disaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think if u really love him, but shes ur friend i have to say let ur hart tell u and if u still cant come up with a decisoin then i would lie and try to cover it up as long as my friend does't have a problem with me lieing to her parents.......?
hope u get it worked out
2007-02-15 17:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie to her parents about it just ignore them and continue to date your boyfriend. You dont owe her parents any explanations. Good luck kid.
2007-02-15 17:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you elaborate some more? I mean why would the parents of your feind be upset about you dating this guy???
2007-02-15 17:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by hunter_bug_4me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did she tell her dad if u all are such close friends? but if u love him so much dontlet her get in your way,,.. she might be jealous of ur relationship
2007-02-15 17:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...you don't have to choose. You are under NO obligation to please her father by not seeing this boy. It's NONE of her dad's business who you see
2007-02-15 18:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋