Other - Family & Relationships - 16 February 2007

how do you tell if a man is bisexual because my partner of 4 years has this friend when he comes round and my boyfriend has a shower he gets undressed in front of him and he is not bothered if he is watching or not and also he touches his bum and when i ask him what he is doing he says he is just messing about

also yesterday my boyfriend was a sleep and i woke him up and asked for a cuddle and he said wait i have finished in my sleep why does this happen and what are you thinking about when this happens and how can you stop this from happening i am just so confused i need help

2007-02-16 23:43:34 · 25 answers · asked by princess 1

can you please be honest does size matter

2007-02-16 23:39:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Gun-toting granny Ava Estelle, 81, was so ticked-off when two thugs raped her 18-year-old granddaughter that she tracked the unsuspecting ex-cons down - - and shot off their testicles.

The old lady spent a week hunting those men down -- and when she found them, she took revenge on them in her own special way, said Melbourne police investigator Evan Delp. Then she took a taxi to the nearest police station, laid the gun on the sergeant's desk and told him as calm as could be:

'Those bastards will never rape anybody again, by God.' Cops say convicted rapist and robber Davis Furth, 33, lost both his penis and his testicles when outraged Ava opened fire with a 9-mm pistol in the hotel room where he and former prison cell mate Stanley Thomas, 29, were holed up.

The wrinkled avenger also blew Thomas' testicles to kingdom come, but doctors managed to save his mangled penis, police said. The one guy, Thomas, didn't lose his manhood, but the doctor I talked to said he won't be using it the way he used to, Detective Delp told reporters. Both men are still in pretty bad shape, but I think they're just happy to be alive after what they've been through.

The Rambo Granny swung into action August 21 after her granddaughter Debbie was carjacked and raped in broad daylight by two knife-wielding creeps in a section of town bordering on skid row. "When I saw the look on my Debbie's face that night in the hospital, I decided I was going to go out and get those bastards myself 'cause I figured the Law would go easy on them," recalled the retired library worker. "And I wasn't scared of them, either-- because I've got me a gun and I've been shooting' all my life. And I wasn't dumb enough to turn it in when the law changed about owning one."

So, using a police artist's sketch of the suspects and Debbie's description of the sickos', tough-as-nails Ava spent seven days prowling the wino-infested neighborhood where the crime took place till she spotted the ill fated rapists entering their flophouse hotel.

I knew it was them the minute I saw 'em, but I shot a picture of 'em anyway and took it back to Debbie and she said sure as hell, it was them, the oldster recalled.





So I went back to that hotel and found their room and knocked on the door and the minute the big one, , opened the door, I shot 'em right square between the legs, right where it would really hurt 'em most, you know.

Then I went in and shot the other one as he backed up pleading to me to spare him. Then I went down to the police station and turned myself in.

Now, baffled lawmen are trying to figure out exactly how to deal with the vigilante granny. What she did was wrong, and she broke the law, but it is difficult to throw an 81-year-old woman in prison, Det. Delp said, especially when 3 million people in the city want to nominate her for Mayor.




DEPORT HER TO NORTH AMERICA--- WE NEED HER





M

2007-02-16 23:14:31 · 4 answers · asked by Sangy . 4

when i have sex with my gurl i cant get her off ever even when we do oral so can u help me please with some suggestions??

2007-02-16 22:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by JDP 1

I'm a bi-sexual. i have a girlfriend but I'm flirting with a guy..?
this is the second time that it happend. i love her but i cant help myself falling in love or having a crush to a guy. this time its with my supervisor. im texting him(he doesnt know about it). im so obvious whenever he's around. I'll blush and im so quiet and thats not me. my friends told me that he is somehow flirting also cause he will always talks to me, ask me if im ok. he's somehow friendly with the others but it with me he's kinda different (or im just imagining things) so there and he's taken also. with my girlfriend, i love her and i know that in the end of the day it will still be her, but why i still have this feeling. what should i do? ignore everything? help me! coz i cant stop flirting with my sup. and i dont want to hurt my girlfriend.

2007-02-16 22:51:40 · 6 answers · asked by <fish_me> 2

my mother has abused me physically and emotionally all my childhood, i've moved out when i was 22 and now i enjoy my life very much, my younger sister (the golden child) is still living with her. I rarely visit my mother as everytime i visit i have to endure nasty remarks such as 'you are not a good person' or 'your don't deserve your boyfriend', last time she called me to let me know that in my father's will there are 2 houses to give to me and my sister, she said my sister has already 'own' her house and she can do whatever she wants with it, but I have to 'prove' myself to her or she may never give me the house, she also compare me to my sister, saying my sister is 'more honest than you', well, i quickly got off the phone and has never contacted her again, yesterday she has knocked on my door and my boyfriend let her in, she brought alot of food and gift, lucky i wasn't home, she also left me a letter which i threw away without reading, what should i do with this manipulative woma

2007-02-16 22:37:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to make him see what's right add wrong before apposing and to be friendly with everyone she dosent move freely with others and gets tense for silly things help me to change to acheerfull person

2007-02-16 22:01:31 · 12 answers · asked by shanthi r 1

I need some advice??what do i do??
would it be wrong of me to send my ex an email an tell him how i feel to see if there is any chnce for us before i move on??
i still love him
we have been apart for nearly a year. is it too late???
we have had contact over the year and he has been driving past my house but he said it was coz he was worried bout me....
we were together for 4.5 years he is 30 and i am 23.
we broke up coz we started fighting over stupid things
do i email him and send a pic of him and i and say 'i miss this' or 'i miss us' or ' i miss you'???

2007-02-16 21:59:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He broke up with me suddenly last Sundayover the phone.So you can imagine how shocked I was.We were together 18 mths. I have turned to friends and family and have been in pain for the week. This pain must mean something, maybe that I love him. Now that he has hurt me so much I obviously have doubts about everything. However I may have been difficult with him on Friday and Saturday, we were just geting some jobs done, but he said I was being bossy.I feel that we need to have a conversation and I'd like to tell him how much I appreiated him, and to thank him for doing the jobs. The thing is though, I have showed him several times that I cared and have treated him well for
b-days and x-mas etc. I'd love to know how he is feeling now as it may have been quite a sudden hasty decision. We were due to go to a wedding shortly. I did miss him a lot when he would go to his parents often. Sometimes I would cry,I missed him so much.This is either a make or break situation, and I need advice.Thks

2007-02-16 21:57:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am supposed to babysit tomorrow night for some ppl i have never met before. i am slightly worried because i am wondering if i am putting my life at risk by going to someone's house who i don't even know...i am a female, btw...
i have no one to go there with me...i don't know what to do!
any suggestions? is it normal to go to ppl u don't know to babysit? is this how it works?

2007-02-16 21:45:07 · 7 answers · asked by saxoool 2

When we know that the time that has passed off cannot come back..life wont be the same again for us..there is no point in thinking about our past...still we go back to the past in our thoughts..we are unable to come out of it. Funniest part is we try go behind the incident that has hurt us the most..wherein actually we must forget that incident first and move on with the life. Why is it very difficult to forget our past? Especially the worst from the past...

2007-02-16 21:41:24 · 21 answers · asked by Saheli 2

I am currently in a newer relationship of 4 months. My question has to do with my current girlfriends Ex. :

They have a 2 month old son together, and they separated during her pregnancy (went out for 2 years) because the guy is not going anywhere in life. When their son was born, he stayed in Vegas and did not return until a week or so after his birth. He was also arrested and put into jail during this time for a month due to probation violations.

Since he has gotten out of jail (January), he and my GF have been speaking to each other several times per day. He claims he wants to be in their son’s life, and has even watched him overnight a total of 3 nights.

He and I do not get along with each other at all, and it is beginning to wear down my GF. She told me we both trash each other and she is getting really stressed out over it. She told me he is going to be in her life regardless if we get along or not because she wants him to bond with her son and assume the responsibilities of being a parent.

This is where my major problem comes in. She has lied several times over the past month regarding the Ex. :

1.Said that she was not with him at all during the day a medical checkup with her son. She said he was not going, but I found out she went and picked him up prior to the appointment. I found this out because I found a yahoo map with his address and directions to the clinic left in the truck. I called her sister and she confirmed he was with her.

2.Said she needed a break from the baby and went over to her sisters house for a few hours. I found out that her sister was not home at the time, and that my GF went over to the Ex’s house instead. Again, I contacted her sister and asked a question and she was surprised when I told her that she was supposed to be over there a few hours earlier. My GF finally confessed and stated that she went over to the Ex’s so he could visit and watch him while she took a break/nap when I questioned her because said she drove over to her sisters and she was not home and went over there instead.

3.There have been a few other times she stopped over their without telling me. She was late a few times and I was aggravated and asked why she was late with my truck. She finally admitted she was visiting him briefly and did not tell me until she left there. This has happened a few times.

4.Lastly, I have known that she talks to him on the phone several times per day. I questioned her about this and told her I do not like her talking to him so much. She told me she would not contact him but rather talk to him when he calls her. The phone bill came and she lied again because it showed she called him an average of 3-5 times per day since she said she would mellow out.

This pushed me over the edge and I began to question her relationship with him and faithfulness to me. I demanded answers and she said she was lying to me because she knew how much we disliked each other and did not want to make things worse etc.

Now here is the real problem. She told me that she wants to go with her Ex and his brother with his new baby out of town so she could see her grandson’s for the first time. My GF wants to go and said she does not trust her son with him alone for 3 days and wanted to meet his mom anyway because she has been sending cash and other care packages since his birth.

Needless to say, this question did not go over well with me, and we have been fighting for a week straight. She said I have nothing to worry about because she is with me and they will never get back together. She said I need to trust her, but I am having a really hard time doing it. We were fighting so bad during this time I thought about breaking up with her. She said she would not go if it would bring an end to our relationship. I finally got so tired of fighting I said go ahead and go. She decided that morning she was going on the trip and again asked if it was OK with me. I gritted my teeth and told her she has free will and can do what she wants.

I regret telling her this because it is really tearing me up inside. I have a feeling deep down inside that she is trying to revive things with him and cheating on me or maybe it is just jealousy or paranoia.

I have been beating myself up all day and might break up with her when she comes back into town. When I found out she lied to me on several occasions, my trust diminished and now I seem to internally question her every move and motive.

I find this whole trip to be extremely insulting to me and well…..fishy. Am I am over-reacting and not really believing her intentions of trying to establish a schedule and routine with him to care for their son. Could she think I am so gullible that she can cheat on me under my nose???? She said the purpose of the trip was to meet his mom, and they would double team him regarding his lack of commitment to the baby.

I really need some input here because I do not want to destroy this without just cause. I have asked several people and most have sided with me saying she is cheating, while a few others think that her intentions true to establishing a positive relationship with their baby.

2007-02-16 21:21:35 · 7 answers · asked by mike e 1

2007-02-16 21:05:50 · 9 answers · asked by Arch 2

usually says he loves me like he means it and shows it

2007-02-16 20:29:21 · 2 answers · asked by boo 1

i love my mom but i have issues with her seeing me naked so when we go to the doctors i get really uncomfortable, i once cried. is there any way i can tell the doctor i dont want her there and then she would have to stay out. i have told my mom i dont want her there but she wont respect my wishes. what do i do?

2007-02-16 20:20:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my brother is haveing problems MAJOR problems and he is thinking about suicide and i dont know what to tell him he said that his girl friend is cheating on him with his best friend and he hasent confronted her about it yet but he is going to do it on tuesday in school and he asked me what to say to her well i have never been in this kind of situation before so i dont know what to tell to him i really dont want him to hurt him self but yeah this is so complicated especially since we dont really have parents to tell about this and so yeah im not too sure what to say and i cant tell a grown up because me and him are not that close with any adult please help me

2007-02-16 20:13:11 · 18 answers · asked by live life to the fullest 1

I am a 14 year old male and my mother has recenty been going out a lot and neglecting me. I have my own life too. Its just important that I have a good relationship with my mother. I dont want to endup hating her one day.

2007-02-16 19:49:29 · 22 answers · asked by Jaye 2

My mom is a single mom and she always is going out and partying. I'vv tryed talking to her she just doesnt listen. I dont know what to do.

2007-02-16 19:10:39 · 18 answers · asked by Jaye 2

i asked my daughter what she is doing and she said her leg itches...she does itch her leg, but i have caught her touching right above her private parts???

2007-02-16 18:54:40 · 5 answers · asked by repodana 4

2007-02-16 18:33:30 · 5 answers · asked by DVD 3

Ok, so I took your guys advice on how to get over her, but now I need to know how to get rid of the body.

2007-02-16 18:22:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is the sweetest guy ever when he is sober. We are both just recently divorced. How can i help him understand that i hate when he drinks because i am scared he will fight with me? he never has hit me but i am begining to wonder if he would just rather be single and party rather then be a family with me, my three kids and his 2 kids from his previous marrige. He tells me he drinks to chill out and he thinks he deserves to go almost everyday after work to have a "so called" few drinks while i am at home 24/7 with all 5 kids. Am I being selfish or controlling when I tell him I dont want him to drink like that? I hardly ever get a break at all from the kids. He hardly spends anytime with me cause it seems like all he wants to do is go drink.

2007-02-16 17:37:35 · 16 answers · asked by bris_babygirl27 1

2007-02-16 17:33:11 · 17 answers · asked by boo 1

Someone has taken my daughter's life and turned it upside down, possibly ruined her reputation and broken her heart. I'd love to send him to jail, but he has kids. So I'd like to do the next best thing and just make him as miserable as possible. I don't want him to have a job, friends, nothing. His stupid wife makes enough to support them so the kids won't suffer. I'm open to all kinds of suggestions.

2007-02-16 17:27:38 · 9 answers · asked by Someday Soon 2

and how old were u? if u dont mind me asking

2007-02-16 17:10:28 · 9 answers · asked by annawuvzchris 4

2007-02-16 16:55:52 · 4 answers · asked by soar 3

2007-02-16 16:47:34 · 5 answers · asked by mrlilshi 1

It's 6 O'clock at night. You have just finished dinner and are trying to relax and spend some time with your family. All of a sudden there is a knock on the door. You peek out and see two guys in suits riding bikes. You already know.... damn, it those Jehova's Witness'. Do you open the door and talk with them nicely, do you curse them? They can see the light on and hear noise so they know someone is home, but do you try and be very quiet and slowly walk away giggling. Do you feel guilty not opening the door? I brought this up because I live in an apartment complex were soliciting is not allowed. And I overheard a neighbor of mine open his door shouting curse words and telling them "no soliciting." I felt bad for the kids, and at least gave them a chance to speak, I told them "no thank you" and I already have a religion I believe in." What do you do?

2007-02-16 16:41:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-16 16:14:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-16 16:10:20 · 5 answers · asked by Laura 1