When we know that the time that has passed off cannot come back..life wont be the same again for us..there is no point in thinking about our past...still we go back to the past in our thoughts..we are unable to come out of it. Funniest part is we try go behind the incident that has hurt us the most..wherein actually we must forget that incident first and move on with the life. Why is it very difficult to forget our past? Especially the worst from the past...
2007-02-16 21:41:24 · 21 answers · asked by Saheli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is good way of mocking somebody's feelings max. Good. I think it is high time to format your head..so that you understand when to make fun and when not..
2007-02-16 23:07:34 · update #1
We can remember or forget past only. Do you remeber future too!
If we try to forget - we would never be able to forget.
If we forget to remember - we would forget.
So start practicing IGNORING.
We should not forget past completely - because only from that we learn. Don't forgetting the past is called EXPERIENCE.
Never forget the past because the past is worth living for.
2007-02-16 22:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is really bad to keep thinking of incidents that had happened in the past. But human mind is such that it clings on to such incidents & keeps reminding us of the past especially worst incidents. No use in feeling bad about it after all its human mind.Lets try to overcome that & forget the worst incidents in the past & lead a happy & peaceful life.
2007-02-16 21:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by sreenija n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to forget very good and very bad things of past. Not each and every incident of the past. If we live in the present it is easy to live. For that attend any yoga clas like Art of living It will help u to live in tne present and to forget the past.
2007-02-16 21:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by shanthi r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here .i just cling to the past especially when I'm depressed.more than the happy moments we cling to the bad things.its one way of reminding ourselves not to repeat the same mistakes again may be. should get out with friends or watch a comedy film to come out of those thoughts.i feel life is too short to live in memories that too bad ones.
2007-02-16 22:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing but human narure, it always differs person to person..the abiltiy to forget the worst incident of past.
if one try to find the answer of that .."why it was happened to him in past?"..then , in that case, its always going to happen to him, all the ppl arnd has this type of feeling , but those who dont able to forget the past & always think abt that .."why...."..they are going to suffer frm this, same time ppl, who dont think abt that much..they just get away frm that type feelings.
i beleve that...if some person had some thing which was very important for him, and he had that from no where , got something after long hard efforts , ..when he/she lost that type of thing...then its most difficult task for him , to get out of such kind of feelings...anyways..all the best.
2007-02-19 18:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are human beings subsequently, we won't be able to easily press the delete button to erase reminiscence from our strategies. to answer your question i'm now 40-one years old I even have many previous relationships and that i can undergo in strategies each and all and sundry of them be it a robust one or a nasty one. even though, as you develop older you have gotten a tendency to forget approximately those heart breaking incidents and pass forward. What I advise you to do is to get your self busy with a clean activity. via concerning your self in a clean activity a while would be occupied and who's acquainted with you are able to bump into somebody who shares the comparable activity as you. And the subsequent element you recognize u are right into a clean relationship... enable via gones be via gones....what ever would be would be
2016-10-15 12:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bcoz the things which has happenen to us in the past are stored in the backside part of our head.they always r behind our head which we carry with us. that's why we cannot forget the past.
Neways if u want 2 forget ur past just dash ur head against some wall some 10 times.And ur head will be formatted.U'll automatically forget ur past. . . . . . . . .Oops,sorry maybe ur present too !
2007-02-16 22:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by SE7EN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhm, forget the past? Never! Learning from the past is how you move on. Don't let it define you and don't try to forget.
2007-02-16 21:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person. personally for me, i find it hard to let go of the past too. but when it starts to get to me, i just pray and think about the good memories that were shared instead of the ones filled with trauma.
2007-02-16 21:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
remembering what has happened is easy than to face the present.. time is the biggest challenge, learn to live in present.. if you think of future, still u will feel afraid & uncomfortable as past memories makes u..
its only living your present moment, that afraids us.
2007-02-16 21:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by priyankji 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋