Someone has taken my daughter's life and turned it upside down, possibly ruined her reputation and broken her heart. I'd love to send him to jail, but he has kids. So I'd like to do the next best thing and just make him as miserable as possible. I don't want him to have a job, friends, nothing. His stupid wife makes enough to support them so the kids won't suffer. I'm open to all kinds of suggestions.
2007-02-16 17:27:38 · 9 answers · asked by Someday Soon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he did something illegal, send him to jail...You doing something other then that, your kids may be visiting you in jail...
2007-02-16 17:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How about giving him what he doesn't deserve.
But do it for yourself, if that would make you feel better.
It's not fair that people hurt others like that.
But... what you need to focus on, is your daughter's feelings about herself.
She needs to see that there is light at the end of this problem.
You would be doing her a favor if you taught her that you loved her more than revenge. Let God take care of him. He will do it much better and much more effective than you can.
But if you hold this hatred in your heart for another person, you will hurt a lot of people... not just him. Trust me. I know from experience that bitterness is not the way to live.
Give him to God to manage. And do it today. You wont regret it.
Help your daughter do the same. It will help her to get over this hurdle in her life and make better choices because of it.
2007-02-16 18:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by so what do you think? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your wanting to make someone suffer for hurting your daughter, but here's something you might consider. If you allow yourself to become consumed with ruining this man's life, you are only allowing him to victimize your daughter further because her mother will not be able to 'be there' for her (emotionally) 100% because of being too consumed with hatred and revenge- not that the pig doesn't deserve it. However, if you really want true revenge in the end, forget about him, focus on pulling your daughter back up, and helping her to get to where she needs to be . The BEST REVENGE is LIVING WELL. Her going on with her life, and going further than he ever thought she could- her recovering from her broken heart, and living a happy life, as though he really didn't matter much in the end, will go a lot further than simply trying to ruin his life. Remember this, too. Everytime you do something that you think is causing him pain or misery, he will be thinking to himself "yeh, I must have really left a mark on (your daughter's name here), or else her mother wouldn't be trying so hard to get back at me," and he will be laughing at you.--- Poor that energy into being there for your daughter and remember 2 very important things every time the urge to do something to him strikes you- 1. Living "well" truly is the best revenge and 2. Time heals all wounds, and TIME WOUNDS ALL HEELS."--- Good luck to you and your daughter. Of course, I assumed you are her mother but it's just as true if you are her FATHER.
2007-02-16 17:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by angelia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the answer to your problem is difficult to answer considering how vague your question was. I assume your daughter is quite young and this older man was a married man that led her to believe alot of lies. If in fact this is true, it happens to many young women and it is best to chalk it up as experience. the dirtball will get his eventually, if not himself it will happen possibly to one he loves perhaps his daughter. however there are many pigs in life get stomped in the sty or make bacon with their ***, either way your daughter can see clearly that not all men have as much integrity as their own father.hence therefore the irony is that mans daughter will never know what a pig her daddy is because all men are the best they can be in front of their families so in otherwords your husband may have done the same thing thing and that is why it happened to your daughter. see karma works in strange ways.
2007-02-16 18:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's another way! hire a very attractive decoy to tempt him then make sure that his wife know about this affair, when his wife caught it in the act that he's cheating so for sure him & his wife will gonna have a big fight!
2007-02-16 17:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by ☆SpiMan☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your focusing your energy in the wrong way. Instead of focusing it on him, focus on your daughter and make her happy. This universe has weird way of what goes around come around belive that!!!
2007-02-16 17:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh, try to catch him at moments where he does stupid things, and always be there to tell him and the people close to him of, slowly but surely, his reputation will be destroyed.
2007-02-16 17:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hacking his bank account. Then place orders down for (Insert illegal item here) under his name with his bank account.
2007-02-16 17:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by darrkadlubowski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANGELIA.........You are right....how refreshing to see someone with such a wonderful outlook on life....I needed that, THANK YOU!!!
2007-02-16 19:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋