Other - Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

in the last year I have gained about 20 lbs+ (that I had just lost) I have allowed my house to become completely out of order, its messy and only cleaned up for guests and then only areas that they will visit. My bedroom is totally out of order theres clothes everywhere, and I wont even sleep in it. I have also this past year began going to the casino with all my extra money. My emotional , and physical relationship with my husband is suffering. I am a religious woman and I go to Church faitfully, and have never had these issues before, I have always kept a clean house and my Spirtual life has been great since I have been in Church for the last 8 years until last year. I have big plans to change things but no motivation to do so Whats wrong with me.?

2007-02-14 23:57:34 · 15 answers · asked by overcomern07 1

2007-02-14 23:53:05 · 21 answers · asked by purpledog 2

he is very shy he never cry for 7yrs hes has alot of anger in him he has sean poeple but they are put it down to him to being so far behind at school and my 2 outher boys are behind at school and they don't go on like him and does'nt sleep in his own bed

2007-02-14 23:52:03 · 11 answers · asked by jane hall 1

Am the one who keeps calling my bf though am working en he is not but i feel am being used

2007-02-14 23:45:33 · 4 answers · asked by cnzuu 1

coz people comment on me &try to say homey baby.i dont like it what should i do.

2007-02-14 23:33:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I actually have feelings for my guy bestfriend but im scared to tell him.I really need an advice from men,specifically!Thanks a lot!

2007-02-14 23:25:31 · 11 answers · asked by starunner05 1

I actually have feelings for my guy bestfriends but im scared to tell him.I really need an advice from men,specifically!Thanks a lot!

2007-02-14 23:25:14 · 12 answers · asked by starunner05 1

My babysitter has a daughter who is incredibly rebellious. She gets dropped off at school in the morning and leaves to meet an over age boyfriend. She is now under lock and key at home but not getting an education. Her family does not have a lot of money and I do not think you can get a GED from home on line if you are only 15 and supposed to be in a traditional school. The police have been to the home because the daughter has hit her mom(my babysitter). I hate seeing their family fall apart. Are their any other options to get her an education in a controlled enviornment that will not leave the family broke? They have tried counseling and have had a preist come to their home . With the current relationship she has with her mom, home school is not an option. I also think that the state government could step in and punish the mom if the school reports her absences. We all live in Florida.

2007-02-14 23:16:22 · 6 answers · asked by robynmarty2003 1

My boyfriend broke up with me after 18 months telling me I was a bit bossy and trying to get him to do things that I wanted rather than he wanted. I was always very good to him and I am not an overbearing person by any means. I was often upset that he would go to to his parents house most weekends and sometimes I would even cry because I'd miss him so much. ( he doesn't know that) I wake every morning with that gutted feeling in my tummy. I think I may have pushed the issue of him not sending time with me and picked on a few things this weekend. Then I got the call on Sunday night. I was so shocked.
Another guy who I fancied before I met my boyfriend, has been texting me for a long time trying to get me out for coffee. I was curious but would have never met him as I loved my boyfriend.I needed a bit of attention as I was so hurt and I also thought this is the time to meet him, as it's over. We got on fine, in fact he was nice to me and was trying to cheer me up.

2007-02-14 23:09:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-14 23:02:10 · 16 answers · asked by toby_s 1

what do you now suffer because of it?

2007-02-14 22:50:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-14 22:50:05 · 34 answers · asked by Colette 5

2007-02-14 22:27:14 · 17 answers · asked by toby_s 1

I have just found out that my Fiancé's mum has tried setting him up with someone else! we have been living together for 7 years now and engaged for nearly a year so its not as if she didn't realise it was serious between us.

2007-02-14 22:19:49 · 18 answers · asked by j034nn3 3

My boyfriend broke up with me and I was shocked and so upset. I'm 33 and loved him. We were together for 18 months. I was very good to him I cared for him a lot , he said I was being bossy and making him do things he didn't want to do recently. He was worried we may not get on well in the future.
I have to admit that I was upset when he wasn't spending enough time with me, and he used to go home to his parents. Sometimes I was so upset when he would be away that I would even cry.But he doesn't know that, as I missed him so much and I was attached. I suppose I was making most of the effort in the relationship after the first year. But he always said he loved me. I have that sinking gutted feeling every morning now. Another guy had been trying to get in touch with me several times during the relationship and of course I turned him down as I wouldn't hurt my bf. But I was curious all the time, and I was tempted to just meet him for coffee.

2007-02-14 22:17:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

You know who you are baby!

I Love You!

2007-02-14 22:06:30 · 7 answers · asked by AZRAEL Ψ 5

I have had a REALLY bad experience in my last relationship....we were together for 12 yrs....& Married for 10 yrs.....
I was cheated on...abandoned with a toddler & a new born....to have him come back with a pack of new promises...that I believed...only to have him do it to me again....

It FINALLY took him hurting my daughter in order for me to get him out of my life....

I was single for 3 yrs. until I met a man last yr. that I have started dating....he is younger then me....ALOT younger then me....I am 33 & he is 21.....I know....age doesn't matter with us...he treats us good...myself & my kids....

I am finding it hard though to maintain a healthy relationship with him....he asked me to Marry him not too long ago...& I have accepted....but for some reason...here lately...we have gotten into a lot of fights..& now he is threatening to leave...I am finding that I have been comparing alot of issues I have with him..with things my EX did to me....like my BF just made a new friend..

2007-02-14 21:49:34 · 5 answers · asked by mysticfairy74 5

Is this normal?
My boyfriend used to constantly tell me that he loves me.. Now in the last 2 weeks he hasn't said it.. He hasn't started treating me any different.. He spoilt me for valentines day, as he does most days. I'm just confused.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. x x

2007-02-14 21:33:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-14 21:23:08 · 11 answers · asked by M S 1

I work the same number of hours as my fiance and we live together. Im also pregnant and get really tired. Do you think its wrong for me to ask him to help around the house?

2007-02-14 21:20:57 · 19 answers · asked by Elaine B 1

2007-02-14 21:20:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, here the situation. say i want to strip for one night in a club. and the person im going out with said its ok. because they said that, do they get a share of the money that i make too because they are letting you?

2007-02-14 21:17:26 · 7 answers · asked by face:face 1

2007-02-14 21:12:33 · 14 answers · asked by AJAY P 1

i've w/ my gf for about 2 years. i am sure she'll not cheat on me. but i know she is lying. we are both students, and in seperate schools all day long. i let her go out w/ her friends. Recently i've been suspicious of her talking to this guy from her school (by the way she has a lot of guy friends but this one sounds different to me). I noticed him calling almost everyday recently and her too (i tracked his phone #). the thing is this she does not admit that she talks to him, in fact she doesn't even mention his name (which is figured out). last week on saturday she went out to work on her project @ 4 pm she said it will take at most 2 hours she came back home @ 2 am. so @ night i checked her cell voice messages and this guy had called her and asked her if she wants to take a brake around 8pm at starucks. when she got home she told me that she was working @ her project!!! a couple more instances such above have happend since then. i am going crazy and have no sleep! what should i do!!!

2007-02-14 21:09:40 · 24 answers · asked by ez_is_not_so_easy 1

2007-02-14 21:07:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

anyone else out there have an insensitive pig for a husband / boyfriend ?!? i do. mine never even mentioned valentine's day until about 8pm, and that was only because i had a face like thunder.... i calmly explained that i was disappointed that he hadn't even bothered getting me a card, and his response was 'i didn't think u'd be bothered by it all'. i have no idea why after 6 years of sending cards to eachother that he suddenly feels like i'm no longer bothered, and i felt like ramming the card & gift i'd got for him down his throat (or somewhere worse !) anyone else out there have totally insensitive partner ? ( i guess i should ask the guys too - i know women aren't perfect either. ) and please - i don't want to hear stories of perfect guys who treat u to meals out, etc, etc, - i'm depressed enough !!!

2007-02-14 21:06:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

a lesbian stud i met is playing cat and mouse. how do i tell her that i don't like it. we are cool, we talk when we run into each other which is often, laugh a lot, discuss things, stare at each other, and she compliments me well. she has my contact info but i dont have hers. she gave me a number at work and the days and times she off- in this case y not call me when u get time at work. just yesterday i found out she has been and still is in a short term live in relationship, which explains it. but y would she play with my emotions. is she not happy at home or something or just loves the attention we give one another and the flirts. should i say something????

2007-02-14 21:05:19 · 4 answers · asked by cute_dimples2003 2

My gal anD I were goin on about almost 2 Years... She left me for another guy.... Its gonna be 1yr plus almost since she broke up with me.... I still havent gotten over her... I cant concentrate wit ma other stuffs either.... what should I do? Im helpless...

2007-02-14 21:01:47 · 10 answers · asked by eragonlzrd 1

My partner and I have lived together for a year-ish. Before we moved in we decided that since we both have full time jobs, we'd both do 50% of the housework.
He doesnt do any housework unless I tell him. I wouldnt tell him to do anything if it didnt affect me but if he doesnt do the washing then I dont have any clean clothes etc.
Everyday he tells me he's going to leave me cus the place is so messy and he cant live in mess. When I've done my housework he picks at things saying they're not quite right and tells me Im lazy even though his washing up is still there 3 days later and the bins are never emptied until I scream at him. He then says he's sorry and he loves me.
Sometimes he has a major clean up, tidying all the places he uses and moving all the stuff to places he doesnt use.
I dred coming home cus when I do, he's sitting on the computer demanding me to clean the bedroom when he's been home for an hour already!
Its my home 2 and I feel dirty and useless!!

2007-02-14 20:59:52 · 18 answers · asked by Wicked Top. 3

2007-02-14 20:52:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous