Is this normal?
My boyfriend used to constantly tell me that he loves me.. Now in the last 2 weeks he hasn't said it.. He hasn't started treating me any different.. He spoilt me for valentines day, as he does most days. I'm just confused.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. x x
2007-02-14 21:33:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I said constantly maybe that was an over statement.. but it was most days.
2007-02-14 21:48:10 · update #1
maybe he hasnt realised he hasnt said he loves you maybe showing you that he loves you is enough like spoiling you on valentines day, whatever it is you could tell him you love him and see if he replies with the same if he does not then there is obviously something you should both talk about.
2007-02-14 22:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely time to sit down together. Although you should ask yourself could you be annoying him by constantly asking him to tell you he loves you? You said he spoilt your Valentine's Day as he does most days..........think about that one too. Is it in the past 2 weeks you think he has been spoiling days or much longer? Understandably you are obviously sending this in quite upset but if you read over what you have written you have also said He hasn'tstarted treating you any different so it does make what's going on with the two of you a little difficult to answer accurately. Good luck.
2007-02-14 21:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might be going through some things. dont be in a rush to accuse. u dont have to be constantly told. action speaks louder than words. u would rather him show u as he did for v day than tell u all the time and not show it. yur worth something if he spending and spoiling u. u said he hasn't treated u different.........wats the problem. let him know u care for a change
2007-02-14 21:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by cute_dimples2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are very lucky to have a boyfriend who has spoilt you for Valentines and most other days. I wouldn't worry about it, just be happy with him, and appreciate all he does.
2007-02-14 22:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, maybe he just dont feel the need to constantly tell you. If he spoils you and still acts the same you have nothing to worry about, just enjoy the relationship.
2007-02-14 21:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by kxkx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened with me....
He didnt tell me for ages and i started to worry so i talked to him and he didnt realise how i felt and now says it more than he did. it made me feel better.
Communication is a wonderful thing xx
2007-02-14 21:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by tweetypie771 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although nice to hear you shouldn't constantly need to be reminded. Do you say it first with no responce? That may be a little different.
2007-02-14 21:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. If he treats you like he loves you, saying those three words should not be that important.
2007-02-14 21:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to jump to conclusions but he may be having an affair. Or they just really is not a reason.
2007-02-14 21:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by no_ugly_boys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about it you shoulnt need told all the time!
Tell him you love him and he will say it back to you just to make sure if you need to.
2007-02-14 21:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋