how do you tell if a man is bisexual because my partner of 4 years has this friend when he comes round and my boyfriend has a shower he gets undressed in front of him and he is not bothered if he is watching or not and also he touches his bum and when i ask him what he is doing he says he is just messing about
also yesterday my boyfriend was a sleep and i woke him up and asked for a cuddle and he said wait i have finished in my sleep why does this happen and what are you thinking about when this happens and how can you stop this from happening i am just so confused i need help
2007-02-16
23:43:34
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i have already asked him if he is bisexual but he says no he is not he just likes messing about to wind his friends up but if he was just messing about why does he undress completly in front of him
2007-02-17
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It's perfectly okay to be bisexual. The best thing you can do is accept him for what he is. Maybe it's time you considered a threesome.
2007-02-16 23:48:59
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answered by ? 5
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He could just be messing around but only you know for sure as to what you see, as for getting undressed in front of another man most men would do it an not be bothered.
i don't quite know what you mean about him finishing in his sleep unless you are talking about wet dreams which are quite common in young men and is just a build up of sperm, that as to be released and the more you use the more you produce so it cant really be helped
2007-02-16 23:59:06
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answered by Anonymous
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I would ask the friend and him at the same time in the same room. Some times men can act really immature like that. He could be denying being bisexual, be sentimental explain to him you don't care about his sexual orientation and that you just want to know.(if u dont care)
2007-02-24 15:51:11
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answered by mrscuttibooty 1
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I don't think a Real Man would be touching another mans bum, and if he chooses to finish a dream over "Cuddling" with his Woman, I would be concerned too. Ask yourself,Do you deserve this? Go find yourself a Real Man sweety.
2007-02-23 01:38:09
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answered by iwild 2
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Maybe he's just curious, and like's the thought of his mate fancying him? You really need to talk to him though, come straight out with your concerns. If he is a good b/f he will respect your feelings and curb any behaviour that makes you upset/uncomfortable
2007-02-23 07:06:44
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answered by Dimples 4
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Its the Big Bi Bloke Show and your man has a guest seat on the panel.
Personally I wouldn`t let it bother you unless he starts sleeping around and brings home nasties.
2007-02-17 00:10:22
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answered by caitlin_the_skeptic 3
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I would trick him and say that you were thinking that he was Bi and that if he was then you would like to see what it is like to be with 2 men. If he says ok then he is definately BI because no straigt man would even think of it. If he says yes tell him he is a sick f**k who needs to go get him and man and leave his a**
2007-02-24 06:16:54
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answered by sweetiepiefg 1
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It makes no difference if he is bi-sexual or not.
If you feel uncomfortable about his behaviour, towards men, women or towards you, then speak to him about it.
If you feel insecure in your relationship then try to establish why & confront it.
You cant stop him from behaving the way he wants to but you can tell him how it makes you feel and if he wants to be with you he will try to change or explain his behavior.
2007-02-17 00:05:29
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answered by Jen G 2
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Well i certainly would not touch my mates bum messing about or otherwise..so you suspicions could be true..but you are going to have to ask him..good luck.
2007-02-16 23:51:07
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answered by ? 5
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Hi. It sounds like he is bisexual, sit him down and have a word and make him tell you the truth.
Smurf
2007-02-16 23:48:59
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answered by Smurf 7
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