my mom dont wantt me 2 have a bf cos i'm 2 young im 14 and i wont do anything stupid cos i want to make something of myself how can i convince her that i'm not to young 2 have a bf cos i do have one but if my mom find out she'll go mental and im not a good lier
2007-02-15 10:06:58 · 2 answers · asked by rb_chick101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you need someone to advocate for you - an intermedairy who can talk to your mum, get your mum to understand & respect your feelings, & someone who can get you to understand what your priorities should be.
If this situation goes on, it will distract you from school work, you'll end up feeling very cross with your mum, pregnant, or quite possibly chucked out of the house!
It aint good to tell lies, to deceive your mum, to do things behind her back.
Your mum does have YOUR best interests firmly in her mind.
By enlisting the help of an advocate, maybe you'll understand your mum a little better, & hopefully you will both reach a happy compromise i.e. maybe she will let you have a boyfriend & you can see him round at her house once she has met him & knows for sure if he is suitable for you i.e. not the type that's going to hurt you.
How do you find an advocate? Do you have a school counsellor? Could they put you in touch with family services?
Is there a centre near you that offers guidance to young people?
Is there a close relative you can confide in, who wont take sides, who is good at communicating & gets on well with your mum?
2007-02-15 20:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up!! wait till your older and can spell properly
2007-02-15 10:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋