Other - Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

I am so confused yet so sad. I have been dating my now boyfriend for about 5 months and the first 3 months were out of this world. Honestly, we got along as the best of friend, we laughed together and he was there any time I needed him for a shoulder to cry on. I am completely and utterly attracted to the guy. He is honest, sincere, loyal, TRUSTWORTHY, HOT, has a beautiful house, and I KNOW he would be a Wonderful father. If I had the choice of any father for my "imaginary" children it would 150% be him. He is completely real. Although 6 months before we started dating I dated a complete jerk for a year. He was abusive, he was a cop until he got caught for abusing me, all in all short story he ended up getting fired and he is no longer a cop, got caught for DUI, is 35 and cannot keep a girlfriend cause he is a player. Although, he was able to steal my heart my sweet talking me and I ended up very hurt when we broke up - I think he still owns a piece of my heart although I hate him at the same time.

So that being said, this relationship I am in is my 1st non dramatic relationship and I feel as though something is missing. I hate saying what I dont like about him cause it makes me sound ridiculous but I feel like his niceness is too much sometimes, I analyze everything he does. My ex could dress up in a pink tu-tu with one of my bra's and I would have just laughed but honestly if my new beau were to do that I think I would judge him based on it. I still enjoy spending time with him, I enjoy having sex with him and I enjoy relaxing with him but for some reason I dont feel like I love him like I am supposed to. I sometimes get frustrated with how much he kisses me or is all over me but I think I can over it. What I am asking is why is this happening. During the 1st 3 months things became very serious. We moved in together and I was 150% sure I wanted to start my life with him, now I question myself and I dont know why. Is my gut trying to tell me something or am I just not used to having a normal/healthy relationship. If there is anything in this world that I want to work it would be this relationship. I know I could have an incredible life with him. But I feel stressed cause I dont know if this is what love is supposed to feel like?!?!?!

Or could it be because for the past 5 months we have spent EVERY night together. Honestly every night?!?!?! Is there any way we can make this work and KNOW that I am IN LOVE with him?!?!?

2007-02-15 05:16:27 · 6 answers · asked by dawson190154 1

Just to give you alittle background on the situation, A friend of mine whom mind you showed extreme romantic interest in me for three years, rented out a room to me in his house. Here and there, he would complain about little stuff, such as me washing my clothes after 8 o clock , and me leaving a dish in the sink.Recently, it's gotten worse, after a guy friend called his phone asking for me.He came to my door telling to tell that M&%&@*&..to not call his phone again, so after that point things went for the worse, he complained to me that he doesn't want me to park my car in the driveway, he told me that he doesn't appreicater me walking around his house thinking that he wants me because he doesn't, he left a bag of trash that I put in the trash can on my bedroom door and to top it off, he bangs on my door, and tells me that he wants me out today...and if I'm not he's going to change the locks, and he told me he's going to have me jumped..so how do I handle this.. and why is he so mad

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2 minutes ago
I asked him myself why is so mad..He said because I'm a liar, And I asked him why does he feel I am a liar, and he said because I told him that I talked to the other roommate about washing aftet 8 o'clock and he asked her and she said I never did, plus he said that he doesn't appreciate the fact that I called him an a$^&*@...so therefore he's going to get someone to beat me up..for those things..does that sound logical..

2007-02-15 05:12:59 · 11 answers · asked by Virgo1980 1

Hi
I have a brother that is 30yrs old and has apsolutley nothing in his life! He is the partying, dont care about any one but himself type! Well he has lived with my grandmother his whole life and never had one bill! He is a drug addict and drinks alot! My grandmother is now in a home and my family is selling the house! Now he wants to move in with my mother to use her to! My mom doesnt have much but what she does have i dont want him to ruin it for her! I have a great life with my own family now and he has helped me in the past but also got me in alot of trouble! He called me last night to see if i would come pic him up in another state to move him in with my mom! Should i help him! He only calls when he needs something! Im scared when he moves up here he will be calling me all the time to go out! I dont want to feel responsible for a grown man! he has apsolutly nothing but his clothes... he has kids but doesnt pay childsupport! he doesnt even have a job! HELP ME decide

2007-02-15 05:06:04 · 12 answers · asked by hellokitty 2

his birthday is saturday. not sure whether to get him clothes or maybe some type of sing along bear. im hearing that babies r us is expensive. any ideas you guys have?

2007-02-15 05:01:22 · 12 answers · asked by dgmotley 2

i really think this guy is sincere and honest with me and everything would work out for us to be together??

2007-02-15 04:56:16 · 9 answers · asked by lilkim402007 1

We have full cusody of my son(nephew) and want to change his last name to ours before he starts school. He was abused and my sister married the man that hurt him. He has been with us for 3 years. He has not see or spoken with her in over 2 years. She wont agree to change his name. Does anyone know if there is any way to do this without her? Or make it so she doesnt have ANY say with him? Can we just use our last name and not change it legally?

2007-02-15 04:54:14 · 11 answers · asked by knight_janette 3

If you give all of yourself, will that be wise or stupid?

2007-02-15 04:28:53 · 19 answers · asked by Dosage 3

2007-02-15 04:17:32 · 6 answers · asked by sexy♥ 2

Do you ever feel like your missing out and when you try to change things you realise how lucky you are to have the things you've got?I've been out socialising in the past thinking i was missing out but when im out im quite happy thinking about the life that i've got and realise that all my mates with no responsabilitys would love my life with responsabilitys such as a partner and a home and a child to think about.What do you think?

2007-02-15 04:14:50 · 19 answers · asked by Cat Woman 2

I'm a bi-sexual female. I was just wondering if any of you
ladies out there have either thought about or experienced the
joys of being with another female. I would love to hear your
stories. I need to ask a special question to the one
who gives me the best answer.
Please, no negative comments. I have nothing but love
and respect for everyone. I would love
the same in return.
Thanks a bunch.

2007-02-15 04:13:07 · 19 answers · asked by Tasha 1

I'm talking about relationship wise. I'm only asking out of curisity and was wondering if anyone has been in this situation before and if you have how was your relationship and how long did you stay together for? Do you think it's a good idea for two people to stay together for that reason? I am just wondering no reason why I'm asking this. It just popped into my head and I wanted to ask out of curiosity.

2007-02-15 04:12:18 · 10 answers · asked by Irish Girl 5

2007-02-15 04:06:50 · 3 answers · asked by electrified_dancers 2

Was that person happy about that and how she/he returned to you?

2007-02-15 04:02:59 · 2 answers · asked by Grom 3

i've been with my b/f for 7 months, i used to goout with him 5 yrs ago b4 i had my son, so i know him quite well. everything between us is great. we both have one child each and we're like a proper family. we get on brilliantly and he's jus bought a house and he's asked me to move in with him. the only thing is, i've found a wart down below. i know i've not slept with anyone else but him, and it was a while b4 i started seein him that i had sex with anyone else. he's all for honesty and trust, so i know he's not cheated either. i know i have to tell him jus incase he gets one too, but i really don't want him to think i've done something i shouldn't. i've looked on sexual health sites and apparently they can lie dormant for months even yrs b4 any even grow. what should i do?

2007-02-15 04:02:14 · 8 answers · asked by Bird 2

I am so confused yet so sad. I have been dating my now boyfriend for about 5 months and the first 3 months were out of this world. Honestly, we got along as the best of friend, we laughed together and he was there any time I needed him for a shoulder to cry on. I am completely and utterly attracted to the guy. He is honest, sincere, loyal, TRUSTWORTHY, HOT, has a beautiful house, and I KNOW he would be a Wonderful father. If I had the choice of any father for my "imaginary" children it would 150% be him. He is completely real. Although 6 months before we started dating I dated a complete jerk for a year. He was abusive, he was a cop until he got caught for abusing me, all in all short story he ended up getting fired and he is no longer a cop, got caught for DUI, is 35 and cannot keep a girlfriend cause he is a player. Although, he was able to steal my heart my sweet talking me and I ended up very hurt when we broke up - I think he still owns a piece of my heart although I hate him at the same time.

So that being said, this relationship I am in is my 1st non dramatic relationship and I feel as though something is missing. I hate saying what I dont like about him cause it makes me sound ridiculous but I feel like his niceness is too much sometimes, I analyze everything he does. My ex could dress up in a pink tu-tu with one of my bra's and I would have just laughed but honestly if my new beau were to do that I think I would judge him based on it. I still enjoy spending time with him, I enjoy having sex with him and I enjoy relaxing with him but for some reason I dont feel like I love him like I am supposed to. I sometimes get frustrated with how much he kisses me or is all over me but I think I can over it. What I am asking is why is this happening. During the 1st 3 months things became very serious. We moved in together and I was 150% sure I wanted to start my life with him, now I question myself and I dont know why. Is my gut trying to tell me something or am I just not used to having a normal/healthy relationship. If there is anything in this world that I want to work it would be this relationship. I know I could have an incredible life with him. But I feel stressed cause I dont know if this is what love is supposed to feel like?!?!?!

Or could it be because for the past 5 months we have spent EVERY night together. Honestly every night?!?!?! Is there any way we can make this work and KNOW that I am IN LOVE with him?!?!?

2007-02-15 04:01:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got back to together with this guy and I want to go out with him and I can't think of any good dates plus he doesn't like to talk on the phone just text but now his texts are gone and he can't text so he won't call me back!
My parents wont let me go on any dates how should I fix this !

2007-02-15 04:00:52 · 4 answers · asked by sam_roxmysox 2

my b/f and i have been together for almost 2 1/2yrs and have a little girl named kylie. we have alot of kinda issues that dont have to do with our relationship on top of the relationship issue(lol).when he cheated,it broke my heart, i love this guy so much, i have his kid, i clean his house(we live wit his mom and brother)i cook, and still.... anyways i would just like to know wat i should do or can do? i just feel like he lies to me and cheats on me all the time now, how can i trust him again?oh ya and since i found out i never really got an explanation he just wont talk about it, theres no closer for me... i might be overreacting so just tell me if i am...lol. thanks

2007-02-15 03:56:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got a little frog that makes a kissing sound and a big chuck of chocolate and those little pillows in the shape of a heart and a little gummy rose thing that lights up

2007-02-15 03:49:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the past, it seems like some parents considered men that were quite a bit older as marriage material for their daughters because they were good, strong men. How is a young man any different? He can want to get in a girl's pants just as much as an older one.

2007-02-15 03:44:19 · 12 answers · asked by Smiles 3

he's my fiance and I love him so much and I think he's cute and even if he's not I wouldn't care. my parents are making a big deal out of it (our relationship) saying that he's too ugly for me and I will regret marrying him, I don't see him as ugly at all.
I'm 5'8 and 140 lbs and hot....they say :)
here's his pic, what do you think of him, and what would you think when you see me walking with him?
I don't get opinions from people about him..except from my family, so I just wanted to get some opinions about him from people here :) I really don't care for what you all say about him (don't mean to be rude :D)but I just wanted to know what you all are gonna say :D

please be honest, I won't get hurt :)
http://flickr.com/photos/23156252@N00/384245827/?edited=1
by the way, the girl standing next to him is not me it's his sister, I'm hotter LOL :D

Please don't tell me it's on the inside that counts or it's in the eye of the beholder...etc just tell me your opinion....PLEASE!

2007-02-15 03:37:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Anyone have this trouble. Someone doesn't want to be with me and for some reason, even after a week of knowing this, I go to bed lonely and wake up sad. I feel so regretful I told her how I felt and let things get physical. Anyone have any suggestions. Thanks.

2007-02-15 03:35:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-15 03:33:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

About 8-9 years ago my sisters boyfriend of 6 years raped me in my parents house *he lived with us*..My sister never believed me after i told her and i even had to take a lie detector test to prove and get him to confess on a tapped phone. She still didnt believe me and told me to tell everyone he didnt rape me because she loved him still. I told her i could not and her and him broke up after he confessed to her..In the past he has also abused her emotionally and physically. They broke up and during christmas time she told me she is talking to him again and how happy she is..She said it like she didnt care that he friggin raped me. I was soo hurt but didnt say anything,i know if her and him get back together that i will one day see him again and i cant go through the pain of that. I just cant believe this and dont know what to do about this situation. Everyone in my family knows and they dont care at all. what would u do and why is she doing this to me?

2007-02-15 03:32:04 · 13 answers · asked by cheerychumms 1

How many affairs do you think occured last night? Were you one of them or did you help someone else get hooked up w/their affair?

2007-02-15 03:25:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are movies that suggest your life starts when you fall in love and are loved in return? Or maybe your life started when you have found what you wanted to do for the rest of your life, or when you were pregnant or got married? IS there something tramatic or happy that you have decided your life starts right then?

2007-02-15 03:21:01 · 3 answers · asked by amazon 4

2007-02-15 03:20:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do and my husband is anything but. (He wasn't this way when we got married.) His famous quote lately is, "you're the only woman ----- " (who would act like this, get upset about this, be hurt by this,etc)
He's young and had ONE relationship before me (that one lasted all of 3 months while he was in Korea and she was in the states)... so HOW WOULD HE KNOW?!
My friends are like me and expect at least some romance sometimes from their husbands (ESPECIALLY Valentine's day) but I just wanted to know how other women feel about this issue?

Is he right, do most women not care?

2007-02-15 03:18:32 · 18 answers · asked by Nina Lee 7

2007-02-15 03:11:03 · 8 answers · asked by citizenparticular 2

I remember going to McDonalds or any place with a playground was the best when I was a kid. I also remember having one of those christmas chains of paper to count down Christmas. Christmas day you would spend the whole day playing with your toys. I loved riding in my dads red Toyota truck while he told me all kinds of stories.
I couldn't wait to be a grown up and now I miss being a kid.

2007-02-15 03:10:58 · 20 answers · asked by Yair S 1

What can be done when your ex-partner/child’s other parent claims child on their return and they have not given any support to this child through out the whole year. Have not even taken the time to try and find out what the child’s needs are. I need to know, if there is anything that can be done legally. Please help!

2007-02-15 03:08:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous