i really think this guy is sincere and honest with me and everything would work out for us to be together??
2007-02-15 04:56:16 · 9 answers · asked by lilkim402007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you have enough money to start over again if it doesn't work out? It could be love at first sight, but, do you have security for what the future might hold? Have you considered for him to move to Maine? Is, he willing to put funds aside for you if it doesn't work?
2007-02-15 05:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Granny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately wait to make such a big choice as to move just on a week with him, even if it is true love. There are so many things that can change a relationship, even the ones that the people have known each other for years, can change in hard times. Think things through and make a list of all the good and all the bad things about the move. Like if you two ended things, would you have a job there to support yourself? Would you have a place to live on your own? What about friends and family to help you in a bind or in a really bad health crisis? You just dont want to cut yourself off from all your securities and resources. Now if you think through all of these things and feel great then go for it and have a great growing experience with your new man. Would you willingly go to PA if he were not in the picture? Becareful and good luck.
2007-02-15 05:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you really "think" this guy is sincere & honest. If you don't "know" for sure, then you need to put your plans on hold for a while. You spent a week with this guy & now you're ready to pack up & move in with him? Girl, you are very naive. I would not jump the gun right now where this guy is concerned. Take your time & then, when you know each other really well, & you both want to be together for the rest of your life, then you both could discuss living together. Don't act on impulse. Get your head on straight, & think things through.
2007-02-15 05:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never pack your stuff and leave to be w/ anyone unless marriage or a seriously strong relationship has formed. "Thinking" he's a good guy isn't enough. My husband and I dated long distance for a little over a year. I thought he was great, I wanted him to move in w/ me asap. Reality set in after he moved in. I loved him greatly, still do, but boy is it hard. He's his own person and so am I. Seeing each other all the time and sharing personal space is the hardest. You grow fond of each other when you are apart. You begin to rethink the idea when you move in. Now, he's my husband and we've been married 1 year. We lived together 2 years before marriage. Pls take my advice and take it slow. As much as you may want to be w/ him, it's smarter that way.
2007-02-15 05:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of decrease back relating to the break up which incorporate your ex. What became the break up over?? additionally, you in basic terms have been going out which incorporate your contemporary boyfriend for each week, supply him a guess. tell your ex to diminish back off a on a similar time as so as which you would be certain your emotions. have not have been given any communique which incorporate your ex for some weeks or possibly some months. and how good of acquaintances have been you which ones incorporate your curret boyfriend earlier y'all have been given at the same time? If y'all weren't good sufficient acquaintances i might tell him which you will possibly elect to get to be conscious of one yet another earlier certainly turning out to be bf/gf. Or tell him that your no longer waiting for yet another relationship in case you will desire to nonetheless have emotions on your ex. it is not honest to any of y'all. good luck!
2016-12-17 10:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just speaking from experience: A week wont do it...especially if you're commiting to a huge life change with this guy!
2007-02-15 05:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider how long have you known him.For all you know he could not be the person he says and pretends to be. Just becareful, make sure you know him and are comfortable with moving to be with him.
2007-02-15 05:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that same thing...but just make sure ur not doing it for the moment...cuz that's all it may be...just get to know him from a distance before u rush and do something...all situations are different...sometimes it work and sometimes it doesnt...im just saying to you, make sure its not for the moment...
2007-02-15 05:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by shawntelli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a little more time and good luck
2007-02-15 04:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by chris m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋