Other - Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

just because i have 2 chidren and i think the father is cheating people keep saying i should have got married first but why? so basically everyone is trying to say if he was married to me he wont cheat on me. i dont agree with that married or not ur man still cheats on you. not every man is perfect its hard to find the perfect ones. but u know what i could have married him then had children then he could of cheated on me. so please dont think being married is going to make a perfect life

2007-02-15 00:27:33 · 20 answers · asked by sarah j 1

so, i'll try to make this short

my husband is a great dad.
he is military and going to deploy soon. before he deploys he is taking a leave (vacation days) tomorrow and all next week. normally, our son is in daycare b/c we both work f/t.
he still wants me to take the baby to daycare everyday and "if he gets done what he needs to get done that day" he'll go and pick him up early.

the only thing he has to do is put up a fence in the back yard, which will be time consuming and nearly impossible to do while watching the baby, i get that, but if he's not working on the fence, then why should the baby be in daycare??

the "other" things he wants to get done are things i would be able to do while taking care of the baby. you can make dinner with the baby. you can read and do homework for an online class while taking care of the baby....
i feel like he's slacking on daddy duty....

how would you handle this??
i already started the discussion, but it wasn't going well....

2007-02-15 00:16:00 · 9 answers · asked by joey322 6

2007-02-15 00:15:36 · 8 answers · asked by tiemetight814 2

Hi all its me again unfortunately! Sorry for posting bout stuff regularly but its the only place i can get things off my chest without people having a go. Anyway ive got a works do coming up shortly but i do find that when i go with the new girls they get all the attention off all the lads and i get left out alittle. I am a fun person and am not that unapproachable to talk to. I always get stuck with the oldies!

The thing is i like talking to the lads and i get on fine with them in work yet on workdos they are completely drooling over these girls. I just feel as theres only 3 younger girls in my department ie me and the two newbies it makes me feel like im not interesting or not as pretty.

Is there anything i can do to rectify the problem

2007-02-15 00:09:14 · 5 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1

This isnt easy.My best friend of 18years is involved with a married guy.(they have a child together)Recently it all came out about their affair. He promised to divorce his wife since they began their affair 5 years ago(he has 2 daughters).Now that everythingis out in the open he still hasnt divorced her. The wife also confirmed that she no longer wants him.I constantly reminded my best friend of the implications if she continues this affair.Now she is depressed, stopped going to work,sleeps the whole day and cries her eyes out.I want to be there for her and I told her that he is not worth her tears.She is living in this fantasy world that they will live happily ever after, Its difficult to support her when i know she is only gonna get hurt in the end.Im at my wits end.How can i help her get over him.She also wants to stop seeing him but then shes at it again.I know its her life,but she depends on me for support.She is the independant one in this friendship.How can I help Her?

2007-02-15 00:01:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 18 mths broke up with me on Sunday over the phone. He obviously couldn't tell me face to face. I was lonely at times when he would go home for weekends, and I often said he didn't call to me as much as I called to him. He said I was trying to get him to do things he didn't want to do, and that I was too bossy. I am not an over bearing person by any means. I just wanted to spend time with him as I loved him. He does have work stresses and family stresses at the moment, and was a bit picky with him this wkend. But I can't believe he called everything off.I was so good to him. I have met another guy since it's over as he was dying to meet me for the last year, and I was curious.It was nice to have someone to talk to as my boyfriend was a bit uncommunicative at times and I found that hard to deal with. But he was a lovely gentle guy and I would never have hurt him and called it off. I'd like to have a long talk with him,How soon should I cantact him, it's been since Sunday?

2007-02-15 00:00:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous