i like a guy and he likes me too but hes 15 and hes not a virgin,he went out with my friend who is actually setting us up so shes fine with it because shes planning it and the guy likes my body a lot hes also really nice but my best friend doesnt like him she thinks im gonna get hurt and she will be mad at me if i go out with him because hes asking me out tomorrow and we have a big trip in a month and my moms not really ok with me having a bf even though she says she is.Pleaz help me decide.
2007-02-15 09:40:50 · 7 answers · asked by nala0102 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't waste your time focusing on boys. Do you see, from your own question, how complicated they can make your life? When you are ready to date, you will know, and look forward to it, and it won't feel so confusing. 15 year old boys are only interested in showing off to their friends, and trying to get lucky. Why do you want to be another knotch on his belt? I dont think you do, I think you are smarter than that, and I think you'll do the right thing. Boys will respect you alot more, if you have the guts to tell them that you are not interested in dating, and that you'll be their friend. Then, later on, you'll have a whole bunch of guys to choose from, to date, and you'll already have their friendship and respect!
2007-02-15 09:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes your body? Is that all?
What's so special about this guy? Is there anything really? I don't know this guys or you or your friend...but I've got 11 years more experience than you (meaning I'm 26) and guys like that don't change at ALL, even at 26.
I agree you're just going to get your feelings hurt if you know this guy likes your body and ....... (that's all you mentioned) So, you know he's up to no good.
Forget the guy and put him in his place. He's setting himself up for the lame recongnition of a being a player and a guy who had sex at a very early age and that he can get any girl he wants. It would be GREAT if you could reject him and completely shut him down. Let him know that there are girls out there who have both body and brains and you're not going to let yourself get used like he plans to use you.
Be alert! These kind of guys don't go away...they just get worse, so if you can do girls at your age a favor please shut that guy down for the male whore he is. That way, when you're my age...I hope that there will still be decent guys around for you to have your pick from.
2007-02-15 17:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Querida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I can't sya it doesn't matter what mom says cause your gonna find a way to date if you want to so that's that on that subject, as far as getting hurt we all do your gonna get hurt by some dude more than twice in your life. Do you like dude? if so get to know him as a friend, since you said he's not a virgin I'm assuming you are so don't rush into that. Do it when your ready and just because he's had sex doesn't mean you have to. Just be careful and never do anything your not ready to do sex is BIG responsiblity make sure your ready. And take it slow with this dude if he can't respect that screw him
2007-02-15 17:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off how old are you? You might be too young to have a bf. Secondly, if he's more "experienced" and is commenting on liking your body, then you have to know that he might expect to have sex with you at some point and time. You must make a decision for yourself whether you are ready to be sexually active, and stick with those values before you start any relationship. In my opinion you sound like a young women that needs to wait a bit. Good Luck.
2007-02-15 17:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sharisse F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't make sense, you said she's setting you up with him and she's ok with it, then you say she'll be mad at you.
More importantly, an unwritten rule amongst friends "You never date someone your friend went out with" There is a ton of fish in the sea. Tell him no.
2007-02-15 17:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey forget this jerk. If he's telling you how much he likes your body that is all he wants. your body.
once he gets it he will be gone.
You are too young for sex, especially just to be a notch on a guys belt.
are you ready to get PREGNANT AND GET SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES ?
Find a guy who wants you for ALL of who you are, not just sex.
2007-02-15 17:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by andreamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you can say about him is he likes your body, then stay away cause that will be all he is after.
2007-02-15 17:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋