I honestly don't think I can do this anymore....My b-friend broke up with me a week ago and even though this is the 3rd time in 3 years...for a couple of months at a time...I feel like I've lost my soul mate....I honestly don't think there is anyone out there that is better then him and I loved everythiong about him....how do you have hope that I'll ever be happy without him?
2007-02-15 00:47:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
o yes you will eventually be happy with out him dont get depressed over him theres more to life than boyfreinds and beleive me you will have a lot of them in your life
2007-02-15 00:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is most important. Live life happily.
And NO, you can't be unhappy without that someone (soulmate?).
Personally, I don't believe in soulmate...and even if I do...it doesn't necessarily mean you two should be together.
You are still young, I am sure. As you grow older and hopefully wiser, you will realize what some of us here are telling you.
You seem stuck in your situation, because you choose it to be. Let go..and move on. If you run statistics my dear, you have a lot of options out there even within the proximity of your neighborhood.
Cheer up! Life has much to offer you. Don't waste it. Technically, life is a one shot experience.
2007-02-15 01:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Israel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are hanging on to a dream, something that isn't in reality...if you have broken up 3 times in 3 years doesn't sound like you are happy with him. There are plenty of people better for you than living this type of life.......hold your head up high, keep busy, get a new hair cut and stay away from him; everything will fall in place and before you know it, you will be happy with yourself and will attract someone who is happy with you!
2007-02-15 00:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a joke? Do you know how many people break up with their so-called "soul mates" only to find out it was the best thing for them. Learn to be single for a while... learn to be self-sufficient and quit relying on someone else to make you happy.
2007-02-15 00:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Snow Plow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's bigger and better "men" out there. Just pick yourself up and move on. You'll meet someone that will treat and respect you more, trust me. Don't get depressed over a loser. Not worth your time. Life's too short, have a friggin' blast while you still can. :)
Peace
2007-02-15 00:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thought that you two needed to break up and spend some time apart, he has his mind made up. So, you can't be all up in his face trying to get back with him. You don't know if there is anybody else out there for you, because you haven't thought about anybody but him. Dedicate your life to yourself, not think about your EX-Boyfriend.
2007-02-15 00:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny i have been there and i suggest you move on. Girl don't ever forget that you were living before you met him. Don't be weak and wait for him. Move on before you guys get back together and he breaks up with you again. he's not thinking about you or even putting you first so think about yourself and be strong. Good luck (take it day by day.)
2007-02-15 00:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEE THATS WHERE U WRONG THINKING HE IS THE ONLY ONE FOR YOU C'MON WAKE UP GET OVER UR IMAGINATION OF UR SO CALL SOUL MATE THIS DUDE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU, YOU SEEM LIKE A NICE GURL U DESERVE TO BE TREATED AS SUCH. DONT LET HIM GET U DONE RISE ABOVE AND BE STRONG MOVE ON
2007-02-15 00:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by DI'MARIO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wonder why always guys have to dump you girls....since i have read all the dating and family relations here, there have always been issues on "my bf broke up....xyz.." never read from a guy "my gf broke up...xyz..." come on girls dont prove yourselves so weak, if he can dump you, why think about him? dump him even more by living up your life always with a new start and pretending nothing has every happened, or whatever, that never meant anything to break you up or take your life away just as that....
2007-02-15 00:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by Alkahest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realise that u have the rest of ur life ahead of you and that there are tonnes of ways of having fun with out a partner
dont base ur life on someone els
there is always a brightside to EVERYTHING - believe me - i know the truth !!!! - pls dont spend ur life being misrable about 1 thing - you will miss alot of brilliant butifull things if you are preoccupied with sorrow
BE HAPPY :)
peace out :)
2007-02-15 00:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋