Other - Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

My boyfriend doesnt like being in a crowd of people he doesnt know, but in the dream he wated to go to a basketball torunament. He noticed guys watching us and then they pulled out a gun and tried to shoot at us but the gun wouldnt go off and yet when they pointed elsewhere it would go off. They tried one more time to shoot at us and the gun still would not go off. Then I woke up to my boyfriend calling me to get up.

2007-01-26 17:39:47 · 1 answers · asked by klp386 1

2007-01-26 17:19:07 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hope someone outhere reads this and dosent just assume the worst of someone. the fact is im desperate, and have no idea where to turn or what to do. im pretty much just a normal guy that has had a ring of bad luck. last week i broke my foot. now i cant even work. not to mention what it cost to fix my foot. My family cant help me. I dont have anything left to sell. the pawn shop wont give me a dime for this old laptop. they wont even stop my internet service until i make a payment. as weird as that sounds its true. I watch the Christian TV show w/ pat roberts every morning, and people just throw $ away its such an obvious hoax. If I can mabey reach just a couple of those people, and all I want is enough to help myself. If I had $1000 I could pay off my 3 mos back rent, not be out on the streets, and still have plenty left over to buy an oven I need for my buisness. I swear to god on all thats holy including the lives of those I love. This is a chance for someone to make a real differ

2007-01-26 17:11:11 · 8 answers · asked by swan5250 2

My b/f is always busy and has no time to spend with me! We don't even see each other may be once in a month or so & even for that he has to get permission from his mom/family! But the worst thing is he won't even talk on the phone, 1st of all i have to call him and if i call he picks up and talks for 5 min and goes like 'hey i got to go' i'll talk to u later then again 10 more mins and so on....well i'm the type who expects him to talk at least for an hour! Is that too much? Am i expecting too much from him? OTHER BIG thing is that i feel i love him and i'm so crazy about him more than him!! Is that a weakness for my love? For instance he will live for a week or so if i don't talk to him! But i can't be like that if he doesn't pick up the phone or talk to me! What can i do? When we get to see each other is there any good approaches that would make him understand and love me like i do!

2007-01-26 16:59:31 · 12 answers · asked by Girl 1

There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke college student, and I cannot afford them, but he's still asking me to told me to call him for this free session, so I asked him why was he offering me the free session, and he said because he does it for people he connect with so anyhow, I finally showed up for the damn session but I was late, so he's like when can you come in and I told him next friday and he's like why so

2007-01-26 16:54:18 · 16 answers · asked by Trish T 1

Yes he has to take care of his parents that's what i meant by family oriented! Well, he's the type who would do anything for his family, e.g.if his family said 'don't talk to her' then he won't! that's what i sense and i know he would do! He has to go to school and work i understand! But seeing once in a week is very difficult, and i'm the type and i guess all other girls would fee that too...if we have to ask everytime 'i need to see u/we need to go out/pick me up' then that leaves nothing with them, they have to ask too, that's like 'just because we ask them they doning it' Now he is so demanding both him and i know that i'm more than enough for him, my friends always say (i know bias too). But i still love him, i just love him for what he does....he really cares about me and loves me...but not a romantic person to be with or understanding! i would say for him everything comes after his family! I have no problem but can't he treat me at least equal to them!

2007-01-26 16:23:31 · 2 answers · asked by Girl 1

but.. he is younger than me.. and i do know the quote.." age doesnt matter.." please dont say that.. what shall i do?? heLP!!

2007-01-26 16:22:48 · 6 answers · asked by jammy 2

what would u do if u was a single mom with a 3yr old child ur childs father is a registered sex offender he clames he did not do it down deep u personally dont know what to think down deep u still are in love with him when he was with u he just never seemed that way u are just not sure who to beleve he says his ex made it all up that thay booked him on word of mouth that no tests was done his ex is a loon but thats besides the point and that he clames to be in a program not in jail for this does any one know is this possible and when he gets out of the program he would like to get back together with u .would u get back with him ? what should i do

2007-01-26 16:22:27 · 10 answers · asked by ANGELOFDARKNESS 1

ok to start this off me and my boyfriend have been doeing some bad things nothing like sex or enything but other thing and i am like 14-15 plz dont tell me i am to young i now i am plz give me and answer see well ever seense i stared doing stuff with him and gave in he starts not been romantic as much as he usaly is and now my grandma witch i live with askeds me if i have done enything with him and i say no and see he just to be rell romtic and stuff but i can stop doing that stuff with him we both love it to much! ya i know gross but what ever how do i get him back to the same with out stoping what i am doneing!!!!

2007-01-26 16:22:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am dateing a black guy and my parents and any other family member is very against it and even some of my friends parents are i have been hurting through this for almost 2 years now....i will never give up on him but why do people have to be like this??

2007-01-26 16:08:08 · 21 answers · asked by trina 2

2007-01-26 16:04:28 · 6 answers · asked by beach blondie xox 2

So....I can't believe im sharing this crazy story but I was really confused by this for many reasons.
My ex-boyfriend and I first met about 3 years ago. When we met, he was seperated from his crazy wife....planning on getting a divorce. It was a bad break up....he ended up having to have her arrested and get a restraining order.

We fell head over heals for eachother. After 7 months tohugh....I broke it off with him. He was very upset and tried calling for months after.
About a year and a half later, I decided I really messed up. I tried contacting him and found out that he had took her back! They were still legally married too I guess.
He talked with a mutaly friend of our and he kept asking her why I had not told him everything sooner and that "in a prfect world, we would be together." He told her he still cared about and always has. He said that he didn't want to let go, but felt it was the right thing to do. He said "if he had things his way, we would be together?" What???

2007-01-26 15:53:28 · 4 answers · asked by ecrc 2

i can't explain to u long story. but i just tell u a bit.. my mom don't like my fiancee's parents. and my mom don't want me go his house ever cause my mom think his father is crazy man!... but i wanna kept over his house...and my fiancee want me stand up myself and im 19years old. he in college i working. we trying fix our life and get own place. but it's long story... what can i do? we are almost married... his parents dont like my mom. my mom dont like his parents.they dont get along.... me and my fiancee are stay together forever... my fiancee want me stand up and be tough. i told him i dont wanna be stress....i dont know what can i do....should i do kept over his house or not now?

thanks.....

2007-01-26 15:47:55 · 11 answers · asked by XxItalianxX 1

2007-01-26 15:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by justinstrachan 1

Me and my boyfriend got into this fight and we live together he left and than came back w/ the cops for his stuff. WEll, he came back 4 days later.During those days he would curse me out and tell me to leave him alone while I was pregnant.He than comes back Very apologetic things went so far.
I just wanted to know what do guys really do when they leave??

2007-01-26 15:44:33 · 4 answers · asked by buyme 1

2007-01-26 15:22:31 · 13 answers · asked by Connie R 1

2007-01-26 15:20:14 · 36 answers · asked by rokdude5 4

Please help me somehow anybody …
When I came to the states, I lived in a suburb and there was this friend who lived not far with from my house. He had a family member that would often come over but I was quitly shy and at the first look of the “family member” I remember I had a weird feeling… I just didn’t know what it was-but it was something strong and powerful deep in me. There would be times we would play but that feeling would stop me because I just didn’t know what it was. I was a quiet shy girl at the time.
But my story is… when I moved to different city –I lost contact of the “friend” and when I had to switch schools –I was so nervous and scared of going to a new school, but as soon as I walked in, I had a strange feeling –and when I came into my class “there he was the friends family member looking straight at me. The feeling returned-still unkown to me what it meant-but it was so deep and strong-and no words were spoken –only eye to eye connection.
So there we were going to the same schools together, and each day to day the feeling got stronger-as if he was a part of me in away- as if my mind was telling me something different then my heart-its weird –so weird beyond weird to me… but years passed and we came close until I told him I didn’t like him ( but the truth was I couldn’t help myself and this feeling was uncontrollable –and I would do everthing I can to get him out of my head.

2007-01-26 15:17:34 · 1 answers · asked by angelinee_1984 1

He doesn't give a crap about my bounderies.. and so I told him that he is out of our lives until he can stop bullying me and my kids... My question is... how to tell my family? I don't want them to feel punished for this persons bullying of me and my kids... but I will no longer take my kids to family functions is this person is there...

2007-01-26 14:57:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

we live in fort worth, tx. i am afraid he already hit me and it is going to get worst and we have a baby on the way.

2007-01-26 14:55:42 · 17 answers · asked by S. E 1

we live in fort worth, tx. i am afraid it is going to get worst and we have a baby on the way.

2007-01-26 14:53:34 · 5 answers · asked by S. E 1

MY mom is the exector of her moms estate and her brothers and sisters hate her because she cant do things there way Has anyone had this problem did things get get better?

P.S. my cousins will not talk to me! Even though i was reaLLY CLOSE TO THEM BUT NOW THEY WILL NOT TALK or even say hi TO ME AND I AM SAD!!!

2007-01-26 14:46:00 · 6 answers · asked by Tay 2

The roughness of the unshaved man is hard on my delicate face. What do all the women think about facial hair on men?

2007-01-26 14:41:02 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4

My wife has a habit of raising her voice on me and the kids. It runs in her family and I have seen her parents raise their voice for very small issues. I think that now she subconciously thinks that if she raises her voice, she is right. I have told her countless times, but it does not do any good. It is driving myself and the kids to the point that we do not want to talk to her about issues. I would appreciate any advice.

2007-01-26 14:19:28 · 30 answers · asked by Samuel 2

My boyfriend's grandfather died last night and the service is in a couple of days. We've been together 5.5 years, and living together almost 1 year. I very sincerely offered to accompany him to the funeral. HE ASKED ME NOT TO COME. He said that it would be a very emotional FAMILY affair, and although I'm kind of his family now, his parents and aunts and uncles would be very emotional and having an "outsider" (his words) there might make it worse. Although I guess I understand in a way, I also feel kind of hurt by this. Am I overreacting? ( I didn't say anything to him about being upset.)

2007-01-26 14:00:01 · 20 answers · asked by leaner 2

my ex and i broke up because a differences a month ago, but recently he told me he's afraid to let people close. Right now he's not talking to me and my friend because we were too close with him, but he's fine talking to the people he's not open with? We both care about him very much and want to prove to him that he can trust us and be open with us, but he wants us to forget about him. Should we forget about him and not care for him at all or just be patient with him?

2007-01-26 13:59:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been in this relationship 8yrs and for some reason i feel like he don't love me. But every time i leave he come crying and saying he love me. I don't understand i'm 37 so i should know a thing or two but i don't know if i still love him. We were going to get married but he acts like he is scared but he wants us to buy a house together. what should i do i want to work it out but if he don't show some love i'm going to have to say good bye for good. help reply at once.

2007-01-26 13:48:04 · 10 answers · asked by sexychocolate 1

2007-01-26 13:46:41 · 6 answers · asked by itsjustme 2

I've been in this relationship 8yrs and for some reason i feel like he don't love me. But every time i leave i come crying and saying he love me. I don't understand i'm 37 so i should know a thing or two but i don't know if i still love him. We were going to get married but he acts like he is scared but he wants us to buy a house together. what should i do i want to work it out but if he don't show some love i'm going to have to say good bye for good. help reply at once.

2007-01-26 13:45:42 · 2 answers · asked by sexychocolate 1

I ask that because most of the time whenever people be together for a long time, they lose the inlove feeling...

2007-01-26 13:37:28 · 6 answers · asked by La'Grange 4