Other - Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

2007-01-26 10:02:11 · 4 answers · asked by shygirl78 4

I'm still living at home as I can't afford to move out but I don't get on with my parents. They won't kick me out because they need me around, however, I know I do need to move out to get my independence. My career prospects are actually much better by staying where I am, or I can rely on my student loan and move to uni halls - but my prospects won't be as good in the end as my uni is in the middle of nowhere, therefore networking and opportunities there are far lower. Any advice appreciated.

2007-01-26 10:00:58 · 25 answers · asked by m l 1

Hello, my boyfriend and I been officially dating a month but I have
been around for a few months longer. We both have a pretty bad
relationship history so we are really taking this one slow. We both feel there's
a future together. When I first met him he wanted me to meet his
daughter (10yrs old). I told him no out of respect for him until we were a
little more stable. Now the relationship is moving along.

He hasn't said it but he's asking to bring his daughter along with us.
So I am guessing he wants me to start getting to know her and building
a relationship. I have met her a few times and thus have a really
comfortable relationship with her. Per him, we are just friends in front of
her but she's smart it's only a matter of time til she figures it out,
if she doesn't already know. I told him I don't want to lie to her if
she asks me. I know that eventually she will ask one of us about it.
Also, he made the comment "I don't want her to know we are together
because she's going to think we are going to get married."

My boyfriend and I have totally open communication. I am just in
unfamiliar territory and I am a little unsure about how to progress. Also we
dont have that much time together so there's a little bit of an issue
with alone time (me and him) vs. family time (me, him and her)

So what I would like is general advice on relationships involving a
child, any imput on his comment about the daughter thinking marriage. Also
the time issue, which is more important with strengthening our
relationship? Thank you for your help

2007-01-26 09:58:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bro was with this crazy girl they broke up but b4 that happend she had a baby. he takes care of the baby but is no longer with the girl. he now has a new girlfriend and the other girl is tryin to ruin everything wit him and his new girlfriend. Why are some women like that?

2007-01-26 09:57:58 · 5 answers · asked by judith l 1

I met this guy over a couple of months now. When we finally got close and he invited me to his home we played around and fondled each other. I refused to have sex with him and he seemed quite fine with it, cause i said i wanted to wait. After that same day I texted and called him but until now he has not replied to me. When i see him he acts as if he does not know me. What did i do wrong cause iam a very attractive girl.

2007-01-26 09:54:55 · 11 answers · asked by CHRISTINA L 1

I am 20 years old and I have grown into a horrible jealous girlfriend. I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now. When he goes to work he has to call me at all his breaks and lunch. If I call him and he doesnt answer I automatically assume he is hiding something. When he is at home we cant watch tv, or go anywhere other than to pay bills or get groceries. He doesnt go anywhere without me except for work. If I see any female that I believe looks, acts, walks or has anything better than me I get upset. I horrible low self esteem..and i'm extremely stubborn...I was just wondering if anyone else has expierenced this and if so were u able to work the relationship out?

2007-01-26 09:51:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 09:43:24 · 8 answers · asked by MJ 6

what i mean by that is HOW did he become successful? did he do his own work? or the woman who wuz supporting him encouraging him did all the work FOR him or what??? how does a man become successful with the help of a woman? Does she give him good ideas and he works on it or does he let her work on it? well what my point is that how does the saying "behind every successfull man there is woman" play a role in each other's responsibilities? as in what wuz the woman's responsibility to do to make him successful and what wuz the man's...etc....

2007-01-26 09:26:51 · 13 answers · asked by Legant 3

come over and walk in whenever they want to. My in-laws have a key to my house for emergencies only but now that my husband and I have a baby they feel that they can just come over and walk in when ever they feel like. Is this legal and what can I do about it?

2007-01-26 09:11:53 · 10 answers · asked by mdoud01 5

i really was being nice, i relly dont care about the two points, this site has been a great help to me in the past few weeks. so yes i really meant what i said.......

2007-01-26 09:00:58 · 9 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2

If your cousin was obviously upset (you didn't know it at the time, but she was having an axiety attack). She was upset for over an hour and suddendly up at left a Christmas dinner and took her kids with her. Would you get mad at here for taking her kids away from a Christmas dinner and leaving the relatives who worked so hard to prepare a meal, or would you ask her what the heck is bugging her... and if she is alright?

2007-01-26 08:57:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 08:50:19 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda H 2

i think you lot are great!!!!!!!!

2007-01-26 08:41:29 · 27 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2

Or is it valid if someone has hurt feelings?

2007-01-26 08:39:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 08:37:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do men find it hard to admit that they are wrong? even when they see that what they did or said was wrong? are all men this way?

2007-01-26 08:32:34 · 7 answers · asked by heavenlyangelscent 2

Ok, this may sound really, really silly, but Im totaly serious. My girlfriend is a truly amazing woman with some really bad past experiences, and I want to make something happen for her.

Basically, both her proms, (Junior and Senior) were ruined after about 10 minutes each by the jack-asses she was dating, and she always says she wishes she could have had those times, but oh well..

Now what I want to do is give her the next best thing, I want to spoil her a little, let her get her make up and hair done properly, pay for a dress she really wants and take her dancing somewhere, somewhere that its like the prom she never had.

Now the thing is I need to know the kind of places to look for dancehalls and dancing and stuff, cos Im actually not american and so I dont know too much about the country right now.

Also, does this sounds like a good idea to the women on here?

All help and serious answers only please. Thanks.

2007-01-26 08:28:10 · 3 answers · asked by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3

my daughter is spending a week with her father, shes 4, been there since last friday, everytime my partner rings and says "do you want to talk to mummy" she says NO!!! she hasnt seen him for 7 weeks, first time shes met hes family, so im guessing shes being spoilt at the moment, and no she wont want to come home to me after getting her own way all week??? am i being paranoid???

2007-01-26 08:22:33 · 19 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2

I am wondering if anyone out there has ever seen the user id given below on any website or group or forum or blog anywhere out there in the web. If so can you please let me know what site it was and in what capacity you saw the id; for example was it a comment on a blog or an active member. that type of thing. thanks
the user id I am looking for it bigofree40.

2007-01-26 08:13:07 · 3 answers · asked by finallyfree 1

My boyfriend and I have lived together for the past 7 or 8 months. We each have our seperate bank accounts. We split the rent 50/50, we take turns buying groceries and other household necessities, he pays $100 of the electric bill and if it's anything more than that, I pay the rest.
He makes about 35% more anually so he's been able to save a lot of money since I moved in. I don't want to sound selfish, but I'm getting the short end of the stick here. How do I bring this up without coming across like a total b*tch?
Neither of us is ready to get married so that's why we haven't pulled our money together.

What has been your experience?

2007-01-26 07:54:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

no matter how old you get?

2007-01-26 07:51:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I full in Love with a man,I married him about 2.5 years ago.Now he's not the man I knew.He picks on everthing I do,No matter what it is.I feel he loves me but not in love with me anymore?I worship the ground he walks on.I would do anything for him,His mom tells me he has alot on him.Yes i know this but so do I. I always do what I think will make him Happy.He use to write me poems and buy me things,I haven't gotton anything from him in about 3 years. I'm not sure what is going on,I have ask him if he wants me to leave and he aways says no,That he loves me.I'm really not that bad of a person.My birthday came and went,Chirstmas also came and went and he got me nothing,to let you all know yes I didn't forget him. Can someone tell me what they think? Yes I do very much love him.....

2007-01-26 07:48:13 · 5 answers · asked by blacksheet1975 1

Is it wrong to ask your cousin if he´s asked someone out to a date yet? It´s not serious question, since I was only kidding, but now my family´s on my back. He´s 34 and I think he likes her, but I was just kidding around. So anyways, is that not the proper thing to do, even if he is family?

2007-01-26 07:47:15 · 7 answers · asked by redneckgal 3

Ladies: When you're out and about, and a guy you have no interest hits on you, what is your best response?

For me, I'm married and have no interest in anyone other than my husband. I don't want to talk to them, but also, I don't want to so turn them off that they try to follow me with bad intentions. What should I do?

2007-01-26 07:46:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

In all your lifes experiences, what is the worst thing a guy has ever called you or said to you?
The ones that set me over the limit are "shut up" "f**k you" or "*itch".

2007-01-26 07:33:16 · 2 answers · asked by angel 3

so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 6 months....and he got this class that he has wanted for quite sometime now, and im so happy for him,so whats the problem right? well now, i wont see him nearly as often,maybe like 3-4 times a week for like 20 mins each,(beacuse the class that he got takes up all the free time we had for eachother), which for us, is not alot....we've been through so much together,it seems silly to let this stand in the way of our realationship, but we're both so young, and i cant help but think that maybe we should see other people before its too late and we regret it later, but then theres this feeling inside that says we were meant to be together. so im kinda in a rut. i truley love him. and maybe thats why i want to leave, beacuse i have a fear of being forgotten....
advice please?
(please no rude comments)

2007-01-26 07:30:37 · 2 answers · asked by jauryd 1

Thanks for coming!I am going to let you watch a video.It's about a case of Hong Kong.There are two guys in the video.The youngman pat the uncle's shoulder to tell him he's talking to loud.Then the video start.Here's the link.Please watch it first.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EsYRQkmVifg&mode=related&search=

After watching this,can you what do you judge this uncle,please?Also tell me his goodness and badness.Cause he is HK people,so do I.And I want to learn the goodness from him.To improve myself.Thanks so much

2007-01-26 07:29:54 · 1 answers · asked by Little Alex 1

apart from a very strong gut feeling,there are several other things ive picked up on recently that's telling me to get a grip and stop being the niave trusting partner that he knows i am.i need to know if i have been right to be suspicious or if ive been so so wrong but i need to know soon.i also need to do this discreetly so he has no idea im even capable of suspecting him.please give me the best ways and tips to get on with this and either give him the shock of his life or realise it's my paranoia and get on with our lives and be happy.

2007-01-26 07:17:49 · 30 answers · asked by nicola d 1

They are 29 and 25 yrs old. They turn on the TV, radio, get on the phone and mess aournd in his house and make a big mess and usually wake him up and he doesnt say anything about it.
I planned a dinner date with him and his mother and brother the other day and anyone else he wanted to invite, so I woke him up to ask him how many people were coming because I had to get to the bank before they closed to get some money. He threw a fit because I woke him up. He is still harping on it. I paid over $100 bucks for everyones dinner and drove 80 mi to get to the restaraunt. He acts so unthankful. Why does he gripe at me, but not his adult kids, and grandkids and other people who wake him up? He works nites.

2007-01-26 07:16:17 · 21 answers · asked by happydawg 6

2007-01-26 07:13:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous