Okay, I full in Love with a man,I married him about 2.5 years ago.Now he's not the man I knew.He picks on everthing I do,No matter what it is.I feel he loves me but not in love with me anymore?I worship the ground he walks on.I would do anything for him,His mom tells me he has alot on him.Yes i know this but so do I. I always do what I think will make him Happy.He use to write me poems and buy me things,I haven't gotton anything from him in about 3 years. I'm not sure what is going on,I have ask him if he wants me to leave and he aways says no,That he loves me.I'm really not that bad of a person.My birthday came and went,Chirstmas also came and went and he got me nothing,to let you all know yes I didn't forget him. Can someone tell me what they think? Yes I do very much love him.....
2007-01-26 07:48:13 · 5 answers · asked by blacksheet1975 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like he's going through something personal that may have nothing to do with you. Maybe he should consider counseling to get through whatever inside turmoil he's going through. However, if you approach him with this, do it lightly. Sometimes people (especially men) don't wan to come to terms with the fact that they're going through a mid-life crisis or whatever it may be. Best of luck to you!
2007-01-26 07:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny your in a really bad situation and i cant say i understand but if i were you i would give him a choice and make it very ferm! Tell him that you WILL leave if he doesn't figure out whether or not he wants to be with you and tell him how you feel tell him you want things back to the way things were before and you want him to do the things he did before be completely honest it will help hopefully
<3 hope i helped good luck!
2007-01-26 15:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Helper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not in love with you.
and he doesn't care about you. he is ignoring all the important things that keeps a relationship together.
don't try SO hard to please him.he isn't pleasing you.all your efforts are being ignored.
he just wants you there to do the wifely things he feels you should do.'
the relationship will not last because he doesn't really want it too.
he hasn't been fair or honest with you for awhile .
2007-01-26 15:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe he still loves you but maybe he just thinks that he doesn't need to get you things since you guys have been together so long...some guys get like that..you know.."I love you and you know it so I don't have to show it" sort of thing do something really romantic and maybe he'll jump back to his old self
2007-01-26 15:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not, not , not
2007-01-26 16:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋