Other - Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

I am 22 and I have a 1 year old and a 3 year old. I have to admit that my 1st child was a shock, I know I should of been more careful. But it was the best thing I ever did, I love her to bits! anyway, my partner works full time and I work part time, we don't need babysitters because or hours don't overlap. We have our own mortgage too. There are loads of people I know who don't work because they have children, and then they get benefits and council houses. I don't think it's very fair when I have to go to work to keep my family going. Do you think couples who have children and won't work should be made to? Even when I wasn't working, just after I had my first baby I still never claimed any benefits and we struggled on my partners wages. I understand everybody's circumstances are different but there is a girl who was boasting to her friends about how much money she gets for not working, she even said she might have another child to get even more money.

2007-01-24 23:41:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night I went to hang out with my boyfriend and I saw some of my guy friends so I went up to my guy friends and I was talking to them and when I said bye to them and looked back at my boyfriend he looked pi$$ed.And he said "are you done?" and I said "yeah,what's wrong" and he said "nothing" and then I said "I'm sorry,I don't get to see them that often" and then he said " what about me?I don't get to see you that often either."And I told him that I was sorry and that I would make it up to him.And he kissed me and we did our usual goodbye and all and he said that he loves me,but I could sense that he was jealous so as soon as I got to school I found my guy friends and I told them we can't be friends anymore and they didn't seem to mind.So,they might not have really cared that I was friends with them or not.And tonight I'm going to tell my boyfriend that I have no more guy friends so he can have ALL of my time and then I tell him that I'm sorry.Do you think I did the right thing?

2007-01-24 23:34:18 · 5 answers · asked by none 1

We been dating for 5 years, recently we just came back from holiday and when i give her a ring, hint her but did not propose.
She accept my ring but after two weeks she return me the ring and told me love is not enough to marry me, she want to find her true love and she say she unhappy when she ask me do things and she feel guilty! she say she try to love me but cant!
Recently i spend lesser time with her due to both our work, i am a property agent and she a banker! when she work i free, when she free i work!! I dont understand but i trust her loyalty, no third party!
The girlfriend ask me to give up cause love is not enough, just love!! I am confuse and i want her back so badly!! What should i Do??

2007-01-24 23:31:37 · 6 answers · asked by Ryan Ong 1

I have slapped him around the face told him to leave me alone but he just laughs at me.
If I tell my dad he will go mad and probably hurt him .

Should I tell him??
I am 17

2007-01-24 23:28:22 · 59 answers · asked by andie f 1

does love stink or does it rule??
Share your experiences why cause personally, i think love stinks

2007-01-24 23:27:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married on Valentines Day nearly 29 years ago. Each year I get her 2 cards and 2 gifts. She usually doesn't get me anything. Is Valentines Day intended for only females getting cards and gifts? We will usually go out to eat but I always pay for that too. I just wonder am I being envious of her getting all the attention or is it meant to be that way? Ladies, do you get your man anything for this occasion?

2007-01-24 23:04:27 · 5 answers · asked by Calill C 6

2007-01-24 23:02:52 · 8 answers · asked by Nidaa27 2

I wrote it myself

Your heart is racing,you feel the cold of the steel against your hand

Thoughts are running through your head,trying to think,think of somthing,anything

Looking for reasons.finding only bleeding and bruises

Trying to feel,looking for love and finding only emptyness

your mind goes back to the present,your heart feels like its going to come out of your chest

You reach for the trigger,you look back upon the past

The heartache,the pain,

It's to late to go back now,whats done is done

The past is unchangable....

And your head tells you "pull the trigger" and your heart stops

2007-01-24 23:00:07 · 10 answers · asked by katie 1

i've been with her son for about a year 1/2 now she was fine with me until now she thinks all im after is his money but im not and my boyfriend nows it! she says im lying and i not allowed to see him and even his brothers have admitted they ahve tried splitting us up on more then 1 occasion. i dont no what i have done wrong to deseve this i this i just had his baby but he was still born so we are all very emotinal atm i dont want her sympathy i want her to see im not as bad as she thinks i am i love he son to pieces and i not going to let he stand in our way but i dont want him to looose his family because of me and i dont want himn to choose becausre it isnt fair. what can i do to sort this out before its to late?please hep

2007-01-24 22:42:16 · 15 answers · asked by mel x 1

I promise no more of these just what do you think

Your heart is racing,you feel the cold of the steel against your hand

Thoughts are running through your head,trying to think,think of somthing,anything

Looking for reasons.finding only bleeding and bruises

Trying to feel,looking for love and finding only emptyness

your mind goes back to the present,your heart feels like its going to come out of your chest

You reach for the trigger,you look back upon the past

The heartache,the pain,

It's to late to go back now,whats done is done

The past is unchangable....

And your head tells you "pull the trigger" and your heart stops

2007-01-24 22:36:38 · 3 answers · asked by katey 2

hey everyone..i have this problem with a girl,whom i had a crush for,and it got stupid,and silly..i was obsesed a short period over her,she noticed and ignored me like she say`d "for my good" well i did,i thought about it and i`m over it for about 1month didn`t spoke to her
but yesterday some girls noticed me to come to dance classes again cause i didn`t went for 3 weeks..i forgot about it kinda,and didn`t went becouse of her
now i`m good but if i go i will not be natural,and act not like myself and she will notice that]eventhou i don`t feel nothing,it is a relationship that is good as friends to remain,but i don`t think it`s going to work..by the way i`m 16 and have dance classes in about 4 hours..so..

2007-01-24 22:33:15 · 4 answers · asked by thirst of knowing 1

2007-01-24 22:21:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i keep thinking of him loads been apart for 2 weeks i no i love him , but i know this time we wont get back togther i jus wish he was mature like me , i keep finking of him being with another gal and thinking he should be with me , it hurts its it really going to be over between us for good ./ i just wish he would chat to me like b for but he wil make it worse bi datin sum 1 new then that makes him relasie it not me and wonts me back

2007-01-24 22:19:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently dreamt about sleeping with someone that I wouldn't normally (and definitely shouldn't), it was so eplicit that I can still feel the feelings I had in the dream. It's got me spooked what does it mean? I am in a happy relationship.

2007-01-24 21:55:45 · 6 answers · asked by angelrose0105 4

2007-01-24 21:51:29 · 21 answers · asked by THE ACTS OF POWER 2

Two months after our breakup I sat him down and told him to stop calling me in the middle of the night because we could no longer be friends considering that on the day we split, he destroyed some of my stuff and called me faul names and my neighbors gathered to watch. He has come home twice since that talk telling me lies about how he needs help yet he knows he is no longer welcome & I don't care about him anymore. I'm seeing someone better and we are serious about our relationship. I asked his friend to tell him to back off but he said no and threatened to hurt my new boyfriend, so I cut my ties there as well. Will telling his close aunt about his stalking help or should the police deal with him? he is a violent, controlling and abusive person and that's why I called off the relationship. He had never put his hands on me, but there were several times I saw that he wanted to from the look in his eyes. We cannot get back together.His calls are making me & my new boyfriend uncomfortable

2007-01-24 21:12:24 · 16 answers · asked by Carlos 1

my grandma(her mother) because of that man. after around 6 months my dad died, & after my grandma went back to her country, my mom started to spend more time with this man, at some time she wouldnt get home until 3am and she would lie about it, she'd say that she got home earlier. I moved out of my house to attend college( i'm 12 hours away),and the day after I had move, that man was already living in our apartment(i knew this was going to happen cause she needs the money ad she had told me that she was going to rent this man a room) I wasnt ok with it but I knew she needed that money since I couldnot longer help her with the rent, but what I was really surprised is that she put him in MY BED, for God sake's could he not have bring his own bed?. now the situation is this she plans to marry him(she says is hard to live by herself and my 2 younger brothers), when I went back home for xmas i asked her if she liked him and she said yes,I'm not happy w this since he hurt my dad when alive.

2007-01-24 21:01:37 · 2 answers · asked by butterfly 3

A man has a sexual relationship with a woman one time only. The woman assures the man that she is on the pill and does not want children anyway. The man finds out later through a close friend of the woman that she is pregnant and she plans on keeping the child. The man also finds out from the friend that she believes it was a setup to get pregnant. The woman wants the man to be part of the childs life. He is angry about this and does not want to have anything to do with the woman. He feels no attachment to the child. What should he do and what is the moral (not financial) obligation that he has?

2007-01-24 21:00:54 · 14 answers · asked by therazorsx 3

I do and was wondering if that is normal??

2007-01-24 20:49:29 · 9 answers · asked by THE ACTS OF POWER 2

I was engaged to that man, 2 years ago, we booked the church and everything was fine. He said he wanted a child, too, so I was then pregnant. Well, two days before the even he ran off with some foreign woman, an immigrant. Apparently he was seeing her on the sly, and she gave him several STDs at once, and then promised to cure him without going to the US doctors - she was to bring some pills from her country, as she was a doctor there and got them clandestinely. (She ws seeing five other men at once at that time).
I, luckily, got none.
I cried first, then tried to forget.
When recently I found out that they got married and that the STD
woman was not idle - all this time she was diligently sending out
false complaints about me to the police, FBI and even Interpol for
some reason.

2007-01-24 20:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by all w 1

2007-01-24 20:45:49 · 12 answers · asked by ntendeanthony 1

what you think about it? its good?bad?

2007-01-24 20:23:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

someone i have to work with alone everyday is very well known for being a cow. i find her impossible, she is ignorant and obnoxious. Yet in power over me. I leave work next week, but must impress her before then in order to meet a target. can anyone offer any advice?

2007-01-24 19:58:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would make u crazy in love with your GF...

2007-01-24 19:51:07 · 3 answers · asked by ladylove 1

2007-01-24 19:33:27 · 13 answers · asked by TAGG 2

2007-01-24 19:33:22 · 3 answers · asked by katto 1

And why?

2007-01-24 19:23:44 · 29 answers · asked by Colette 5

An Indian jus arrived in UK. Wat all things should be kept in mind while talkin or interacting with ppl in UK. Would also like to know wat things UK ppl dont like about newly arrived Indians. Would also like to have tips from British Girls ???

2007-01-24 19:00:30 · 6 answers · asked by sssshhhhhhh 1

2007-01-24 18:56:30 · 13 answers · asked by sees_lwo_na 2

There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke *** college student, and I cannot afford them, but then he's still asking me to told me to call him on his cell phone for a free session, and he told me not to worry about it...and i actually told him, that I wasn't intrested in the free session he's trying to push on me...so he comes up to me tonight asking me about it again, and I went ahead and did it..but it's like damn..

2007-01-24 18:51:17 · 3 answers · asked by Brooke 1