We been dating for 5 years, recently we just came back from holiday and when i give her a ring, hint her but did not propose.
She accept my ring but after two weeks she return me the ring and told me love is not enough to marry me, she want to find her true love and she say she unhappy when she ask me do things and she feel guilty! she say she try to love me but cant!
Recently i spend lesser time with her due to both our work, i am a property agent and she a banker! when she work i free, when she free i work!! I dont understand but i trust her loyalty, no third party!
The girlfriend ask me to give up cause love is not enough, just love!! I am confuse and i want her back so badly!! What should i Do??
2007-01-24 23:31:37 · 6 answers · asked by Ryan Ong 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give her some space. Let her figure it out. Maybe make a ritual of proposing to her. Once a month, take her out and propose until either she dumps you or accepts.
She's setting high standards for herself by wanting to marry her "true love" instead of just a good bloke. I don't think "true love" exists. Someone once said, marriages aren't made in heaven, but they should end up there.
However, just so that she doesn't take advantage of you, set yourself a limit. If she doesn't say yes in this set period of time (a year?), you leave her. There's another saying, if you love someone, set her free. If she comes back it's meant to be.
2007-01-25 00:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by newinfiniteabyss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that you have an overfowing amount of love for her. And you just need to talk to her- find out exactly what the problem is for why she doesn't have enough love for you recently. Good Luck.
2007-01-25 07:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by none 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, better late than never. She said she doesn't love you enough to marry you, guy she's telling you the truth! It'd hurt, but you can't force her to love you if she hasn't been able to in five years. It might hurt now, but you'd get over it. End the relationship now & move on.
2007-01-25 07:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Hmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about such things dude, remember: for every girl you loose, there are thousands just like her and millions even better than her. Its time to move on with life. And remeber that pain is weakness leaving the body.
2007-01-25 09:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by loxzibit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but she is telling you that you are not the one and that she is not in love with you.
It's time to move on.
Sorry about that and know that you are not alone. I empathize with you.
2007-01-25 07:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loves her, fight for her. If not, move on It's just means she is that in to you.
2007-01-25 08:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋