Last night I went to hang out with my boyfriend and I saw some of my guy friends so I went up to my guy friends and I was talking to them and when I said bye to them and looked back at my boyfriend he looked pi$$ed.And he said "are you done?" and I said "yeah,what's wrong" and he said "nothing" and then I said "I'm sorry,I don't get to see them that often" and then he said " what about me?I don't get to see you that often either."And I told him that I was sorry and that I would make it up to him.And he kissed me and we did our usual goodbye and all and he said that he loves me,but I could sense that he was jealous so as soon as I got to school I found my guy friends and I told them we can't be friends anymore and they didn't seem to mind.So,they might not have really cared that I was friends with them or not.And tonight I'm going to tell my boyfriend that I have no more guy friends so he can have ALL of my time and then I tell him that I'm sorry.Do you think I did the right thing?
2007-01-24 23:34:18 · 5 answers · asked by none 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh, and to let you know. I'm staying with him no matter what because we both love each other so much and it's only natural for us to both be jealous. We're getting married so, just to let you know.
2007-01-24 23:35:49 · update #1
well, u didnt need to drop ur guy friends, yes he probably was jealous, but if u do things like this now, hes gunna expect the samething to happen later in a diff situation.
I see what ur saying bout how ur "friends" didnt care that u told them u could be there friend anymore. cuz if they didnt care how can u call them ur friend.
pretty much...ur wrong. But if its something you would expect him to do, then i guess for your relatioship its okay. but its not a good sign. i wouldnt maeka habit of changing things because he doesnt like it.
dont change who u are
hope i helped!
2007-01-25 09:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good sign at all that he's asking you to quit your friends.
He needs to understand that no matter who your friends are, at the end of the day, you come home to him and nothing else matters.
I understand your position of staying together no matter what, but his anger and jealousy about your friends is not healthy. This can springboard into a lot of unhealthy stuff in your relationship.
How many female friends does he have and is he also giving them up? It's really a question of equal behavior. Asking you to give up your friends isn't healthy and isn't right. You don't need to be sorry for having friends. I'd be more worried about you if you didn't.
2007-01-25 07:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Becca 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so basically you have given him permission to define who your friends should be? not good,,,what if he feels threatened by one of your closest friends,,will you dump them as quickly as these boys? you may get your wish of marriage but slowly find yourself alienated from all around you because his jealousy requires it for him to be happy,him and only him for you but for him,,will it be or is it the same,,forsaking all others isnt literal you know it just means in the marital way,,you are allowed to have and keep friends.
2007-01-25 08:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont choose whatever u do. let ur b/f be mad. if he dosent like it then 2bad 4 him!
2007-01-25 09:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ur right.......good luck:-)
2007-01-25 07:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by maddy316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋