Other - Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

I got married for past 1 year and wife was truely a gem. At times i used to wonder abt her nice qualities and i praised her with my parents and friends. But recently I came to know that she had loved a guy before marriage which she did not tell me. On the contrary, i never hid anything to my wife and she knew that.Of late I see few symptoms that her love for me is fading, though she says she loves me so much. I am broken and deeply hurt. I never shouted at my wife. I never loved any girl other than my wife and my wife will be my first and last love in my life. I have no bad habits. People say i am one of the the few good men in this world. I am proud of me being nice to others and sincere to my wife.But why such things happen to boys like me. I am shattered to learn that my wife loved someone already and they used to talk daily for more than 30 minutes and exchanged gifts. I know my wife will not love anybody other than me now. I don't want to hurt her by asking abt this. pls help me

2007-01-30 23:49:02 · 12 answers · asked by Neena 1

this happend to me alot. that was after I was grounded, banned from watching TV and had all the books taken out of my room.
it could last up to six weeks where no one in my family would talk to me. I think its worse than being beaten, because it mental torture.

2007-01-30 23:46:38 · 8 answers · asked by kennyboy 6

2007-01-30 23:38:01 · 8 answers · asked by Ma. Meilanie F 1

She is mostly at home. She is always "tired"(not ill or anythin). She takes away all my energy.

I sometimes cannot stand her.

2007-01-30 23:15:14 · 8 answers · asked by sj 1

Would you be upset?
And what if your boyfriend miss out on your birthday? How would you react?

Thank you for your answers!

2007-01-30 23:08:07 · 14 answers · asked by Asian Cutie 4

They were together for 3 years, the kid is now 2 years old. She left him (went back to Poland) and told him that the child is not his - she's been together with other men while they were a couple.

He is obviously distraught! Though I can imagine the practical approach (take a lawyer, sue her, give DNA sample and check paternity) I am at a loss as to how to console him.

So I guess what I'm after from you today is some guidance in how to approach this topic, what he needs right now to make him feel better, how he can gain a positive attitude to give him sufficient energy in order to tackle the situation.

2007-01-30 23:00:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend just found out his ex-girlfriend had a child 2 years ago and just approached him telling him the child is his. If the child is his, will he have to pay child support back-pay of 2 years even though he just found out he is the father or will he start paying regular child support payments?

2007-01-30 22:59:48 · 7 answers · asked by needhelp16 1

2007-01-30 22:08:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it a good idea?

2007-01-30 21:54:49 · 3 answers · asked by dancingwiththestars 4

I am only 16 but we are in love.

2007-01-30 21:53:59 · 2 answers · asked by dancingwiththestars 4

2007-01-30 21:53:12 · 3 answers · asked by dancingwiththestars 4

Well i work in a pharmacy and every tuesday this man comes in the shop asks for a pack of condoms! The only thing is yesterday when he came in for his usual condoms, he asked me if i could do a fitting for him. He said that his usual sort were getting to tight and this could be damaging his bit, he wanted me to try out lots of different types of condom on him! I didnt mind doing this i mean being a pharmacist im always here to help! Anyway i found one that fitted him perfect, it took a while but we got there in the end! My question is could a badily fitted condom affect his bit? I heard a fellow work colleague say sexual harassment is this the medical term for the condition? sent

2007-01-30 21:52:29 · 12 answers · asked by fletch 2

2007-01-30 21:37:55 · 14 answers · asked by Jessica 1

My boyfriend's female friend's roommate is moving out. My boyfriend is looking for a place to live currently. She asked him if he wanted to live with her...( She used to like him) Should i be okay with this?

2007-01-30 21:27:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

After certain period sex will decrease in most couple due to number of reasons. At the time if wife swapping is welcomed in society life will be more happy up to end. Am I right

2007-01-30 21:17:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

many years ago my freind received a marriage proposal from a guy we both knew..She said no initially but he persisted and when her family came to know about it, a big discussion followed.She was advised to only concentrate on getting a degree.She did ask this guy could he wait and his reply was -for all his life - if she could commit there and then and accept his letters. Her answer was -no.The guy married after a year having given up.As soon as he got married, this girl was heartbroken.Now she is married but told me still thinks about him.I want to help her here AND TELL HER IT IS HER OWN DOING and she is responsible for the situation she is in.Do you think she is at fault? Why did the guy get married even after proposing to her?He could have waited for her. How can I help?

2007-01-30 21:09:46 · 10 answers · asked by sm 3

He flirts alot but he still claims he loves me.We live in the same same city but, he hardly has time for me. He calls his other girlfriends more than he calls me especially when we have an argument.And I have a feeling he actually sleeps with them once in a while.The thing is, he doesnt like talking about our problems any attempt will resolve in an argument. I love him very much pls help.

2007-01-30 21:07:12 · 8 answers · asked by L007 1

I pay for my items and the cashier gave me my bags of item with a smile. Came home and check my stuff and missing 2 items that the cashier must of not hand me in the bagging place. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

I'm thinking of going there and talk to them about it but I also want to make sure this doesn’t happen again. I know sometimes they make mistakes but it's a hassle to drive up there and try to talk with them. I don't know if they will believe me though. Any suggestion on what I should do or say?

2007-01-30 21:06:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-30 20:54:53 · 6 answers · asked by orange blossom 1

he has broken up with me alot of times, but this time it was real depressing cos we were planning our wedding and stuff. i know he still loves me but at the moment he doesnt really wanna talk to me. we have a beautiful baby boy together and i dont want to break our family up. i said some things to him that really hurt him. he is the love of my life. i would do anything for him. any suggestions on how to convince him to come back to us?

2007-01-30 20:39:05 · 5 answers · asked by woomdyflame 1

I have both.

2007-01-30 20:20:13 · 14 answers · asked by anil367074 1

2007-01-30 20:07:56 · 10 answers · asked by Jasmine Q 1

My aunt recently passed on and While sorting her things out and cleaning the house I found a key in an envelope.

On the envelope a reminder is printed: do not keep both keys in one envelop. and something about rent and that if they do not hear anything from the client the rent will automatically be renewed... we suspect its a key to a safe deposit box. But there's no indication on the envelope or key as to where and what establishment it came from.

what to do, what to do? help.

2007-01-30 20:05:40 · 2 answers · asked by jennie o 3

I have 8 & 6 yrs old kids left in Papua New Guinea. My papers are still on process, I can't go back.

2007-01-30 20:02:35 · 4 answers · asked by iel2in 2

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years..and we've been living together for a year. He wants to wait on marriage, until he can get a higher paying job but wants to buy a house with me. His view on marriage is...engage for a few months and then get married right away..I told him that was't a good plan, too much money in such little time..(ring cost and wedding costs)..I told him my views on buying a house together for marriage, (I'm not for it)...What should I do? What else should I tell him to convince him it's not a good idea?..Help!..

2007-01-30 19:54:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

looking for beverley gray last known living dayton rd hull will be 44yrs old now divorced in 1998 daughter of clive used oddbottle pub

2007-01-30 19:52:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

loving some body with all possible intensity and waiting for her for next birth.

2007-01-30 19:33:11 · 5 answers · asked by upendra sharma 1

I am in my first serious relationship and Id like to hear what others have to say.
I mean, how do you know you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody?
I know people will say "If you have to ask, youre not in love."
But see, Im the sort of person who questions everything. Ive sheltered myself and finally took a chance after high school and Im a little lost.
Even if I felt I was truly in love Id wonder just for the sake of wondering.
Its hard to believe in love in a world where the average marraige doesnt last.
They probily thought they were in love. And look what happened.
I think time will tell. My boyfriend is my best friend. And I think I will only love him more and more.
There isnt anything I could conplain about. Were good for eachother.
I think over time there will be tests. And times where I will stop and say wow, I really love him.
But this early in our relationship and still adapting from the independant life I am nothing but questions.

2007-01-30 19:28:19 · 5 answers · asked by Bunnie 1

My 5 yr old is burning up with fever I'm not sure how high cuz she recently broke my thermometer but shes really hot and her teeth are chattering and shes shaking like shes freezing but she has socks on and sweatpants and a sweater and covered up well and I've already given her tylenol but its not helping is there any other way I can bring her temp down its 3 am here so her dr is closed now .please help thanks so much in advance.

2007-01-30 19:13:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just wonder WHERE can I find proper man who is quite intelligent and doesn't think only about shagging... And also who is caring and has good sense of humour???

2007-01-30 19:09:28 · 33 answers · asked by vikingsrose 3