Other - Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

I'm Not jealous over friends or b/f's but when it comes to my parents i am i don't want other men flirting with my mom or looking at her butt and if i see it i get mad i can't help it i know it's childish but my parents have been together 22 years and i can't imagine them with anyone else...I am even worse with my dad because he has one of those "i'll talk to anyone" personalities which isn't bad but mostly women come up to him to talk and it really bugs me i've tried to hide it but the other day a guy was staring at my mom's butt and i just went off she told me it was just a guy and that it meant nothing. but i was still mad i dunno why i am this way. Is it normal?

2007-02-01 23:57:48 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2

I'm 23. Everybody seems to say I'm too young to get engaged because it's a huge commitment. But I always read on this site that girls as young as 18 are having babies and that appears to be fine. Surely having a baby is a much bigger deal and much more of a life-changing commitment than just getting engaged! Whats the big problem here? And if the "right" age to have children really is whenever one feels ready, then why is it not the same in the instance of getting married?

2007-02-01 23:53:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men use love to get sex, women use sex to get love...

2007-02-01 23:53:34 · 18 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7

nearly a week ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. he's never really trusted me and we have always had arguements about rumours about me and other guys...ive never EVER cheated on him. people have never spoken well bout me cos of things i did in my past (some true some lies) a month ago he confessed that he had cheated like a year ago cos he thought that i did the same. but i ended up forgiving him. we were great together, no more fights or anything. a week ago we started talknig bout the guys i had been with, and things i had done, which were quite embarrassiong so i just denied everything i got really nervous, and he "caught me". now he hates me and thinks im a lying *****. i regret it so much, but i had my reasons. now he doesnt believe anything ive ever told him. and ive only lied on my past! i sent him an email 4 days ago explaining everything, saying sorry and that i really loved him. i really really love this guy, and wud do anything to b with him.i please help!

2007-02-01 23:41:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-01 23:32:23 · 1 answers · asked by dogpatch USA 7

2007-02-01 23:15:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would constitute the ideal partner for you? what do you look for? Have you found "The one"?

2007-02-01 23:08:46 · 11 answers · asked by mia 5

i'm also a virgin too... it's being a long struggle and i'm just not sure hiding in coursework and work please please give me some help!!

2007-02-01 22:41:35 · 19 answers · asked by gavster88 1

"I will always love you" by Whitney Houston

simple reason this is my choice because to me two elements that people need in life to help them to survive are love and relationships (working and romantic and friendship)

so no matter what life throws at you as a person be it moving country, be it a sudden and tradgic death, be it loosing touch by whatever reason, be it a job promotion so you see less of your partner due to longer working hours

you know that they will always love you and you will always love them if you dont stand in their way and therefore by respecting other peoples decision and being therefore them they will love you

hopefully you understand my question and if so whats your choice of song and why?

2007-02-01 21:56:20 · 19 answers · asked by Music fan 4

I'm 5'5" and he's 6'4". I'm already conscious about my height, but he makes it loads worse by calling me a midget! He does it in good fun, and says he prefers "petite women" whatever the hell that means, but yeah, I have to admit it adds to my insecurities even if he is just joking. (Over time, the constant barrage of "hello midget, or hello tiny" ingrains itself in insecurities.)

I call him names too, but he's not even remotely self conscious or vain , so it doesn't work.

2007-02-01 21:29:06 · 14 answers · asked by Curiosityworkswonders 1

i am only 16 but i have loads of problems.

my mental state now is very very bad due to all this troubles and my level of concentration is ever the worst. i lack focus and sometimes when days where things are getting better and i seemed to have no troubles/problems AT ALL, i still can't focus. i can think of anything under the sun except things that is relevant or important to me or my studies.

i don't have a good relationship with my mum. and i have been having some cold war and mind games with a good friend of mine. and no matter how hard i tried, i can never listen in class, never get myself to do revise/do homework and i can never score good grades. IT IS JUST SO HARD TO LET THE TEACHER'S WORDS GO INTO MY HEAD. i can't settle my heart down. i get excited and anxious every random second and my mind just keep floating everywhere...

what am i suppose to do?

2007-02-01 21:25:05 · 13 answers · asked by Saffron Boudoir 2

I am two years younger than her and she is an absolute star. Two years ago I was really sick and ended up in a coma for 2 weeks, I then spent 6 months in a wheelchair. She did everything for me. Recentely I found out I might have problems having a baby and she offered to be a surrogate mother for me. I really want to repay her for everything. She is so selfless & I really want to treat her to say thank you. Does anyone have any ideas?

2007-02-01 21:23:24 · 10 answers · asked by Tia Bannana 2

Bookey, thanks u suggestion. I really love him.we are in difficult situation and I hope that can change become better.
I did following the suggestions which u gave to me but it seems not enough. Our situation has a little bit better but the main problem still existence. He cheated on me before so that I am so worry he will cheat on me again. consequently, I have to call him to make sure him is not cheat on me. this is make us relationship become worse. I don't know how to do, I really love he and we can go back we first met.

2007-02-01 21:23:19 · 2 answers · asked by 22CoCO 1

I am working a project center as a faculty; I love a girl very sincerely since the first look. But it has some risk because she is my student. Now I decide to say my love to her. I had no experience this type of feeling since my teenage. But now I mind think always her. So please help how to release with this struggle

2007-02-01 21:16:49 · 11 answers · asked by RS-MDU 1

2007-02-01 20:51:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-01 20:40:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy I love so much but I have no courage to tell him without making a fool of my self . what do I do to show and tell him that I love him cause he has all the qualities I admire in my ideal man. This is because I feel that he is the right for me .

2007-02-01 20:27:41 · 8 answers · asked by geraldine k 1

and then wondering why you are angry? To the point that they pack up your belongings and "move house" for you because they think its a good idea? Even though you spent a month and a half explaining it was not what you wanted to do, and then in the end gave up and this is what happened? Do I have to call the police or what? On top of anything else, its embarrassing.

2007-02-01 20:26:51 · 5 answers · asked by merrygo9 1

And WHY do you enjoy it?

2007-02-01 20:25:01 · 7 answers · asked by Natalya Ch 2

if your BF is really serious to you...

2007-02-01 20:15:42 · 2 answers · asked by ladylove 1

My boss has not long got to work and she is already on the phone telling her partner all about the journey she had. Crazy or what? I am not jealous as I have a husband. I talk to him when I get home.

2007-02-01 20:14:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need new parents because im fed up of mine
Can any one recommend a good website for more info on this
this is a serious question.

2007-02-01 20:14:04 · 12 answers · asked by Gossip81 4

There's a woman in our office who seems to concern herself with a lot that goes on here, mostly when its nothing to do with her. I think maybe she has no life outside work. It's really sad. I just do my time and go home to my family and friends.

2007-02-01 19:55:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-01 19:39:19 · 16 answers · asked by Brandy S 1

Ok....I am a 33 yr old single Mother....I have 2 kids from a previous marriage...my kids are by a caucasion man....
I have started dating someone who is African American....ALOT younger then me...he's 21....but VERY good to us....
We have been going out for close to a yr now....exclusively for at least the past 6 mo's.......we have gotten REAL close & have admitted that there are feelings there...serious feelings...

The problem is.....My Mom is prejudice against interracial dating....she doesnt mind when I introduced him as my friend...but she will throw a gasket when she finds out we are dating....

Last night, my BF asked me to Marry him...

I want to sooo bad....I am totally in love with him....

My Mom has disowned me before for my choice in men...then rejoined my family when I met my Ex Husband....I have kids now...& I am afraid she will disown me again...How will I explain it to the kids, if she does? They really like alot....

How would I handle this?

2007-02-01 19:22:03 · 21 answers · asked by mysticfairy74 5

My boyfriend and I live in different country. He live in my old aparment and he try to find out the other aparment to move out whil I am in other country. What should I do to keep him, I love him so much. I can not lose him.

2007-02-01 19:15:53 · 9 answers · asked by 22CoCO 1

He will not allow me any free time with my kid, he constantly interrupts me for attention while I am helping my kid do his home work, I feel like I cant have any free time for my kid or self any more with out him constantly wanting attention from me , I feel like I am being deprived for attention all the time that I feel so annoyed , that I stay up late just to have free time to my self, I feel like he is trying to alienate me from my kid and that is so disturbing , I am about to break off our 4 year realationship, how do I let him know I need more free time to my self and son with out any interruptions?

2007-02-01 19:04:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. This is what I want you to know, If we gonna be togther, you better respect me. Dont you ever disrespect me, control me and try to be dominating because I will not stay in this relationship.
2.you know what sometimes I think you dont appreciate what I do for you and you dont have patience and you take me for granted.
3. you will change your ways and your attitude and it better stay permanently because I will not go through problems after problems with you I will not take no more abuse from you.
4. you really broke my heart when you cheated on me .I never expect that you would do something like that.I still cry about it off and on ,it hurt so much. I can forgive you for all the hell you put me through but I cannot forget.
5. This is your last warning if you disappoint me agian .this realtionship is over and I will not look back.
6. I want you to be that man who I first met.

2007-02-01 18:57:31 · 4 answers · asked by merry c 1

ok heres the situation..before my mom met my dad she was with another guy and she had a son whos now 33. she was 17 then. he turned out great. hes smart, has lived longer and is doing great. no problems with him..after that relationship my mom then met the guy who is now my dad..while with him, she had numerous miscarriages,..finallly she had a child who is now deceased, he was 19..he was smart, gifted..but for whatever reason died a tragic death. then she had me.i m the only girl child she didnt miscarry..but i find that i have a whole lot of issues. i have what i think is tourettes syndrome, im usually depressed, i turned out gay .etc..whats all this?? is my dad the problem?? seems like all the kids she had with my dad have issues..............................

2007-02-01 18:41:40 · 10 answers · asked by bandi 2

I have fallen for someone in Australia.

2007-02-01 18:32:01 · 21 answers · asked by Sqeekers 2