I'm 5'5" and he's 6'4". I'm already conscious about my height, but he makes it loads worse by calling me a midget! He does it in good fun, and says he prefers "petite women" whatever the hell that means, but yeah, I have to admit it adds to my insecurities even if he is just joking. (Over time, the constant barrage of "hello midget, or hello tiny" ingrains itself in insecurities.)
I call him names too, but he's not even remotely self conscious or vain , so it doesn't work.
2007-02-01 21:29:06 · 14 answers · asked by Curiosityworkswonders 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow Forlorn, you CAN read. At least I'm not over-confident like a lot of ugly people are. That is more irritating than insecure people. Anyway, real responses please.
2007-02-01 21:34:02 · update #1
i am 5'2 1/2 and i have always liked taller guys
my ex is 6'7 and my love now is 6'5
i know i am short "petite" woman i have been this way since i was 9 yrs old i stopped growing
"petite" short ppl
you have to get over it this is the way you were made no sense in getting yourself all worked up over it
we crack jokes in my house too the running joke is i just keep him around to reach the back of the washing machine for me or reach up there
he tells me i can sue the town for building the sidewalks to close to my butt
i am a short $h*t and i know it i also say it about my self i cant change it i have to live with it
you may also find yourself liking xlg vehicles
i drive a huge suv i find i feel safer sitting up high and more hood between me and everything else
just remember this HE LOVES YOU FOR YOU just like i love me for me and my love loves me for me
you have to love you too
you cant change your height you can wear heels but in the end you are still petite it is a part of who you are LOVE IT
2007-02-01 21:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it bothers you and you want him to quit it. You can try mocking him by contemptuously laughing in his face. If he still keeps it up start acting cold towards him when he says these things. If need be stay away from him for a time. A joke gets stale after awhile. Ultimately, so does he. Returning barbs doesn't do any good when someone has a thick scull. It's not that he isn't self conscious or vain. It boils down to stupidity and ignorance. That's a hard nut to crack. It's why nothing seems to work.
2007-02-01 22:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not that short especially for a woman. Just tell him how you feel quit the name callin game. If he won't quit remind him that a midgets right hook lands into his sack. You kinda gotta get over the whole tiny thing though really its kinda a compliment anyway or maybe he just wants to sound like the giant and yes he is vain. He wants to try and put you down to make his eggo 6'4 too but inside he's an insecure little boy. If he really starts getting bad with it remind him also that its sad someone so tall has such a small penis.
2007-02-01 21:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Explain to him that your size is the reason you are perfect together. You have a midget sized body and he has a midget sized sex organ. I promise you he will never call you a midget again.
2007-02-01 21:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by hermit_of_cosby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a heart to heart with him. Tell him that it really bothers/and offends you. If he doesn't stop after you tell him then its time to let him go. A person who cares about you and your feelings would not continue to say hurt full things to you. Good Luck. And stop calling him names. Something may be hurting his feelings but he is not telling you.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-01 22:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might desire to have had his unlawful a$$ put in detention center, had the vehicle towed for seizure and get in touch with ICE to have him shipped back to the place the hell he got here from. What a team of crap. and you're an fool for helping this criminal.
2016-12-16 19:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he call you that because it make him feel good and wrong he is vain that is the reason why he is calling you a midget
so tell him that since he have a problem with your hight you can't continue tosee him anymore he needs to find himself a girl that is not a midget
Goodluck
2007-02-01 21:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everytime he calls you, ignore him and let him know
it's starting to annoy you,, Don't show him a smile when
he calls you that, but prefer to say nothing instead...
Sooner or later he will stop if he realize you're serious
about it.
2007-02-01 21:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him you don't like being called this...Communication is the key to keep a relationship going....Just know it may take him a while to stop, he is use to saying this...
2007-02-01 21:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it just a pet name he has for you, but if you want him to stop, dont let him know it make you mad when he call you tiny,are midget,,in time he stop
2007-02-02 00:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋