I need new parents because im fed up of mine
Can any one recommend a good website for more info on this
this is a serious question.
2007-02-01 20:14:04 · 12 answers · asked by Gossip81 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my parents are fine but they are too wrapped up in each other to notice their children.
2007-02-01 20:27:04 · update #1
Do your own thing, if they're annoying at home, move out. At 25 you're not a child and are old enough to be living your own life - if your parents can't accept that then change the way you react to them - they won't change, but you don't have to structure your life around them.
2007-02-01 20:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Harry Harrison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to hold a family meeting with all immediate members present and ask your parents why they dont take any notice of you, speak your feelings and be strong. I can understand you feeling you want to adopt new parents - they probably are very good people and wouldnt want to hurt you, I was emotionally and physically abused by one of my parents and the other one just turned a blind eye to it. If I could have found new ones I would have although I did try to adopt grandparents for my own children as I didnt want them to miss out, its not the same though and it didnt come to anything. Anyway at the age of 25 you may or may not have someone special in your life you want to be with and then you can make that relationship work between yourselves. Your parents will always be your parents but that other person will be the priority in your life. Another alternative is to become acquainted with other people who look to you as like a son/daughter of their own just by the special friendship you develop with them, people latch onto each other for many different reasons and you may find a connection there. Try maybe some community work and you may someone or even a couple who would love to have someone like yourself as a son/daughter, maybe if they couldnt have their own or lost one or more of theirs. I lost my son and I know it would not be hard for me to do that if the right person came along. Good luck, be happy, love yourself in a healthy way and others will love you too whether it be parents or whatever, it can take time but possible.
2007-02-01 20:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends are the family WE choose! There's no website that can help you find new parents however you can get some people in your life to help you. Might I suggest an older co-worker or a neighbor you get along with. Alot of older people whose children have gone away have some experience and love to pass on to a younger person that needs it. When the student is ready the teacher will appear.
2007-02-01 20:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 25...and only now your are complaining about your parents? I could understand if your father compulsive gambler with alcohol dependency issues and you mother was a chain-smoking nypho crack head...but since I doubt it, I would say simply put some space between you and them.
Do they know how you feel? Some parents are not psychic and need to be told things now and again!
Whatever you decide...Good Luck and I hope this helps!
2007-02-01 20:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 25 you are old enough to do what you want. Remember you are an adult. Don't adopt child mode behaviour when you are with a parent.
If you are serious about finding an older role model, look at www.adopt-a-granny.co.uk
2007-02-01 20:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by Haydn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i be attentive to which you're intense because of the fact i felt this way after becoming up with an particularly strict upbringing and assorted different relatives problems i generally wanted i had an information ear and a sympathetic shoulder to cry on yet I even have desperate to offer myself each and all the affection i did no longer get via development a relatives of my own.
2016-11-02 02:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well if you looking for new parents,a lot of kids over the year has come to call my wife an i mom an dad,,,so of these kid was kick out,are just felt unwanted, so ,stop looking we take you,,but rember we have 6 kids of our own 2 dar in laws an 3 grand kids, so one more wont hurt,an theit like 8 ore 9 on the web that call me dad lol,honest sound like you realy need some one to be their for you
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2007-02-02 00:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Macually Culkin (don't know how you spell it) divorced his didn't he. Mine argue all the time, thats when my dads home and my mums not making us feel guilty for everything she thinks wrong with her life. Swap ya.
Age 27
2007-02-02 04:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy they leave you in peace instead of constantly meddling in you life.
You may end up adopting parents from HELL !!!
2007-02-05 18:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Foxxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm not sure....is there a website for adopting parents? i have no clue....try and get on with them, after all they did bring you into this world, be grateful for that
2007-02-01 22:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋