My boyfriend's female friend's roommate is moving out. My boyfriend is looking for a place to live currently. She asked him if he wanted to live with her...( She used to like him) Should i be okay with this?
2007-01-30 21:27:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it depends... do u trust your boyfriend unconditionally?? and if u don't trust him, the better question here would be why are u with him then??
if it's going to drive you up the wall and you're going to make yourself sick by wondering what is or isn't going on in his place, then you'll either have to cut him loose, or well really there is no other option... it is unfair for a partner to force the other to do something just for peace of mind...
2007-01-30 21:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by shoei7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, and there are plenty of places out there where he can find a MALE roommate....no sense in making your life miserable by going along with this stupid idea. Just say "No" and make it absolutely clear that he has reached a crossroad and must decide which is more important to him, having you for a girlfriend or having her for a roommate - Beware, this would not be a good situation for you!
2007-01-30 21:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all there should always be trust and communication in a relationship. If you think that you trust your boyfriend enough to let him live with another girl, do it. But keep in mind that this girl used to like him. Now, what does your boyfriend thinks about this option? Pay attention to the way he feels about this. In my point of view, if you're okay with it, good, but you shouldn't trust no girl(that "used" to like him)around him.
2007-01-30 21:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jabric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how much you trust your boyfriend, you should say NO. anything can happen..i'm not trying to scare you here but once they live together one thing could lead to another and in the end you'll be the one who gets hurt...so firmly say no and tell him about your concerns
2007-01-30 21:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by frantic! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is a good idea. Could you move in in her place? I mean, honey, her bed is empty now at your boyfriend's place right? You could take that place yourself.
2007-01-30 21:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by Big Bertha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no completely flip i would not stand for that. u be an idiot to let him walk over u ask him to find a place with u and see who he chooses. if he moves in with her he is ignoring ur feelings. what a spiteful cow she is,
2007-01-30 21:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by kelly h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope and you should express that.
2007-01-30 21:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by Emerald Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust your b/f why not
2007-01-30 21:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by cailieco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO f**kin way !!!
2007-01-30 21:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋