&& im just not sure.....?

Question

so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 6 months....and he got this class that he has wanted for quite sometime now, and im so happy for him,so whats the problem right? well now, i wont see him nearly as often,maybe like 3-4 times a week for like 20 mins each,(beacuse the class that he got takes up all the free time we had for eachother), which for us, is not alot....we've been through so much together,it seems silly to let this stand in the way of our realationship, but we're both so young, and i cant help but think that maybe we should see other people before its too late and we regret it later, but then theres this feeling inside that says we were meant to be together. so im kinda in a rut. i truley love him. and maybe thats why i want to leave, beacuse i have a fear of being forgotten....
advice please?
(please no rude comments)

Answer 1

Dont worry so much, since you truly seem to love him and you say, you're happy he got this class that means a lot to him, its time for you're support.
In a good relationship its all about, give and take.
The times you do have together, make it quality time. If he's feelings are the same, the payoff will be worth it.
I do suggest that you get involved in something to pick up the slack time and before you know it, his class is over.
If in time you see negative changes in him, thats the time for you to look elswhere. Be patient, time has a way to bring all things in some kind of order. Sometime, doing nothing is best.

Answer 2

I think you are confused and making a big deal out of something that is a temporary situation. You need to be supportive of your b/f's desire to improve himself as in the end (if you are still in his life) you will benefit both emotionally and economically. It isn't like he is taking courses forever and ever. If he does decide to continue his studies, then you might want to consider taking some too so that you both grow together and not apart.