If your cousin was obviously upset (you didn't know it at the time, but she was having an axiety attack). She was upset for over an hour and suddendly up at left a Christmas dinner and took her kids with her. Would you get mad at here for taking her kids away from a Christmas dinner and leaving the relatives who worked so hard to prepare a meal, or would you ask her what the heck is bugging her... and if she is alright?
2007-01-26 08:57:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ask her if she is ok
2007-01-26 10:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask if everything was OK and if not then try and talk to her about it. I wouldn't get upset right away there is always a reason for everything.
2007-01-26 17:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by luvbugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that was unusual behavior for her I would approach her with concern and understanding, trying to be empathetic.
However, if this is a normal thing, and it really bothered me, I would decide what's more important: My relationship with her, or the amount of discomfort it causes me.
2007-01-26 17:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by CYNICALifornia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume something was wrong, but try to find out what and offer help or a shoulder to lean on. I wouldn't be mad, more curious.
2007-01-26 17:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think anyone would get mad at her initially. But after you understand why she was upset you need to reevaluate your anger.
2007-01-26 17:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by meisa777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let it pass, she is definitely having some kind of problems. Good luck and have a great day.
2007-01-26 17:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not blame her. i would sympathize with her, offer a shoulder to cry on. yea, ask her what is bugging her, and if she is alright. that's a good plan.
2007-01-26 17:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by A Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, ask if she's ok and what might have happened. start there.
2007-01-26 17:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry! It will be fine!
2007-01-26 17:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋