what would u do if u was a single mom with a 3yr old child ur childs father is a registered sex offender he clames he did not do it down deep u personally dont know what to think down deep u still are in love with him when he was with u he just never seemed that way u are just not sure who to beleve he says his ex made it all up that thay booked him on word of mouth that no tests was done his ex is a loon but thats besides the point and that he clames to be in a program not in jail for this does any one know is this possible and when he gets out of the program he would like to get back together with u .would u get back with him ? what should i do
2007-01-26 16:22:27 · 10 answers · asked by ANGELOFDARKNESS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
is the love you have for this Registered Sex Offender, Stronger than the love you have for your child and thier safety?
Sure you dont want to believe he could have done something of this nature. AND MAYBE, he is being labeled unfairly-depending on circumstances. BUT IS IT WORTH TAKING THAT RISK, WITH YOUR CHILD?
I would NOT choose to put anybodys claims of innocense, above my children. Love or no love.... what are your priorities..... protect your baby.
2007-01-26 17:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mikez Bad Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask to see the police report. If he is registered, check the internet under watchdogs. See what he was charged with. Talk with the prosecutor and anyone else you can. I can tell you for a fact that sex offenders will say they murdered someone before they will admit they commited a sexual offense. Having a 3 year old child, I would be very careful. You can go on the internet, or to the library, or to the courts and get what evidence there was against him. Personally, I would run the other way! You can't cure him, and you can't change him. But, you can protect your child, and that is your number 1 priority.
2007-01-27 00:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by lucy7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your first and foremost important role in life is a mother, and that she be your main priority...to protect your child. A person is not just "made" a sex offender, there had to be probable evidence, This man could be in love with you and may even have the right intentions, but its at this point that you ask yourself if its worth taking a risk over, not a risk in your life, but a risk in your child's life. Many sex offenders prey on single mothers with children, because they are a Little more venerable. Please take every precaution.
2007-01-27 01:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by charlotte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are sights that are free to check on registered sex offenders. I suggest that you check out all resources and above all protect your child Offenders DO NOT admit it, I was a child and had someone a family member molest me. I am now a grandmother and to this day the person denied it. Please protect your child make her or him your priority.
2007-01-27 01:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would do what is right for my child,, and if he in a program that
about children then that a problem i dont believe that someone
would go into a problem if there was not something to it,
but as you know things do happen.but you need to think first
about this child.
2007-01-27 00:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a registered sex offender is not allowed near children
and come on do you think he would admit it ?
i was molested and so was my sister but my mom was in total denial .. dont chance it hun move on
2007-01-27 00:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Lisa♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should protect your child at any rate. They don't just arrest and convict you on word of mouth.
-NmD!
2007-01-27 00:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him
2007-01-27 00:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my child is my everything, so he'd be lucky i didn't kill him.
2007-01-27 00:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by KAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbate
2007-01-27 00:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by FriskyPotato 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋