2007-01-26 17:19:07 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depends...if you have children...she is always in "mom" mode. By the time she unwinds, she is not thinking of some action..she thinking of a hot shower and bed. Maybe try going out on a date and rekindle what had you to chasing each other around. I am also married...and I know I am out of energy by the end of the day...!
2007-01-26 17:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by jshorePR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good marriage and for some reason you don't think this is enough then sit down and just talk to your wife to see if there is a problem and if there is one then the two of you should discuss it before it gets out of control.
There are marriages that don't have good communications and I hope this is not yours so be open with your wife to see if there might be a problem.
It just could be that this will pass and things will pick up and then this will only be a memory but if not, you do have a happy marriage and the two of you can fix whatever it is that is slowing things down a bit.
You and your wife are so lucky to have a good marriage so you can work things out so take your time to fix whatever my need fixing.
2007-01-26 17:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is normal, but this can slip into no intimacy at all as the years pass by. Designate a certain day, evening, or time for just the two of you. Make this time yours no matter what. If neither one of you do something to set this "date" into motion, the years will pass and it will become easy to become totally neglectful of each others needs. The reason this happens is that most of marriages get to the "comfortable" stage and the desire and the wanting each other just slip out of our grasp.
Life is so very busy, and making time for pleasure is not always easy for some.
2007-01-26 17:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by easygoingfemale44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Dr. Laura.
Okay, I will help you. If it is ok for both of you then fine. If she wants a lot and you want a little then you have to see your urologist to see if your thing still works. You married her and therefore BOTH of you have to put out at a level that keeps both of you satisfied or tired. Can't change the channel midstream. Or you can't change the stream in the middle and channel it toward the sea. Or you can't stream once or twice a month when the other wants to stream at the beginning of the month, prior to the midstream and just after the midstream and then every night for the last 10 channels on the tv. Oh, I need help.
2007-01-26 17:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 04:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by faulkenberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, get a hot female friend and only stay as friends! See what happens. I guarantee your wife will give you more sex. Because now it's about competition, she's no longer in the safe and secure zone! j/k
With marriage there's a lot more stress. She's probably stressed out because she has a million worries and duties to fulfill. Perhaps try to help her out a little more than usual and maybe you'll get play...
Good luck.
2007-01-26 17:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds a little low but if you are both satisfied with this why bother to change?
There are marriage manuals that are out there that will give a more complete answer but I wish my wife and I was doing it twice a month. But thats my problem
2007-01-26 17:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that especially if you have kids, it is hard to get and real intimate time together. If your wife is not sensitive about it, you might talk to her about trying natural progesterone cream(have her do some research about it on the internet, it can help with LOTS of things). It's like a lotion that you use every day, and it increases your sex drive. Good luck!
2007-01-26 17:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are satisfied then it is normal for you both. You Say that you have a good marriage so that is all that matters and at your ages I am sure that jobs,friends and family take a lot of your time and you are tired. There is no norm just be happy as you say you are.and if you need more intamacy talk together. It is better to talk to her than us.
2007-01-26 17:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your scheldules some people are tired and dont feel like doing it alot.my husband and i only do it maybe twice a month,if im lucky.but i love him and will stand beside him no matter what.i know hes not cheatin and thats all that matters to me.sex is not the most important thing in a marriage,love and trust are.good luck
2007-01-26 17:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋