There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke college student, and I cannot afford them, but he's still asking me to told me to call him for this free session, so I asked him why was he offering me the free session, and he said because he does it for people he connect with so anyhow, I finally showed up for the damn session but I was late, so he's like when can you come in and I told him next friday and he's like why so
2007-01-26 16:54:18 · 16 answers · asked by Trish T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
cont) when I showed up for the session, he's pressing me about why can't I do the "Free session" tommorrow..he's like why does it have to be so long, and I 'm thinking damn this is a free session..so why are you pressing me so hard....and he sort of gave me the third degree about being late...he was questioning me about why I was late..and I told him traffic, and he's like okay you get a pass for that one..damn am I tripping or is he...
2007-01-26 16:54:50 · update #1
Now that I think about it ...there was another occasion where I was working out..and he came up to me ..asked me how I was doing..and I told him..fine but that I was tired and getting ready to go home...but then he was said..how come everytime I see you're going home..am I ruining your gym experiene...now that kinda blew me away
2007-01-26 16:55:23 · update #2
ask him if his girl ever gets upset about him working with girls at the gym. his answer should tell you alot about his intentions even if hes single. And if all else fails be straight forward... Guys hate it when girls are aloof anyways.
2007-01-26 17:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by manhattensally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He almost sounds like a high-pressure salesman. He may be getting a commission on bringing in the new recruits. If he was truly flirting, he would have asked you out by now. He may have needed a specific amount of numbers for that free class and you were not at roll call that morning. Forget that place. Find a new gym. Ask around some of the local gyms to see if they have info on this guy. Good luck.
2007-01-27 01:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's flriting with you. Yet if i was him id be quite disturbed if i offered you a free session at the gym and you turned up late. Thats quite rude. After all whether or not he is or is not flirting with you is beside the point. It seems to me you are giving this guy the cold shoulder and thats why he said to you , am i ruining your gym experience. If you like him flirt back if you dont , then dont bother us with this shite! What are you ten years old?
2007-01-27 01:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like he just want to do some business.
He also probably likes to help. I don't think he is flirting.
He is just a friendly guy.
If you are concern about this, just ask him in a friendly
manner if he is flirting with you. Make it like a joke; who knows
what can happen.
Take the chance. What do you have to lose?
2007-01-27 01:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy with an ego....tryn to get all he can. It sounds innocent. I don't think theres anything you should do.. now if he asked you to dinner way different than a free lesson.. He probably does this to all the good lookin gals in there
Be careful he sounds kinda creepy
2007-01-27 01:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anna e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're uncertain then abide by your own instincts - and assume he is not flirting with you. Feel flattered by the attention but don't go jumping to conclusions, you could end up very embarrassed. You could gently flirt back if flirting comes easy to you. Above all else --- Just be yourself!!!
2007-01-27 01:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by scottyusa1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to find another gym or if none, avoid going
at times he is there. If he's not flirting with you, he's still making
your life miserable. If he continues to track you down, sounds
like you'll just have to tell him up front to simply stay out of your
life.
2007-01-27 01:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Northwest Womps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND A NEW GYM, that guy is going to cut a locke of your hair off while you sleep, not to mention rearrange the towels in the bathroom. RUN, GIRL, RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-27 00:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jason W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's flirting with you. Problem is, you haven't indicated in your question whether or not you want him to flirt with you, so I can't give you any advice.
2007-01-27 00:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Benji Duncan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he might be trying to make a move but are you ready for that
2007-01-27 01:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋