Other - Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

Last night my husband and I were laying in bed and he was laying over my legs playing with my daughter. Well, I started to fall off the bed and because he was laying on my legs I couldn't prevent it. I told him to get off of me while wiggling and trying not to fall. I ended up kneeing him in his throat be accident. I totally understand that it hurt but he blew up at me. He started by telling me F*** You, then he went on to tell me to blow it out of my a**, then he told me I was a B****. I told him that I didn't talk to him like that and that he was not going to talk to me like that. He told me that he would talk to me anyway he wanted to. I just rolled over and went to bed and left it at that. He has called me names before but never that bad. It hurt alot and I'm not sure I will ever get over it. My question is, should I just let it go? How am I supposed to act like I'm not hurt when I am? I know I can't give him the silent treatment forever but I don't want to talk to him

2007-01-17 06:28:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 06:18:39 · 3 answers · asked by T B 1

i was recovering from cancer,and my man couldnt cope with everything,we were drifting apart,me and one of my male friends ended up getting real close,we become so close that i started to have feelings for him,and he had feelings for me,we were both bosotted with one another,the problem is that he has a wife and kids and me the same,he has got a track record as well of having a few affairs,i dont know what to do

2007-01-17 06:17:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there such a thing as a joint will?

2007-01-17 06:14:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What sorts of things make good conversations online? What kind of things/questions get interesting responses? (nothing too rude)
I'm just curious as i cant think of anything creative and new to say to my online friends, please help, much appreciated x

2007-01-17 06:10:31 · 3 answers · asked by Compassionate 2

I feel like i blew my moms life ins she left me?
my brother and mother died in the last year. my mom left me $100,000. I do not have any money left. I saved my house from going into foreclosere by making over $30000 in back mortgage payments,due to a divorce. I bought my son a 1994 bronco, i caught up on some bills and had to pay $20,000 to renovate moms house so i could put it up for sale. I did buy some clothes for my kids and bought furniture in my house because i didnt have any. I have 3 children and work full time. I get no child support!! why do i feel so guilty about not having any $ eft???

2007-01-17 05:59:42 · 10 answers · asked by maggie 1

her boyfriend is violent with baby not her.she now wants to go out of our lives. she no longer seems to care if she sees her daughter. how can i help her get back on the right path again/

2007-01-17 05:59:20 · 5 answers · asked by jntjesper 1

I find I am convincing myself that I am falling out of love with my boyfriend. I convince myself that I dont appreciate the little romantic things he does for me. Although we are still affectionate with one another, I still sirprise him with little gifts here and there and I still like making him happy. I am very attracted to him and know that he will make a wondeful husband and a GREAT Dad. I am very trustwrthy of him which is very new for me and it is a drama free relationship. One that I have never been in before. Am i just getting out of the lust stage (we have been together for 6 months) or am I actually falling out of love. I still want to spend all my time with him and dont want anyone else but continue to question my feelings for him and I dont know why?!?!?!?

Any help will do...thank you!

2007-01-17 05:57:38 · 6 answers · asked by dawson190154 1

would you forgive your husband for cheating on you with an older female who was his boss at the time , if you cheated also and he just never found out ,plus it was with his boy ?

2007-01-17 05:52:38 · 12 answers · asked by sntgulyn 1

My fiance and I had our little girl a month ago. I was so happy that he was present at her birth and got to experience everything. The problem is that now he says that he can't be intimate with me because of what he saw. Is there anything that I can do to help him get over this; what can he do to get over it?

2007-01-17 05:51:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

She called today while I was at work, & I said, "Hi, What's up?" She replied, "Hello, mother. How are you today?" as if that's what I SHOULD have said instead of "What's up?" I apologized for not calling over the weekend & said I'd been busy. Then she sounded annoyed at that. She was abused as a kid & never had a good relationship with her own mom for that reason. As a result, she turned into a mother that's also emotionally abusive on one hand but smothering on the other. I can't handle it! I feel HORRIBLE for her that she never got love from her mom (who never sent a birthday card & rarely called) & now my mom must feel "abandoned" by me too, but I don't know how to even really be around her. I never really dealt with the issues I have with her. I tried talking to her but all she says is, "I know I've been a good mother." She doesn't want to acknowledge our emotional issues & thinks mothering is only about providing clothes, food, etc. It is but there's more to it, no? I'm 34.

2007-01-17 05:38:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my cousin (she's 6) that the coins shes been collecting have an expiration date and I pointed out the date...I told her she better spend them and next thing you know she blew all her change (I'm talking about money my mom and grandma and other folks have been giving her and that shes been saving in this big ol pickle jar) on candy and stuff. Before that when people would ask her what she was saving it for she would say in her nauseating cutesy voice: For colledge....
LOL!
Unfortunately, she believed my little joke and is broke just like me.
ha, serves her right!

2007-01-17 05:37:27 · 4 answers · asked by cryingrainbow 2

my husband wants to join the national guard. i dont really want him to join anything to do with the army or anything like it. but i promised i would look into it. i looked it up but i cant find the answers to my questions. i want to know how long he will be gone (including training), would he go to war, whats the benifits of being in the guard, i want to know everything there is to know about it! PLEASE DONT GIVE ANY RUDE ANSWERS ABOUT HOW HE SHOULD JOIN AND ALL THAT ****. I JUST WANT THE INFO PLEASE

2007-01-17 05:37:11 · 2 answers · asked by raspberrysmom 2

It was someone close in my family and I really didn't want to do it at all. I kept saying no and to stop. I fought him off for 45 minutes. I was drunk and had no self-esteem so I gave in. I didn't want to. I cried through the whole thing. He stopped and said to stop crying. But since I eventually consented is it still rape?

2007-01-17 05:31:36 · 37 answers · asked by mercurialred 1

We usually stay apart at that time. After I give her, her space. . After the storm has passed, should I be the one to call her, or should I wait for her to call me? Almost everytime I am the one calling her and saying hey lets get together. Men and Women answeres.

2007-01-17 05:28:55 · 10 answers · asked by halfwound 1

I dont understand why some guys never think of doing right by there familys but as soon as they get locked up for what ever reason they decide they want to be apart of the family now how fair is that ?

2007-01-17 05:28:10 · 3 answers · asked by sntgulyn 1

lives? It seems to me there are a lot of "perfect" people on here.

2007-01-17 05:24:58 · 8 answers · asked by Brian 5

i have my x-husband's last name. I do not want his last name anymore but I do not want to go back to my maiden name. I have 2 kids from my x fiance. Can I change my last name to the same as my 2 little girls'?

2007-01-17 05:24:06 · 15 answers · asked by lyxwolfe 1

Do u sit wen u pee or stand, aim! Fire!! ??

2007-01-17 05:24:01 · 13 answers · asked by frankyrulez 2

My boyfriend went away to cape town for two months. His been gone for two weeks and the paranoia is starting to set in... everyone ive spoken to says his messing around although he assures me his not. I'm pritty sure he has never cheated on me befor but hey how can i really be sure any ideas on how to find out if he really is doing the deed in the mother city

2007-01-17 05:18:34 · 9 answers · asked by robz 1

I went through some mess lately dealing with a man. I don't want him back. I am doing all the things I need to do to take my life to the next level. Working on me, have people trying to talk with me. Have someone that I am interested in, but yet I have this anger in me that seems to be never ending. Everytime I try to let it go, and think I have a way to release it, someone that isn't me, nor him makes it build up even more than before. I know it is just Satan trying to steal my joy, but I don't know how to get rid of this.

2007-01-17 05:02:54 · 12 answers · asked by Mis I 1

I have been dating the same wonderful guy for the past 7 years. I really love him and care about him a lot. Last year in March he took me to look at rings. I am 23 and he is 23. I really thought we might get engaged over the holidays but it didn't happen and I am starting to get discouraged and a little sad. I know that we are rather young but he owns his own house, has paid off his truck and seems to be doing okay financially. I am in my last semester of graduate school and I have a good paying part-time job that will easily be full time if I cannot find a job by summer. I have lived with my parents during school and saved a lot of money for the possibility of our marriage (i.e. weddings aren't cheap these days). I have been in four friend's weddings already which is tough for me. And I am really struggling because I love this man but I want a commitment from him so badly. He says he loves me and wants to marry me but I feel actions speak louder than words...what do i do?

2007-01-17 04:57:05 · 7 answers · asked by Kit Kat 1

Why am I so confused about my thoughts. I like spending time with my boyfriend, I like being affectionate with him, I like going out for quite dinners just the 2 of us. I like doing nice things for him but for some reason the "falling out of love" thought stays in my head constantly and I cant get it out so I analyze my feelings from a to z. From the minute he walks in the door to the next morning when we wake up. We have been dating for 5 months and a month ago this all happened FOR NO REASON. Everything has stayed the same and we are still both the same ppl. The 1st 5 mths were GREAT and then I woke up (honestly overnight) and I Was questioning my feelings. I want to be in love with him again SO bad. I dont ever want to be with anyone else again. This is the 1st drama free relationship I have been in and he is a great person for me.

Do you think I still love him?

He is the only one that can comfort me throughout all this. He looks at me and everything seems better!

2007-01-17 04:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by dawson190154 1

But what if i am just very jealous person? What if i trust him but once in a while I may ask him about stuff like "who is she?" and "why you calling her 'hey sweety'? Do i necessary have trust issues or i am just jealous? How are these things related or they are working on its on in different directions independantly?

2007-01-17 04:46:19 · 2 answers · asked by BK thang 5

2007-01-17 04:40:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wear a kilt most of the time and a couple of ladies have said to me its nice to see me in a kilt as I am obviously a guy whereas nearly all the rest of the population, male and female wear the ubiquitous fleece and jeans.
I like seeing females in skirts and dresses, (many of which cover many sins).
I find wearing a kilt more comfortable so do females find dresses not so.

2007-01-17 04:00:45 · 22 answers · asked by rinfrance 4

2007-01-17 03:56:50 · 5 answers · asked by Heidi H 1

Background Information: My fiance and I have been together for 5 years. We have 2 children. 2006 was pretty rocky for us and we are both trying make this year better.

As a result, I have a lot of trust issues to work out. My fiance came home yesterday and was so excited about this job opportunity he found out about. He is wanting to work on the road with several of his friends and can make 3x as much as he does working in our area. This would be such a great opportunity.. Start a savings account for our children, pay off our house, car and he can be able to start his own business (which is really wants). My only concern is the 'emotional' part. Being gone for months at a time in a different city... He has kept things from me in the past and I'm worried that he would do the same now. In reality I know I cannot ask him not to do this... since it really can be something great.. but in the back of my mind and deep in my heart, I know there's a chance of a disaster.

2007-01-17 03:52:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i made a budget for the family expencs so we can afford to pay off things but am i just wasting my time?? what is the best way to make a budget?/ any tips on keeping track on how much is spent? like recipts and bills? is it better to write it down or do it on the computer? how do i keep track of it all?

2007-01-17 03:49:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am taking my mom and younger brother out to dinner tonight. I dont live with them and try to take them to dinner once and a while so I can see them and catch up. Now everytime we go to dinner my brother always brings a friend or two. They never have money so me or my mother has to pay for them. I dont like my mom paying when I am taking her out, plus she doesn't really have that much money and it makes me feel bad. My brother knows we have dinner plans tonight and refuses to make his friend leave. I told him to get his friend to call his mother and ask her for money. He said if his friend can not get money that he won't go. I am very upset with him because it's supposed to be family time. What should I do?

2007-01-17 03:48:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous