Why am I so confused about my thoughts. I like spending time with my boyfriend, I like being affectionate with him, I like going out for quite dinners just the 2 of us. I like doing nice things for him but for some reason the "falling out of love" thought stays in my head constantly and I cant get it out so I analyze my feelings from a to z. From the minute he walks in the door to the next morning when we wake up. We have been dating for 5 months and a month ago this all happened FOR NO REASON. Everything has stayed the same and we are still both the same ppl. The 1st 5 mths were GREAT and then I woke up (honestly overnight) and I Was questioning my feelings. I want to be in love with him again SO bad. I dont ever want to be with anyone else again. This is the 1st drama free relationship I have been in and he is a great person for me.
Do you think I still love him?
He is the only one that can comfort me throughout all this. He looks at me and everything seems better!
2007-01-17 04:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only you can answer that question! Just follow your "gut instincts" mine have never been wrong!
2007-01-17 04:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone wants to hold on to the beginning of the relationship where things were perfect but things change, you get to know the real person you are dating. If he a good man and you still love him, give it some time. Maybe look for ways to bring the romance back and that will make it better again. Good luck!
2007-01-17 04:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by farrenbrooke1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only natural to begin questioning you're feelings at some point in the relationship; I'd be surprised if he isn't having the same doubts. You should talk it out with him, get everything out in the open, otherwise the situation will only get worse. If your relationship is strong, the good feelings will return; you may not be as giddy in love as before, but you might enter a more mature phase, where you two can begin assessing yourselves honestly. I wish you luck whatever happens.
2007-01-17 05:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by nacmanpriscasellers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its all so good then why does the falling out of love feeling come to you? maybe this relationship is just meant to be a friendship
2007-01-17 04:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by kf17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a change in the routine. You didn't state your age but sneak away for a weekend or surprize him. Shake it up a bit.
2007-01-17 04:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you do love him but maybe not be as as passionate as before. why else would you want to be SO in love with him?
2007-01-17 04:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by GellyBelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋