My fiance and I had our little girl a month ago. I was so happy that he was present at her birth and got to experience everything. The problem is that now he says that he can't be intimate with me because of what he saw. Is there anything that I can do to help him get over this; what can he do to get over it?
2007-01-17 05:51:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It will take time. I felt the same way after my children were born.()
2007-01-17 05:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's and eye opening experience no doubt! At the arrival of our first child I realized that a vagina wasn't just for my pleasure but has a more meaningful purpose. I don't have any suggestions other than to give him some time. I assume he attended prenatal classes with you, so he should have been prepared! But if he doesn't come around, give me a call and I'll come satisfy your needs, hehe!
2007-01-17 14:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will get over it in time. He was a little shaken by the expansiveness of your V. This is common in guys for some reason. I never had a problem with it.
2007-01-17 13:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly give him a bit of time and I'm almost certain that things will get back to normal.
2007-01-17 14:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋