Other - Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

i told him everything and i made things sound a little better than it really was. but i didnt lie about it. theres details in another question i asked... cheated and confused... about what had happened. but even after i told him, i feel really bad and guilty and i cant seem to forget and move on. i told my bf everything and i no it wasnt my fault cuz that guy was drunk and wouldnt let me go after i told him no. and we didnt have sex but he tried to force me to give him head and i told him no. but like i said, i told my bf and still im mad at myself. but im in love with my man. maybe i should give it time cuz i told him yesturday night. any advice?

2007-01-17 17:49:27 · 20 answers · asked by D 2

my sister is hot-headed .its unfortunate but in 23 yrs. of her s' she hasn't made any frnds.
she misbehaves with everyone including my parents & me !
i don't know what to do ? since we live in the same house , not talking to each other is also not a solution. please help ! its urgent !

2007-01-17 17:47:41 · 11 answers · asked by ali 1

2007-01-17 17:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by mary_not_cathy 7

2007-01-17 17:19:43 · 20 answers · asked by wastedlife 1

my ***** of an ex girlfriend has been trying to break me and my g/f up from the start she tells my g/f that i am cheating on her with my ex es cousin and that every night after she goes to sleep i go and c her what do i do to stop it

2007-01-17 17:15:59 · 9 answers · asked by mjv112686 2

2007-01-17 17:12:27 · 14 answers · asked by mary_not_cathy 7

Some random fetish my ex-boyfriend had where he liked to get kicked in the groin. Lol, so when I got mad at him I was kinda in an odd situation.

2007-01-17 17:12:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who have been so helpful with giving me tips and solutions to solve my problems . But then once I have the solution I just get too lazy to actually take the course of action that goes into me getting these solutions. Like they say to open up more just start talking to people well that takes a lot of energy to start up a conversation with a random person when people these days are so closed, they have their set of friends and they don't have any intereset on making any new friends so I am just wasting my time and energy. Like you open up to someone and you think this can be a potential friend but once you get of the bus or outside the classroom its like they go on to their own lives.....

2007-01-17 17:03:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom came home for an early unexpected unch break.. and caugthmy bf and i you know.... we are of legal age.. (im 19) she walked in. asked what i was doing. and asked if my bf was here. she knew. a while later she came into my room and started to ask us questions "were you guys doing the nasty!?" it was so embarassing! and she gave us permission too as long as her or my younger brother werent home! (thats what i think is really weird!) i was crying casue i felt liek i disappointed her. even t though our relationship (mother and i's) isnt a good one.. we hardly talk... i was cryign cause i thought she would ban by bf from ever coming over again (weve been dating for over 2 years) and shed kick me out.. but the complete opposite happend.. she just told us to use protection.. i spent the day at work doing hw cause i idnt want to see her cause i dont knwo what to do!

what should i do. t hings are so akward now and i wanted to have start to have a nice relationship with her =[

2007-01-17 16:57:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thanks party people

2007-01-17 16:45:33 · 5 answers · asked by LadyRebecca 6

I am a single mother. I have been dating this man for one year. A storm knocked out all of my power, heat, everthing for three days. My boyfriend got mad at me and left. I strongly feel if he had any care and compasion for people at all he would have stayed to help us through our tough time. this is how it went down.......my power had been out for a few hours so We left to try to find warm coffee and food. We were not sure how long the power would be out but the temp was 25. He was stressing because of traffic etc. i nicely said...can you try to calm down a little you are making me nervous. He said, maybe i should just leave if i am making you nervous. I did not respond. He took me and my kids home and left. My phone was out so there was no communication. I got a message from him two days later, checking to see if we were ok. I am thinking he is selfish and inconsiderate to just leave us in the dark...literally. If your man dont have your back who does...am i over reacting

2007-01-17 16:36:17 · 11 answers · asked by justme 2

Men/boys can stay out all night, even sleep at other people's house! Now, I do not play with words as most of "us" americans do, I said sleep...not have sex! But, then again let's include having sex with other p[eople...when you're married it's called CHEATING. Have I been cheated on? NOT YET...but who knows,,I certainly have not been told yet! And spending money....ever have some money missing? Only to be told not me....I wouild like to meet not me and know where not me hides in my house. How about hang up calls?.....I'm not that stupid...I just live with a man who thinks all woman accept this kind of behavior. Maybe a forum for women and men...maybe they can shed some light (if they can come out of the darkness) on this whole world of double standards some of us face..Believe me my guy never use to lie...he uses to tell me everthing...he's been cloned....maybe this happens after a certain age....can we say it all together MALE MENOPAUSE.....Let's talk....

2007-01-17 16:33:54 · 1 answers · asked by T & D 1

How do you break up with someone who you already live together?

He is useless, doesn’t know how to appreciative of someone who is always been good for him, he tries to play the classic psycho abusive male ...crap I don’t care why but he seem to want to be that guy! But I am just solid to my decision and not this time his sweet talk will change my mind that I am leaving him for good..but I just need to find my steps out of this long ugly relationship..any suggestions?

2007-01-17 16:23:29 · 8 answers · asked by Holy 2

that they would be fantastic in bed? Not that you want to marry them, date them or have any kind of 'extra' affair--you just see them and KNOW they would be awesome in bed!

2007-01-17 16:11:24 · 4 answers · asked by Jen-Jen 6

i love my children very much .sometimes they say also that i 'm a good mother but still i feel they dont understand me well. at times , they r very rude also .i treat them like my freinds help them out of thier problems but many times in the process i found they misunderstand me .it hurts to see that u r trying ur best to do ur duties and still ur own ppl dont understand u !tell me why?

2007-01-17 15:58:47 · 30 answers · asked by sudha p 2

Some people feel that when a younger female dates a older man, she's looking for a father figure and when a older man dates a younger girl, he wants someone to control or he can't handle a woman his age. I totally disagree, why can't a younger female just be that mature to carry her own. I always dated older and I was never controlled. I was 16 dating a man that was 26, he took my virginity, I was always mature mentally and physically and to this day at 21 I never felt he took advantage of me. Yes in this world today, I dont think its safe to date like that now, with all the perverts and mentally deranged men out there, but sometimes it's so REAL, but at the same time, As a hypocrite, I would never let my younger sibling date like that, I knew how strong I was emotionally and mentally so I knew how to handle myself as a teenager playing the role of a woman. How do you feel about situations like this. I would especially like to hear from the Men who likes younger females.

2007-01-17 15:58:02 · 18 answers · asked by JamaicanVixen 3

I turned 26 at the end of November and realized that I am four years to 30 and havent had a boyfriend since April of 2001 (I also haven't had intercourse although I have had oral sex with that boyfriend who dumped me in April of 2001; neither of us were ready for actual sex back then)


I'm on a few dating sites and I am trying to tell myself to just go out with these guys and have a good time but it seems like I'm just so delayed .... I am not waiting until marriage (because who knows, I could get married at age 45) but just for a sweet and funny guy who will respect me and wait a few months to get to know me before we jump into bed.

Any advice/feedback would be appreciated.

2007-01-17 15:52:41 · 15 answers · asked by Rebecca M 2

okay well me and my boyfriend are having a baby. both really excited but 2 weeks ago we got in a huge fight and he left me. moved all of his stuff out and just left. i cried and told him i want him back and im sorry and its just my hormones


well he wouldn't take it he said we'll never get back together again it just wouldn't work. we have been together for 2 years and now this.
what do i do to get him to understand that i need him and i want him and i love him. we got in a fight because he works all the time and i wanted more time w/ him

i know this may sound highschoolish and childish but i've been playing hard to get. ignoring his calls acting like i don't care and its working . he calls me now non stop and wants to hang out. but when i cried to him, and apoligized he didn't want anything to do with me

what should i do..what can i do
i don't want our child to grow up in a broken home
plus i love him w/ all my heart despite the games

2007-01-17 15:52:29 · 4 answers · asked by PuertoRicanLover 2

im 5'4 and 17 years old is that too small? i think im almost done growing too but idk.

2007-01-17 15:46:54 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

Bad traits? If someone you knew had these traits and you wanted to help them see that it wasn't a healthy way to live and when you do try to talk to them they say, "Butt out, or I don't want to talk about it"?

Traits:
1) Impatient
2) Not appreciative of what they have, takes things for granted.
3) Complains
4) Talks mean and hateful behind peoples back.

Thanks :)

2007-01-17 15:39:00 · 3 answers · asked by LS 4

My ex girlfriend is 19 and recently started university and i am 36 and in full time work.
She split up with me on 3rd January this year.
Reason we split is i said something hurtful she cant get over and others.
I have been off work Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday this week and I met her on Sunday at 6pm and - apart from going to uni - we have been with each other solidly since (she in my bed now as i type this).
We have had enjoyable days doing not much (although I have suggested things, shes been happy chillin).
We have slept together each night also.
Because I still find her sexy (and also because shes been sleeping topless because she says shes been warm) and she me, we have had sex a few times initiated by me over the last few days.
Tonight, she said she couldnt sleep at mine ever again cos she felt strange after the last time we had sex.
I asked her to stay here which shes agreed to do (she doesnt do anything less she wants to) as long as we dont have sex.
Whats going on?

2007-01-17 15:32:58 · 13 answers · asked by John 1

My season of lonliness has begun and it'll last for three months. I have begun socializing with others a little bit. But...I want physical closeness or emotional closeness with a guy, whether Friends with benefits or not. But I'm not the skanky type. I don't flirt with guys unless I know for sure he's single and of legal age(my state is over 18).

How do I overcome this? I am sweet, helpful, kind, and plain jane lol. I wear modest clothes and never wear skanky clothes.

I have a very low sex drive but I still have emotional desires of physical intimacy(I'm a virgin.)

Has anyone been in my shoes?

I don't want to end up alone and don't want to appear too desperate. I'm even too shy or embarrased to ask an aquaintance if he wants to be friends with benefits lol.

I never do drugs and I never drink alchohol. I'm not stuck up nor egotistical either.

This lonliness is killing me more than ever.

Suggestions?

2007-01-17 15:22:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

All of my friends are either having babies or have had babies and I don't feel the need to bring another person in this world to go through life, like I did. On the other hand I would want to because I believe I have pearl's of widsom and all of my books need to go to someone and what if they invent the cure for the common cold or the cure for all STD's or the cure for AIDS?

2007-01-17 15:17:43 · 7 answers · asked by amazon 4

YOU CANT THROW URSELF OFF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so who would go ur mom or ur dad

2007-01-17 15:07:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok wher to start...... when i was little my cousin molested me ,,, ok.... i told my bf n all ..
but when his friend came over his friend was upset cuase his ex. gf had his lil girl and she was now dating my cousin....well it just so happens that the dude "my bf's friend" was friends with my cousin... n my cousin told him...wut he did to me..
now his friend wants to see his little girl but his ex wont let him n he wants to go to court about it ... well he wants me to testify or at least talk to the judge or somethin bout wut happened to me ......to get his little girl back.
i understand how much this would help him n his case ... n that he more then likely would get her back...but should i do it.
i mean this could ruin my whole life if it ever got out .. or if my cousin found out i told then wut?
but he needs his little girl and i REALLY dont want that to happen to her like it did to me... this hurts me so bad... his friend is a really nice guy ..wut should i do?

2007-01-17 14:54:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a relationship with a boy, but lately it has been getting to the point where I can barely stand even talking to him anymore. Everyday he calls me at 2:30 PM, about 5 minutes after I get home from school, and talks to me for 1/2 an hour. This really exhausts me because I have been at school all day and I just want to rest! Every time before he hangs up, he tells me "Ok, I'll talk to you when I get home, around 7:10." EVERY DAY he reminds me what time he gets home, like somehow I forgot from the previous 24 hours. He asks me to hang out every single day, and I feel obligated to say yes because whenever I say no he thinks something is wrong and we are going to end. When we hang out, we don't do anything special, it's always watching TV or a movie. He constantly wants to cuddle and kiss me & I dont want to. What can i do. I cant leave him because his heart will break into 5000 peices, and I have a feeling we cant be friends anymore....

2007-01-17 14:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I said people because the voters vote in the liberals judges who are letting these predators out. One man rapes a four year old boy over and over and admits to it, Judge gives him 60 days, now he's out and free to hunt down another. There are way more incidents. At least here in Alaska and many more States they finally have jessica's law. (Minimum sentence 20 to 25 years) We need to scream, protest, anything, but be silent. I called and emailed like crazy to change our laws. Vermont does not want them put away.

2007-01-17 14:27:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just think about everything that we do differently...the list would go on forever. I think this is why we are so interested in the opposite gender.

2007-01-17 14:06:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

pleasee tell me

2007-01-17 14:00:08 · 4 answers · asked by Shenty H 1

2007-01-17 13:59:12 · 9 answers · asked by sleepingbeauty123 3