ok wher to start...... when i was little my cousin molested me ,,, ok.... i told my bf n all ..
but when his friend came over his friend was upset cuase his ex. gf had his lil girl and she was now dating my cousin....well it just so happens that the dude "my bf's friend" was friends with my cousin... n my cousin told him...wut he did to me..
now his friend wants to see his little girl but his ex wont let him n he wants to go to court about it ... well he wants me to testify or at least talk to the judge or somethin bout wut happened to me ......to get his little girl back.
i understand how much this would help him n his case ... n that he more then likely would get her back...but should i do it.
i mean this could ruin my whole life if it ever got out .. or if my cousin found out i told then wut?
but he needs his little girl and i REALLY dont want that to happen to her like it did to me... this hurts me so bad... his friend is a really nice guy ..wut should i do?
2007-01-17 14:54:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Testify against him. What if you could save that little girl from having the same thing happen to her, by your cousin? get the little girl away from by helpling your bf's friend.
2007-01-17 14:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Angel_Face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute! You sound like nailing this pervert is a bad thing. You were the victim. It's his shame, not yours. What happened to you was not your fault. Why have you kept quiet about it all this time? Testifying would not make you guilty of anything. I can assure you if he molested you, he will molest other children. You would save other children from this horrible crime if you did all you could to see that this guy is stopped!! Nothing is going to ruin your life except knowing that he's free to molest other children and you're doing nothing to stop him.
2007-01-17 15:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what you do, but remember, there is a little girls life you could be saving, think about that, a little girls life is in your hands and you are worried about your cousin and what people will say?
look at that little girl and make your descision, but make it quick, she may not have alot of time left, you should never leave children to harm if you can save them, remember, people always admire heroes, no matter what happens, people look up to heroes, especially children
if i were you i would step in and help that little girl out, she did not ask to be put in that situation, and i'm sure you know the situation is bad, but a simple word from you can save her
2007-01-17 15:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it truly is the nature of relationships with "boys" in severe college. If he wasn't guy adequate to chop up with you for my section, then he in no way cared for you. i understand you dedicated it sluggish and attempt to this courting (likely better than you should have), yet it truly is how we study and advance to have sensible interpretations of the end results of particular relationships. All you may do now might want to be %. your self up and bypass on to extra useful issues. to boot, in case you're eye-catching as you declare you're, then you definitely gained't have difficulty searching a guy deserving of your love.
2016-11-25 00:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it won't ruin your life, though it could be awkward for a while, but you know you need to do this, you can't let it happen to another child...best of luck, be strong.
2007-01-17 14:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call Jerry Springer
2007-01-17 14:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Should have took it to the grave if you didn't want anyone to know
2007-01-17 17:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by jcshields74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be a rat that is the LOWEST thing a person can be...sorry about what happened to you...how old were u...Him?....stay away from it all
2007-01-17 14:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by Tikcus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋