Some guy and girl opinions please? Over the age of 17....?

Question

My season of lonliness has begun and it'll last for three months. I have begun socializing with others a little bit. But...I want physical closeness or emotional closeness with a guy, whether Friends with benefits or not. But I'm not the skanky type. I don't flirt with guys unless I know for sure he's single and of legal age(my state is over 18).

How do I overcome this? I am sweet, helpful, kind, and plain jane lol. I wear modest clothes and never wear skanky clothes.

I have a very low sex drive but I still have emotional desires of physical intimacy(I'm a virgin.)

Has anyone been in my shoes?

I don't want to end up alone and don't want to appear too desperate. I'm even too shy or embarrased to ask an aquaintance if he wants to be friends with benefits lol.

I never do drugs and I never drink alchohol. I'm not stuck up nor egotistical either.

This lonliness is killing me more than ever.

Suggestions?

I'm 22. What I meant by low drive is that sexually, I don't feel anything when I get touched or asked to be slept with. but I do desire it, it's just that I'm sexually paralyzed or something.

Answer 1

let's go out for dinner and see how it goes

Answer 2

Try to ignore the silly answers and don't give in under the pressure of social labels. What you feel is absolutely normal. People exploit sex. But naturally sex is not only for pleasure. Sex is for making babies. This is the primary reason and pleasure is secondary. Although a lot of people will tell you otherwise.

Naturally women don’t have a strong desire for sex per se. Their desire for romance and partnership is what really makes them confused, because many guys take advantage of that for their own selfish sexual satisfaction. (I am telling you as the one who is guilty of it himself) Don’t give in! Be yourself, keep your dignity. You’ll meet a guy who will appreciate you and your purity. This is a great asset to have these days.

Answer 3

you need conan.conan over 17