my ***** of an ex girlfriend has been trying to break me and my g/f up from the start she tells my g/f that i am cheating on her with my ex es cousin and that every night after she goes to sleep i go and c her what do i do to stop it
2007-01-17 17:15:59 · 9 answers · asked by mjv112686 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ignore her. It sounds like she is jelouse and wants your attention. If you give her the attention, she will keep up what she is doing. Ignore her and eventually she will stop bc shes not getting the attention anymore. Talk to your current gf, and let her know that what your ex is saying isnt true, let her know she CAN trust you. But the best thing to do is IGNORE. If she calls, put her number on a call block list, if she comes over, dont open the door and if she bothers either one of you at work or out in public, call the police and tell them she is harrassing you. If it comes down to it that you have to take her to court, make sure you have all the proof that she has been harassing you. Keep phone messages, or letters or keep a small recorder in your pocket where she cant see it and record what she says.
2007-01-17 17:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just me personally... if your g/f is not trusting you, and if she is believing everything your ex says, I would have a long talk with the current g/f. I would reaffirm how much I love and care about her. I would ask her what she would like me to do, to show her that I am not cheating on her. I would say to her, specifically, that I am not cheating on her, and that I am not visiting anyone else after she goes to sleep.
If I could afford it, I would offer to buy her a security camera which she could aim at me on my bed at night, with a videotape recorder hooked up to it, which she would be welcome to lock up in a safe or a locker or something, so that I could not touch it or turn it off. I would allow her to videotape me sleeping, so she could see that I did not get up any longer than to go to the bathroom. If I could not afford it, I would tell her that "if I could afford it" that is what I would do, and that I am sorry I can not afford it right now. And maybe ask her if she would like for me to start saving up for a security camera?
After suggesting that, I would ask her to please trust me, and to please stop listening to the old ex g/f, because some old ex g/f's have a tendency to tell half-truths and lies out of jealousy toward their ex and his new g/f. Tell the new girl that you feel the old ex g/f is trying to break y'all up, and that you don't want a breakup because you love the new g/f.
In the future, if this g/f breaks up with you, hang in there. The old ex g/f will not always make life miserable for you. Pray hard. If you ever do seek a new g/f, expand your horizons, and be certain you do not seek one that knows the old ex g/f. Don't tell the old ex g/f if you get a new g/f, next time. And if the old ex g/f keeps sticking her nose in your business and slandering you, call a lawyer to see what your options are for slander. Once someone threatened me with charges of slander, and it shut me up!! I'm not sure what your legal options are for that. But the mere threat shut me up. I didn't want trouble with the law.
2007-01-18 01:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by prodaugh-internet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's lying then she is harassing you and you can go file a police report for harassment and slander.
You must be some guy for her to be so jealous of your new girlfriend. Hopefully she will get over it and move on with her life.
2007-01-18 01:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the Jerry Springer Show
2007-01-18 01:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kubricksmind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to her or talk to her or allow her to communicate with either of you.If you have to,,get an order of protection.That means she will not be able to talk to you legally. Tell your new gf to trust you because she is trying to break yall up,,so dont let her win.
2007-01-18 01:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
restraning order, tell her she should die, call her a b***h, umm punch her in the face, and if all else fails just be a man and take her out
2007-01-18 01:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Burn her house down
2007-01-18 01:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by Learner 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as your gf doesn't belive her ignore her
2007-01-18 01:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she need ur,..... presure.... wakakak... give her at night and she will keep quite
2007-01-18 03:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by WorkingAroundWithLove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋