I find I am convincing myself that I am falling out of love with my boyfriend. I convince myself that I dont appreciate the little romantic things he does for me. Although we are still affectionate with one another, I still sirprise him with little gifts here and there and I still like making him happy. I am very attracted to him and know that he will make a wondeful husband and a GREAT Dad. I am very trustwrthy of him which is very new for me and it is a drama free relationship. One that I have never been in before. Am i just getting out of the lust stage (we have been together for 6 months) or am I actually falling out of love. I still want to spend all my time with him and dont want anyone else but continue to question my feelings for him and I dont know why?!?!?!?
Any help will do...thank you!
2007-01-17 05:57:38 · 6 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd say that what you're experiencing is normal. After 6 months of time you may be settling in for this relationship and wondering if there is anything else for you out there. I would consider it just a normal part of a continuing relationship. Think of what your life would be right now without him?
2007-01-17 06:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by kb6jra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did this myself, with my first love. After 7 years I convinced myself that I didn't love him but I cared for him just as much (after all the lust or excitement was gone). I saw ourselves having kids and not finishing high school...so I did what I had too. I asked for some time, a year. He didn't understand and told me that he was nothing without me...but I convinced him otherwise, he is now finished high school and is working to go to college. We are still the best of friends and do not lie to each other, but it just isn't there anymore for us...friends is all we are. We are now in our late 20s and seeing other people.
So if your confused about your spark, it's still there. Just be sure on what you need and speak with him about it...you never know he may feel the same.
2007-01-17 14:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by LoStN8tive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is all the things that you say he is. I might want to believe that you have some unresolved issues within yourself. Do you feel like you should not have someone that your are attracted to, should you not be with someone who really makes you happy. I always tell people never to settle for less than their best. Do you know what your best is.
2007-01-17 14:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 6 month stage!
as anyone will say, its hard to tell you if you still love this guy as i dont know you or him... you could talk to him about it...see what he thinks...if that is not an option, give it another month, if you still feel the same or even worse...bail! no point wasting time with someone you not really into
2007-01-17 14:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by fireman sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you stop falling in love is when you actulaay begin to feel real love.
maybe you are not used to real love and do not recognize it. it is up to you if you wanna stay with him, and look insid eyou to figger it out.
2007-01-17 14:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by happyday to you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just your defenses that are making you question how you feel for him. From what I read you do love him but your just unsure that this is how you should feel for him and so soon. try and stop analysing how you feel for him and just let yourself feel.
2007-01-17 14:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋