her boyfriend is violent with baby not her.she now wants to go out of our lives. she no longer seems to care if she sees her daughter. how can i help her get back on the right path again/
2007-01-17 05:59:20 · 5 answers · asked by jntjesper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, the first thing that popped in my mind is if this was her boyfriends child. And anyman, or any ONE who can be violent with children, especially a helpless infant, well you better believe he is MORE than capable of hurting your daughter physically as well. I am sorry that she has not realized what a blessing she has just been given and what joys in life she is going to miss out on because she is choosing to follow a - I do not even want to call him a man because a REAL MAN would be taking care of his child and woman- but for lack of a better word, follow a man. That is really sad. How old is your daughter. You can try to talk to her, make her see what she will be missing out on but in the end if she is going to not be around and her mind is set there then that is what she is going to do until she changes, or somehting drastic happens that makes her change her mind and then at that point she better hope that it is not too damn late to come waltzing back into her daughers life after abadoning her like that over d*c*!!!! You may want to send her to counseling and get her away from that person...why would you give up your child because the man in you rlife is abusing it??? I would be walkign out of his life WITH my baby. As a mother also I understand you do not want to push your own child away but if she wants to act liek a looser then...there is not too much you can do. I am so happy that that child has a wonderful grandmother such as yourself though to pick up where her own mother has left her. God bless you and your family ma'm!!!
2007-01-17 06:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by S'Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. If having a child doesn't change a woman...NOTHING WILL. If she was to take her baby back it would more than likely spend most of it's life playing second string to a man and being mistreated. Your daughter probably thinks of your grandbaby as a mistake and something that just complicates her life....instead of the greatest gift God can give anyone.
2007-01-17 06:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by mama4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do not seem to be rude, But I do not think there is anything you can do. If she choses to be with a man over her Daughter,Than I would just let her go. Mayby some day when he gets violent with her she will relalize what a mistake she made...
2007-01-17 06:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by rowebaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must be deeply depressed, or terrified of going agnist this man anyone who could be abusive to a infant is proably abusive to anyone including your daughter.or it could be drugs what ever the reason you can't change how she feels or get her to leave this man all you can do is take care of this baby and love it (if you have it i hope you do) sometimes people need to hit rock bottom in order to begin to see the error in their ways. you should start with a counsler abd speak with them on behalf of your daughter matbe they will be able to point you in the right direction..i hope you get the help you need give that baby all the love you have and hopefully one day she'll come around
2007-01-17 06:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by auntie s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. She is S.O.S. (stuck on stupid) and choosing this loser over her own child. She will live to regret it or she wont but you can not make her do anything.
2007-01-17 06:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋