I need some advice!?

Question

Last night my husband and I were laying in bed and he was laying over my legs playing with my daughter. Well, I started to fall off the bed and because he was laying on my legs I couldn't prevent it. I told him to get off of me while wiggling and trying not to fall. I ended up kneeing him in his throat be accident. I totally understand that it hurt but he blew up at me. He started by telling me F*** You, then he went on to tell me to blow it out of my a**, then he told me I was a B****. I told him that I didn't talk to him like that and that he was not going to talk to me like that. He told me that he would talk to me anyway he wanted to. I just rolled over and went to bed and left it at that. He has called me names before but never that bad. It hurt alot and I'm not sure I will ever get over it. My question is, should I just let it go? How am I supposed to act like I'm not hurt when I am? I know I can't give him the silent treatment forever but I don't want to talk to him

Answer 1

In fact, you do not let it go by keeping silent or by just thinking about that you are hurt. Do not act like that nothing happened because this will just make you feel more hurt. Show him your objection...Talk to him ...Tell him that his words really hurt you and that he should stop talking to you like that. Tell him that he should respect your feeling as just you do... Tell him every thing you want to say about this..Do not keep any thing in your heart...This will make you get rid of your pain. Whatever his reply to you when you talk to him, you will feel relax again because you release your anger outside you...This is the only way to let it go in my opinion....I hope my opinion will help you and good luck .

Answer 2

You know what, the only thing I can say is try not to give him the silent treatment. Not talking is not always good. Most men don't like to talk until they want to and you should not give him the silent treatment at all. If anything I gather your child was there while he was carrying on and cursing you out. I suggest he apologize to you in front of your child for acting the way he did last night for no reason. Accidents do happen. A sorry from you should have been enough. I hope everything will work out. I have the tendency to blow up too but you know what we are all human and yes we all have feelings.

Answer 3

Emotional Abuse...is worse than physical abuse...it stays inside and it won't heal like bruises will and it won't leave a scar the way a cut does. So ask yourself what abuse do you want to live with, cause if hes abusing you emotionally, how long before he does it physically and your "silent treatment" will be a trigger to the physical abuse.