Other - Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

I am going to be babysitting on Friday...it's not the first time (it's my two year old cousin), but I've never made my aunt and uncle pay me before. They want to pay me this time, as long as I set the rate. I'm not sure what it should be! I will be babysitting for about three or four hours.

2006-12-20 11:18:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres a boy at my sckoolthat i like and he dosent like we were frineds till i told him that i like him alot

2006-12-20 11:12:43 · 17 answers · asked by jordan ♥s him 1

My ex turned up 3 hours late and drunk to see our son on his 11th birthday. He has always been violent when he's been drinking and i was rather scared as were my two boys (9 and 11.)
I have told the ex in the past not to come to my house with drink on him and now i don't know what to do. I don't want him to think it's ok for him to do what he likes and treat us like sh1t.
How can i stop him turning up drunk again ?

2006-12-20 11:08:28 · 16 answers · asked by shamoolax 3

I was called to meet my boyfriend this evening but i delayed and when i got to our appointed place i could not find him and he refused to pick up my call on his cell phone claiming i ve delayed so much and he wants to leave.So i decided to hide somewhere at the corner and watch because i suspected he met another lady there only to see him with some male friends chatting and laughing, i felt so fooled and got so mad that i yelled at him and told him never to call me again and i hate my race and i will never date a black guy again and "it is over".Im i wrong???

2006-12-20 11:00:50 · 39 answers · asked by BeautyBreak H 4

hey...have you guys ever wanted to forget everything about yourself and be someone else even if it was just for moment?

2006-12-20 10:51:16 · 10 answers · asked by Piano_is_what_I_do 1

We have been together for nearly 10months now, we love each alot. one thing that has been bothering me for a while now is that me and my bf aren't officially going out yet. he says he wants to take it slow cos with his previous relationships they have all ended bad cos he was either trying to hard to make it work or not trying at all. he says he wants it to come naturally and spontaneously. i've learnt to respect his wishes. cos i understand the crap he went thru with his last gf. and also he doesn't go off with other girls and i dnt go off with other guys as we talked bout it. he says we're more or less going out but officially. My friends say after they met him thats he is affraid of committment cos he talks bout it with them cos he knows im concerned!!! what do you think???

2006-12-20 10:42:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think that parents prove they love their kids more by buying them great gifts? If they had to go in debt for that gift would that really prove how much they care?

2006-12-20 10:25:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well say...that u like this guy but he gets a g/f thats not u....or u like this guy but he's stuck between u and another girl...does this happen for a reason such as God has his special "place" for you to be??

2006-12-20 10:23:56 · 16 answers · asked by Shorty 1

I want to get my boyfriend something he'll really like for Christmas but I'm low on money... actually have about $12 bucks. :( I already bought him a couple things but I want to get him something else. Is there I can possible make or at least afford for him for around that price? Any creative ideas? He's 16, into anime, video games, and writing.

2006-12-20 10:21:10 · 8 answers · asked by Your Next Bestfriend 1

l was with my girlfriend for almost 1and a half year.My girlfriend was coming to Germany to visit me. On her way, she met a man and through conversations, changed numbers. since l was 5 minutes late, she called me with the cell phone from the man to ask me where l was. l told her l will be there in 5 minutes. I asked her on the phone, where she was callin from and she told me a man help her. I told her, l will be happy to say thanks to the man but withing 2 minutes that l was there, the man was gone. Ok, we left the train station and drove home. On the way l asked her why she did not allow me to thank the man for his hospitality. she said because the man got to live. I asked then did u change numbers and she said "yes we did" l asked her if she still needs the number , then she said no, so she deleted the number. In 5 months time again, whiles she was coming, she met another man, exchanged numbers and when l saw the number she told me it was the number from her mums friend but was n

2006-12-20 10:12:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

girls, in a "no rules" fight between a girl and a guy, who would win? and tell why... anything goes

2006-12-20 10:06:41 · 4 answers · asked by chelsea 1

One of my workmates is a real pain in the ****, and I am constantly complaining about him to my other workmates. Just now he brought me a really lovely Christmas gift, and I went in and hugged and thanked him. I really do appreciate it. But now I feel horrible, and two-faced… am I being two-faced?

2006-12-20 10:03:18 · 16 answers · asked by Slikemema 1

My husband and I are in a stupid fight. I believe the only french fries to eat are store bought, lightly sprinkeled with season salt and baked. He thinks the only way to eat them are homemade sprinkeled with season salt, rolled in flour, and deep fried in oil. What do you think? We are having sloppy joes for supper and I WAS going to makes fries to go with them, but now I think I'll just open a bag of chips!

2006-12-20 09:58:44 · 4 answers · asked by Bekka 3

If you were homeless and you had one dollar to your name, and you played the lottory and won10,Million dollar's would help your family. but keep in mind they did not help you ,when you needed them the most.but as soon as they found out you hit the lott they come running to you what can I do for ,you ?you could have live with me, I dent know you need help , what would you do

2006-12-20 09:46:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

In school i am someones secret Santa and i dont know what to bring them.Can you please tell me some of the things i can bring?

2006-12-20 09:34:55 · 6 answers · asked by Jenny 1

please give me the average :)

2006-12-20 09:33:59 · 17 answers · asked by zack_hs14 1

My gosh, every year I have to claw the walls, so to speak to find just the right gifts for my husband, father, sons-in-laws, and now, even my grandsons, while my mother, daughters and granddaughters are so easy and fun to buy for. Is it just me or do other people feel this way, too?

2006-12-20 09:25:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

we r both 14 and we have only been dating for a week

2006-12-20 09:19:38 · 11 answers · asked by lover boy 1

I'm 30 and am struggling with the decision of whether to have children. I like children. I believe I would be a good mother. I love the idea of motherhood, except one thing. On the selfish side, I worry about my livelihood. I don't want to work the rest of my life, struggling to make ends meet, retiring when I'm too tired to enjoy it. I don't have the fear of not having someone to take care of me, because if I don't have children, I hope to be able to afford to pay someone to take care of me. And, before you get on me about how selfish it is to not want to have children because "I want to retire earlier", let me say that I can list several reasons people give to have children that are just as selfish.

I'm not looking for reasons to have or not to have children. I'm really wondering, for those that didn't have them, do you regret it now? Or, do you still have the fear that you may someday regret it? Will I live with the constant question, "Did I make the right choice?

2006-12-20 09:10:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last spring I called Family Services on my Sister Inlaws ex husband because I knew for a fact that he was molesting his 3 kids. And know the 3 kids are acting out sexualy with each other and get this, they are just under 6 years old. So, my sister inlaw told me all that was happening and so I had no choice but to call and turn him in. So I did. Because the kids didn't say that it was happening, they have no proof that it was. So nothing happened. The kids still go over to his house and are still being molested. The mom NEVER bathes the kids, never has them in clean clothes. The 5 year old little girl has a Urinary Tracked Infection and their mom won't take her to the doctor. It just makes me sick! I don't know what to do because I hate seeing these kids in this type of environment. I saw the kids at the store the other night and they looked like homeless children.They smelled real bad and their clothes were so dirty. What should I do? Should I call DCFS again? Please help

2006-12-20 09:07:31 · 5 answers · asked by I love my kids! 2

2006-12-20 09:04:17 · 5 answers · asked by vegeta_4121 2

I was going out with this guy that was completely obsessed with me. He "loved" me. I never bought it, and eventually I dumped him. Now my he's going out with another girl, who is "way better than me" she's the complete oposite of me, so we don't get along. I'm not in speaking terms with either of them.
He likes her a lot (right) and now, somehow he found out that I still had feellings for him(which I don't) so he wants to flirt with me when she's not around. I'm so mad. He thinks that I really like him, and he could be with both of us at the same time. He said he didn't love me anymore, and this new girl, he was just using her at first to get over me. He's such an asshole, I'm glad i dumped his ***. What should i do? I want to get him back. Her too. She doesn't even know me, and yet she talks bad about me. It's probablly his fault too. I want to get him back so bad. what should I do?

2006-12-20 09:02:10 · 13 answers · asked by and so it begins... 6

I've been with him for six years and we've now been apart for a month. I wasn't faking beeing in love with him so I have some days better than others I guess. He won't speak to me unless its a screaming match and he won't be honest. I have always felt like are honesty with each other would really keep us strong but I quess i was the only one being honest. He won't even give back all my things

2006-12-20 08:59:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-20 08:54:10 · 14 answers · asked by sadie n 1

2006-12-20 08:51:50 · 21 answers · asked by funky_monkeyjac 1

2006-12-20 08:49:41 · 35 answers · asked by ross c 1

okay so i am a white 20 yr old female and i date black males. i get a lot of crap and some looks when ppl find out i date a black male. why is it such a big deal. God created all of us and we all bleed the same color blood. we are just different shades. but the one thing that rly annoys me is i get it mostly from older white adults and younger black females. why is it they can't get ova it. it is not them that is dating him its me. why does it matter to them what i do with my life. I mean what is the big deal. So how do i deal with this and stand up for myself and him???

2006-12-20 08:43:43 · 10 answers · asked by khester05 2

This is a difficult situation. But Im just going to get to the point. I had issues of self-esteem, for no reason because now I just feel dumb, I did get some help. My Boyfriend and I had gotten into a large arguement. That involved me invading his privacy, his phone, and i seen a girl that I didn't know and I flipped for no reason. My mistake. But i started to provoke him and say stupid things to him and he got very upset. So he called me a name, and I got very upset so I slapped him in the face at least 3 times maybe. He had gotten so upset that he went and hit me back. Now I think about it and it was mostly my fault. But on his hand he should have never laid his hand on me since I am a Female, but I provoked it. He gotten some help. I've gotten helped and we realized we don't want to let our relationship go because we love each other, but maybe in time as it heals more then we can date again, Does this sound like a good idea, or should I just leave it?

2006-12-20 08:43:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

The age gap doesn't bother any of us, but what bothers me is that everytime he's in front of his friends, he acts like a macho jerk with little care for me and finds it hard to say 'I love you' to me in front of them too. Is it normal for guys to act like this?

2006-12-20 08:42:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my bf been togther for 1 year and iv never meet any of hes m8s before,hes seen all of my friends.he told me they are immature and they would just act childish around me.but my friend said somethink up if i havent meet any of hes m8s and we have been going out for 1 year.is that not good that iv meeet none of hes m8s

2006-12-20 08:40:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous